Ok I with people in the past but I want to know what everyone else thinks. Anyway there's this girl that I have been talking to and she comes around at lunch and talks to me (her friends don't like me much and don't know why). I am starting to like her alot and would like to see what she think of me. Now i have heard her say to her friend I am cute but I don't know what to think. All my friends say they all think she likes me and today I happened not to talk to her at lunch (I was hanging out with some friends). But when I walked by her she was siting alone not talking to her friends or anyone. I passed by with out saying one word and now I feel bad. nyway would you say she likes me and if so how should I make my approach?
2007-01-26 11:46:18 · 47 answers · asked by comando cop 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That first sentance got messed up just pass by it.
2007-01-26 11:48:05 · update #1
Dont you think 14 is a little bit to young to be dating. Wait a couple of years before dating.
2007-01-26 11:50:47 · answer #1 · answered by The Zunester 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You Really Need To Stop Filling Your Head With "Dating Problems", They Don't Exist When You Are 14!!! You Are Way Too Young To Be Bothered With Things You Can't Comprehend, If You Need To Come Here And Ask These Type Of Questions, Your Out Of League. Not To Mention What Do You Consider Dating, Holding Hands During Lunch Period? That's Not Dating, Thats A Innocent Crush That Has NO Possibilty Of Ever Becoming Anything In The Real World! Yes, It's Cute And May Melt Your Mothers Heart, But You Have More Important Things To Worry About During These Important Years Of Your Life, Concentrate On Your Future Not A Silly Crush!!!!
2007-01-26 12:53:21 · answer #2 · answered by gr8one129 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok - it does sound like she likes you. Although you feel bad for passing her by without saying anything you did something you don't realize you did. Usually not paying attention to a girl you are not officially dating will be more attracted to you because you didn't pay attention to her. I know it sounds like it should be the other way around - but generally the statement holds true. There are women too that will be mad because you didn't talk to them while they were alone. They will still like you more most of the time - don't ask me why - if I had that answer I would be rich. LOL - Also - she may not have wanted you to talk to her and that is why she was sitting alone. So you did good no matter what really. Don't feel bad that you walked by. Remember - she didn't say anything to you either. Good move in my book. If you want her to really like you don't pay constant attention to her or she will think you are soft. I'm sure there are women that want you to be a push over and soft - but those women are typically controlling and you don't want to be with a controlling person anyway - noone should be with a controlling person - male or female - let the controlling ones get together with themselves...then they can enjoy controlling each other and leave the rest of us alone - LOL. PeAcE
2007-01-26 12:00:21 · answer #3 · answered by ant.dabomb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way you will know if she is interested is to approach her. Be yourself, walk up to her and maybe pay her a compliment. Nothing too strong, or too personal. If she belongs to a club or after school sports team ask a question, she will appreciate your interest in something she is interested in.Always be a gentleman! if you or this girl are shy, a simple hello and a smile will be a nice easy start. Use good old common sense, and don't let your friends pressure you into anything you are not ready for.
2007-01-26 12:18:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might like you but you'll never know for sure unless you make a move. You could try asking her friends if she would want to go out, but just approach her when she is alone and ask her if she wants to hang out. If she thinks you are cute and actually told someone about it then there is a strong chance that she would be willing to go out with you.
2007-01-26 11:58:06 · answer #5 · answered by techs_hate_you 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay. I am a girl and a little advice about girls: They like you to make the first move...but just because a girl saysyour cute DOESNT mean she wants to date you. Me and my friends will always say "Oh he's hott!" but that doesnt mean we like them...your situation seems different though. If she's in your class, compliment her. Maybe do a corney little pick up line with a joking tone. (if she likes that.) I say you go for it and ask her out. If she says no then just say something like "Ok well it was worth a try...were cool right?"...well I hope I said some usefull stuff!
2007-01-26 12:01:51 · answer #6 · answered by hellothereeveryone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say she likes you!!!! Be happy. Second, if she talks to you, talk to her. Ask her about an assignment. Or when she's alone at lunch ask her where her friends are and if she'd like to eat lunch over by you! Small steps to a conversation. If you feel bold enough, ask if she wants to hang out with a bunch of friends on whatever day.
2007-01-26 11:51:43 · answer #7 · answered by Catherine H 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hello and welcome to the world of young love---you are like millions of others of your age---trying to figure out the ways of meeting and talking to the opposite sex. The first thing to remember is nobody will bite you for simply walking up and saying hello. It doesn't get any easier than that. I like to remind young people that you have to start experiencing approach techniques and the art of conversation. Be cool, talk nice, be a good listener, be interesting, and respectful--this is maturity and it is also successful. Grooming is also important,,,dress nice and appropriately, hair, teeth, and nails clean, all say that you are date material. It comes with age----the wisdom and strength for mixing with others and dating. Good luck and have fun.
2007-01-26 18:37:09 · answer #8 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm pretty sure she likes you. when you guys are talking one day, and the convo has to end, tell her that you enjoyed talking to her. show an interest towards her that is a little more than just friends, but not like in a too obvious way. she should show her interest back if she has it. but if you are too powerful then if it turns out that she cant return the favor, it could turn out awkward. so when you are more subtle in you interest, the relation will more likely develop stronger. hope that helps you out and good luck!
2007-01-26 13:26:04 · answer #9 · answered by ♥chikalee♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be shy, Just go up in confidence and with a nice friendly smile talk to her...Hold off a little while on asking her out... make her wonder just how much you like her, (also you are not risking too much) then when you are sure she likes you... You will know by the way she responds to you, ask her out.
2007-01-26 11:54:10 · answer #10 · answered by juls 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋