The Lunch Aides in my child's school are blowing whistles and yelling at my child.There is this one lady that looks like the devil, and she plucks my childs ear, also, the other day, my child came home telling me that a security guard yelled at her and telling her to go to After-Care even though she was going home because she wasn't feeling well. The deal is that he just bought a new laptop and he could care less if a stranger walked in because he is always watching a movie and always wants silence. Should I report this?
2007-01-26 11:56:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I would certainly report it. If your child is upset, than it is worth it. Can you talk to the principal? Even your child's teacher? I would take some kind of action because obviously its upsetting your child. If someone is acting like that in the schoolyard than they should not be working around kids.
2007-01-26 12:02:38 · answer #1 · answered by catcrazy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one has the right to yell at anyone elses child let alone plucking at their ear and blowing whistles, this is called bullying and is intolerable and should be reported until something is done.
The security guard is employed and paid to keep the school secure not spend his working time watching movies, the lap top should not be allowed during working hours.
2007-01-26 12:05:33 · answer #2 · answered by polynesiachick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally, i have no problem with someone yelling at my child (provided it was valid, and they deserved it), but the ear thing and those things, i would report it all in a heartbeat.
in my schools (i have four children and they go to 3 different schools [different grade levels] they all know me, and part the sea like moses for me. they cant stand me because i do report them, all the time. i dont care what they feel about me personally, provided they teach in a positive lawful manner.
i am a child advocate and i pizzz people off :)
what state is this?
in anycase, our first reaction is anger, but you must remain calm. if you dont, it only makes you look bad and makes you look like your over reacting.
rule #1, the principle is always full of crap; they tell you what you want to hear, do nothing and cover up their 'friends' behaviors. if its a lunch lady he/she may not cover her actions up, but if he/she is friends with them, you bet your bottom dollar they will.
rule#2 go to the superintendents office of your schools district. report your concerns. they usually do something about small complaints. its the big complaints they ignore.
email me if you need info, but if not, just report her to the superintendents office. tell them if she touches your child let alone even looks at him crooked your going to the state... that'll make her watch her p's and q's.
2007-01-26 14:10:58 · answer #3 · answered by Yvette B yvetteb 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would have been at the school that day and request that those two people, my child, the pricipal and I had a talk. Don't ever let something like that go.
2007-01-26 12:02:16 · answer #4 · answered by openminded 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
somebody already pronounced this in the past me, yet extremely incredibly the only thank you to confirm this depend is to affix your daughter in yet another college. i comprehend that would sound intense, yet you could look on the information of the concern right here. With six years left of faculty she is being harrassed by utilising a team of girls that is going to proceed attending that faculty until in addition they graduate. Any action which you address behalf of your daughter be it in the process the college board or the police is purely going to make issues worse on your daughter. that is with the aid of fact each pal or the ladies who do in comparison to your daughter will in turn look at her as a "narc" or a "whiner". My youthful sister went by way of this right same element around the time she became in eighth grade. The "time-honored teenagers" called her names and picked on her. She'd come domicile and cry to my mom who might attempt to make her sense extra appropriate by utilising saying, "Ohhhh... they are purely jealous of you honey". (Which became nowhere close to the reality). ultimately she switched to a distinctive college district 5 miles away and had an extremely relaxing intense college adventure. purely placed... you will no longer be able to restoration this concern. Bullying between teenagers would not purely "flow away" and attempting to punish those in contact will make this lots worse. college is extremely image orientated... who you're is set by utilising what you place on, what activities you play, what you look like, and at last what motor vehicle you force. those are the areas which you with the aid of fact the confirm can help administration.... sturdy success.
2016-11-01 09:21:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Voice your concerns through proper channels..
2007-01-26 12:09:27 · answer #6 · answered by Juliette 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
me i wold had fu*ked their *** up man cause no one yells at my child except me ! also they have no right to do that and touch my child u would see the po-pos come up in here.
2007-01-26 12:19:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
no. children need discipline.
2007-01-26 12:34:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
report it??? i would go there and f*uck them up!!!
2007-01-26 12:01:02 · answer #9 · answered by mr_fury666 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋