a couple of weeks ago i was at a family party with my wife .
her siter who is married was drunk and when my wife was in other room my sister inlaw asked me if i masterbated and that she masterbated to male magazines and her husband didnt mind and then she said that she had fantasised about me several times and that its normal and told me to admit that i did masterbate i told her to f--- of but i have avoided her ever since and i dont know wether to tell my wife it would upset her.what do you make of this. and how do i act the next time i see her
2007-01-23 19:58:03 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
shes done things like this in the past and i told my wife that i think there is a lot of jealousy but my wife said that there is no such thing as jealousy between sisters.just heard she wants to leave her husband as she feels she has fallen out of love for him they have only been married two years and have a kid and her husband is a good man ????
2007-01-23 22:27:49 · update #1
stay away from her
2007-01-23 22:28:22 · answer #1 · answered by traveller 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is a difficult situation. Would your wife be more upset if she found out about this from someone other than you? If you think that she would, then you need to let her know. As for the next time you have to be around here, be polite but try not to find yourself alone with her again.
2007-01-27 19:57:15 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell your wife. There would be no good to come out of it, except to exacerbate the situation. Hopefully, it was a one time thing with your sister-in-law being drunk and she will mention it no more. If she does, it's just going to be your obligation to put her in her place and tell her that it's not any of her business and if she keeps up, you WILL have to tell your wife.
2007-01-23 20:45:07 · answer #3 · answered by gg55 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't tell your wife, you'll hurt her feelings and there is nothing she can do about it. I don't think that it's that much problem for you, just forget about that incident, maybe she was too drunk and lost her mind for a moment, maybe something else, but it doesn't matter, just try to keep a little distance, that's it. Next time you meet her just act as nothing has happened at all, that's it!
2007-01-23 22:52:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do decide to tell your wife, remind her that her sister was drunk. People do a lot of stupid things when they're drunk.
I would avoid being alone with that woman again in future.
2007-01-23 20:16:26 · answer #5 · answered by Cynthia D 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she wants u. either to piss off her sister or shes thirsty for attention. good man to tell her to f*ck off. tell your wife because if u dont, u run the risk of her sister one day mentioning it and ur wife will wonder why u never told her. maybe u should print this page and keep it in safe place as proof... : )
2007-01-23 20:11:56 · answer #6 · answered by j 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You must tell your wife, this woman is dangerous, remember next time she could say things about you to your wife. With regard with how to react when you next she her - don't see her.
2007-01-23 21:27:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U shud tell ur wife unless u have urself designs on her sister. It will at least reduce ur contact with her.
2007-01-23 22:00:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes tell you wife--if you can;t bring yourself to tell your wife---then the next time your sister-in-law comes on to you---tell her to go ask your wife the same thing she;s asking you-and if she doesn;t then go at that time and tell her whats going on---if you don;t it will come back on you some day.
2007-01-23 20:23:53 · answer #9 · answered by mikeh_frog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes tell your wife. Because if she tells your wife, your wife will feel that you were up to something or hiding something. TELL YOUR WIFE
2007-01-24 00:38:53 · answer #10 · answered by sbratt2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me that he would be the lucky man if she leaves. And you would be a lucky man too. You could take care of both sisters.
2007-01-27 10:37:30 · answer #11 · answered by The 5 pound Robin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋