Family & Relationships - 23 January 2007

my wife is somewhat abusive and sometimes bites or even hits me.
I am one of those who cant beat woman, and does not matter what she does to me.
now she went to lawyer and she is saying that I am abusing her. (which is not true at all)
she was illegal alien before she was married to me. now she has conditional green card. we also have 1 year old daughter.
what are my chance to win a "war" against her? and possibly keep the child?
she is still citizen of Russia and daughter of course citizen of USA, so am I.
Reasonable answers welcome.

2007-01-23 20:26:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-23 20:25:47 · 6 answers · asked by RFJ 3 in Singles & Dating

I think IM'LL TRY TO KNOW HIM FIRST

2007-01-23 20:22:50 · 11 answers · asked by chichu 1 in Friends

She is a wonderful loving person and continously reaffirms her love for me. But I am absolutly panicked and cannot calm down! Any advice??

2007-01-23 20:16:34 · 6 answers · asked by Ben M 1 in Singles & Dating

I am educated and witty and very kind..I have manners and I am very polite.. but I can't seem to find a nice woman. that will appreciate me... what's up with that... i live in Sacramento CA

2007-01-23 20:15:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well, her race is Malay, I haven't seen her for 2 years for now. She loves to smile, but she don't smile much & never show her teeth in photos. Someday if I fix a date to meet her, I will love to take lots of photos and take a camcorder to video her. Do you think she will smile in photos? Will she show her teeth too? Her teeth is pearly white & straight, like she wore braces before, but she didn't.

2007-01-23 20:15:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Some people out their are kinda on another planet not all of you, but some of you. My Story... I met and fell in love with a woman and she was what I thought at the time, everything. She had selfish attributes but didn't let them get me down in the beginnining. C.R came along, we married soon after and a few years later J.A be it by accident, came along but loved none the less to bits. Over the period of these years she became more selfish and very loveless towards me. Years of constant rejection and knock backs just took its toll on me. I then took her on a surprise break to Paris in a desperate attempt to get my marriage on track. This did nothing in the long run but a smile on her face on the weekend in question. Some other selfish things by her shortly afterwards finally broke me. I decided the time was right and though heartbreaking at time moved on. Now I'm the one having to fight for access to see my kids. I can sleep at night but can she? Am I such a bad person for walking out?

2007-01-23 20:13:54 · 20 answers · asked by SuperDAD 1 in Marriage & Divorce

he seems really nice and genuine but he is older and i just don't know what to do also he lives in a different country to me please help

2007-01-23 20:13:47 · 29 answers · asked by jcathy 3 in Singles & Dating

Practically we have no need for 2 accounts. But is that needed to have separate accounts? We are soon going to be married. What do you do? Please advise.

2007-01-23 20:12:50 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

u r marriage was not happend with u r loved once after marrying some one . will u maintain friend relationship or only sex relation.

2007-01-23 20:12:35 · 17 answers · asked by vijetha v 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

What have they done that have gave you a lasting memory ? Good memory I mean.

2007-01-23 20:09:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

The guy you're dating, or about to date, I meant.

2007-01-23 20:08:57 · 14 answers · asked by purringout 3 in Singles & Dating

even not fancy things, but kept in your memories and gave you sleepless nights...

2007-01-23 20:08:53 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

went to a church meeting and all they spoke about was money, and afterwards i tried to talk to people and no one seemed interested, i stood next to an old lady at the end on her own. just watching people chat it was chat. It was a big meeting as well, not the little, it was horrible it was. i saw everyone sitting with their friends it was horrible. is it me or them. i don,t think i am unfriendly, my friend said she,s had enough of it.

2007-01-23 20:08:32 · 2 answers · asked by denise g 2 in Friends

I don't use myspace, but recently made a profile. To make a long story short, on my boyfriend's profile, there were many many MANY comments from a specific girl, with messages that I think are unacceptable to be giving to a man with a girlfriend. He must not have minded, though, or he would have deleted them and not have accepted her friendship. The messages spanned a long time, thanking him for gifts he mailed, talking about plane tickets, "I love you," some sexual comments I won't mention, etc. From the comments, it seems that they had quite a relationship. The comments calmed down, but all of them took place in a span of 4 months, all of which that we were together. It's been almost a year since the comments.
Has it been too long for me to question, even though we WERE together during that time?
Is it silly to be concerned/upset/hurt over stupid comments on a website?
And does online-dating (if that's what they were doing "count" as cheating, in your book?

2007-01-23 20:07:25 · 10 answers · asked by Beautiful Mistake 1 in Singles & Dating

the ages are 4,5,and 6

2007-01-23 20:06:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

1. He said he like big girls...tada...I'm a big girl!
2. He asked if I like black guys. I do!
3. He says it means a lot to him when I say
BYE before I leave work, but I have to walk to another
department to do so.
4. He makes sure to say when we'll work together again.
Like when I left Monday...He said see ya Friday.
5. If I'm not there, he goes to my boss to see what's wrong.
I've been sick a lot this year.
6. He says he wouldn't mind coming over to help me wash my car for free. He made everyone else pay.
7. He kinda stays away from me but watches me from a distance.
8. He says I matter more than all the other females at work.
9. I thought he had a girlfriend, but he said she's not a gf. What is "just a friend"?
10. He mentiones me to other people when I'm not anywhere around and they tell me later. Like he brags on my music to friends.
He jokingly asked me to GO TO HAWAII with him. I said I'd have to know what "this" was before I'd go ...He said You're my friend! So?

2007-01-23 20:04:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

' M ' Is for the million things she gave me,

' O ' Means only that she's growing old,

' T ' Is for the tears she sheld to save me,

' H ' Is for her heart of purest gold,

' E ' Is for her eyes,with love light shining,

' R ' Means right and right she'll always be.

Put them all togather they spell
" MOTHER "
A word that means the world to me.

What u think.Am i right or wrong?
Pls tell me more about mother.pls
Thanks.....

2007-01-23 20:04:15 · 25 answers · asked by Trust 2 in Family

i want to tell my mum about my new boyfriend. thing is as soon as i tell her my nan will be on the phone to me lecturing me etc. they just don't let me live my own life i'm 17, 18 next year. how can i make them see that it's my life, i cant keep doing things to make them happy. it makes it worse coz i woz the 1st born daughter and 1st born grand daughter. they're just 2 overprotective over me. plz help.

2007-01-23 20:03:05 · 16 answers · asked by Amy 2 in Family

my wife wants to separate from me but in turn she is asking me the shop i run and my flat and if i do not give her what she wants then she will take legal action against me , by putting a false allegation on me, like i hit her/i'am voilent etc, and she will make an FIR under IPC 498. please help if any body in india has got some way out , to save my self and property from this woman . she if 4 yrs elder to me ,wealso have a 6 yeras old daughter , and right now i have left my house and business and i'am living with my brother in a different town , because if i return home then the next step my wife will be taking is that she will be calling the police and will get me booked under the law. when i was with her she used to quarell and use abusive language against me and my family every day , on every small things she quarells. I being an Indian citizen I find myself so helpless and paralised that our country's law and order has not provided any security for husbands against such cruel wife

2007-01-23 19:58:08 · 12 answers · asked by sachin464 1 in Marriage & Divorce

a couple of weeks ago i was at a family party with my wife .
her siter who is married was drunk and when my wife was in other room my sister inlaw asked me if i masterbated and that she masterbated to male magazines and her husband didnt mind and then she said that she had fantasised about me several times and that its normal and told me to admit that i did masterbate i told her to f--- of but i have avoided her ever since and i dont know wether to tell my wife it would upset her.what do you make of this. and how do i act the next time i see her

2007-01-23 19:58:03 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

best way to tell my mum i want to move out and live wih my boyfriend,about 2 hours car journey ....how do i break it to her???help!!!!!i'll be 18 in september and want to start college there too.

2007-01-23 19:57:51 · 10 answers · asked by Mal S 1 in Family

Hi.. I have been online for a long time now and none of my friends is there to have a conversation. If you are one amongst those who are looking out to have a chat or an interesting conversation, please IM me, and I would be delighted to speak to you.
Thanks.

2007-01-23 19:57:31 · 3 answers · asked by Sunshine 3 in Singles & Dating

met this girl the other night and talked to her a little, so I found her on facebook even though she goes to a different school and I poked her, so she poked me back the next day, should I poke her back, add her as a friend, or send her a message, I want to have intercourse (will they not delete the question now?) with ehr..jk but anyways whats the proper etiquitte?

2007-01-23 19:56:27 · 6 answers · asked by wafflehouse 4 in Singles & Dating

I know this may sound silly but I'm really curious. Do all men get their foreskin cut off or something? If so why and when does it happen? And what if they don't?
I never heard of anything about it before untill just now. Plz tell me. Thank you!

2007-01-23 19:55:47 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok, me and a load of mates goin on holiday soon, and my best mate wants to come and has no money because she is off work recovering from an operation and feels a holiday will cheer her up, and i cant lend her all the money because i only just have enought, what can she do to make money fast (in the uk) she has about just under a month, please help, i dont want to leave her behind!

2007-01-23 19:54:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Hi,

i am unable to stop friendship with a guy who is asking me for a physical relationship. He talks to me only on that now a days.
And for marriage he is looking for another girl. I haven't yet committed with him. But worried that he has the talent to make me do it. What can i do now?

2007-01-23 19:52:49 · 14 answers · asked by lovely 1 in Friends

Anyone has any suggestions on what to get for a birthday girl?
"It's the thoughts that counts"
So after reading that quoted sentence, what is the best thing to give to make that birthday a memorable one?

2007-01-23 19:52:11 · 9 answers · asked by FSC 2 in Friends

what should i do. my heart don`t like any female from then. i just wait only for him, forgetting about love with others. Now he is engaged with another person.. and i am suffering alot...kindly help...i am in serious trouble...(my love was with out sex etc.). provide me links where I should satisfy my soul...thanks....
i know i am wrong...but for him my mind, heart, emotions...every thing don`t work...just i am jammed....he has never showed loyalty with me...it is just one sided love....but still i believe he loves me too....

2007-01-23 19:47:27 · 3 answers · asked by banyamin12 1 in Singles & Dating

I love my partner so much it hurts and makes me feel insecure at times

2007-01-23 19:47:03 · 4 answers · asked by See it as 3 in Other - Family & Relationships