Family & Relationships - 23 January 2007

I met my husband about 13 years ago. I found out after being w/him (as a boyfrined) for several years that he had cheated on me with one of my friends. It took time, but I forgave him because I thought he was sincerely sorry. We got back together & a few years later I became pregnant. Just after our daughter was born I found out he had cheated on me again while I was pregnant. Again, for the sake of the children, I forgave him & moved back in. Recently he told me he had met somebody & had an inapropriate relationship (not sex) with her & that it was because I didn't make him feel special & loved (jeez I wonder why). We were in the process of a divorce but he promised me that if I tried to be a better wife he would never do it again. I foolishly believed him & now I suspect he is cheating again with one of my friends who happens to be his friends wife. I am very depressed & need to talk. Are there free counseling servces on line

2007-01-23 18:45:07 · 12 answers · asked by speekup2002 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I love someone who was in my country bangladesh,but before few month she go U.S.A and now she is saying that to forget her is it possible can some one tell me.I hate her than to every thing in the world.Bu miss her and feel her yet

2007-01-23 18:44:51 · 5 answers · asked by SUMAN 1 in Singles & Dating

Does time make cheating acceptable? Do you consider it "in the past?" Do you still make as big of a deal as you would have if you found out during/right after the relationship?

Scenario: A man has been married to his wife for 3 years, and finds out that during their first year of marriage, his wife had a "fling" with a male co-worker for a few months.
If it was dating with NO sex involved, what would your reaction be?
What if there was sex involved?


This isn't ME! Just curious.. does time "heal" cheating?
I don't think it changes what happened.
Your opinions?

2007-01-23 18:44:34 · 16 answers · asked by krista 1 in Singles & Dating

How much does an hour of child care in california cost? How much do you earn on taxes with a non-working spouse?

My fiance and I are trying to decide whether I'll be a stay at home mom or working mom once we have kids... Thanks for your input.

2007-01-23 18:44:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I have a feeling that my boyfriend is talking to other girls and hanging out with them when I am away. I dont know if it is just platonic or if it is going to lead to something else. I feel really jealous what should I do???

2007-01-23 18:42:41 · 8 answers · asked by Dakota S 1 in Singles & Dating

my thoughts are so tempting,
I don't know how it got so bad.

My friends won't talk to me anymore because of my alcohol problem. The girl who I really liked won't talk to me anymore either.
I feel shattered. I feel depressed. I feel alone.
Not even counseling can fix this problem. Dear Lord....and the girl will probably never talk to me, ever.
Anyone been this path? What did you do?

2007-01-23 18:41:52 · 13 answers · asked by wad up 1 in Singles & Dating

If your husband is having a affair with another women and you want to suite her for distrubing your home.

2007-01-23 18:38:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

When your bf is drunk and says he likes boys is he drunk and sayin rubbish or does he mean it ?? and when he says he loves me does he mean it?

2007-01-23 18:37:19 · 7 answers · asked by amyhamad 1 in Singles & Dating

Mostly people expect their wives to b virgin, though the groom is seldom found inexperienced. My question is, if a woman is good at heart but not a virgin, how many men are ready to accept her?
For example : rape cases ?

2007-01-23 18:34:47 · 26 answers · asked by rani 1 in Marriage & Divorce

just thought i would ask!!

2007-01-23 18:34:45 · 14 answers · asked by THE ACTS OF POWER 2 in Singles & Dating

im 15 rite.. and i sorta like a 20 year old i mean hey dont get me wrong i know the rules but,... he is nice and i go for the bad boy style and thats what he is.. he likes me too. and my dads mates with him.. they get along great he asked me out but i said i have to think about it will this ruin my fathers relation ship with me if i date this "guy" remember thats 5 yrs different.

2007-01-23 18:34:38 · 8 answers · asked by kimberley l 1 in Singles & Dating

i love him more than everything, and he loves me very much. But he isn't happy, thinking that he is not good enough for me. (he's much older). please, help.

2007-01-23 18:33:40 · 8 answers · asked by Otter 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

We have been togerther for bout 3 years. Have a 9month old baby with him but we still boyfriend and girlfriend. If peope ask why don't we marry he always have excuses. But still everyday say he loves us. Doesn't spent alot of time with us and gets cross if baby cry or i sleep to deep or baby wake him up... I realy do love him... (i'm widow for 4 1/2 years now) but sometimes i think: is love realy enough?

2007-01-23 18:33:27 · 5 answers · asked by CinsTaylor 2 in Singles & Dating

Well Im extremely SHY so I've never really had a boyfriend. Usually when Im attracted to a guy i like i tend to avoid them! lol Well there is one guy at work that likees me. Problem is hes a lot older! Im 20 and Im assuming hes around 30. Should i give this guy a chance?

2007-01-23 18:33:16 · 1 answers · asked by deanda 3 in Singles & Dating

I have a best friend. I cared and loved for her a lot.
We went through so many obstacles together.
We had misunderstandings but we managed to work it out.
Recently, she became so angry with me and refused to tell me the reasons why. Instead, she went off with another girl.
What should I do? I don't want to lose her.
Can anyone tell me the solution to this? Please make it a peaceful and effective one. Thanks.

2007-01-23 18:32:00 · 12 answers · asked by FSC 2 in Friends

He was fun, silly, enthusiastic and intelligent, but was always looking for a rush of some kind and all the sports he was involved with seemed to be constant brushes with death...would you worry and would you stick around? Tell me your thoughts...

2007-01-23 18:31:28 · 2 answers · asked by wetdreamdiver 5 in Singles & Dating

I am currently separated from my husband. We have a daughter 6 and a son 4. The kids ad I are living with my mom in a more urban area where the schools aren't as good as the ones we moved from(in the subarbs). My husband is out in the burbs still where the better schools are. I have to make up my mind if I want to drive across town everyday for a better school or drive a few blocks to this one. The school by my mom is not horrible just a different atmosphere. My daughter is being teased and threatened by some kids. I also have an ulterior motive. If they're over there, I can be closer to my husband as I am hoping for a reconciliation.

2007-01-23 18:31:00 · 9 answers · asked by Veronique 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Is there any form of online counceling. My fiance told me that he's not in love with me and I feel suicidal. I honestly need someone to talk to. Im devastated. My whole world crashed overnight. I cant believe this. I tried to make him take it back..it just hurts too much...we were getting married this april.

2007-01-23 18:27:36 · 9 answers · asked by Starla 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my girl friend cheated,looted,plundered,betrayed me ..... she behaved just like a playgirl ... the girl for whom i have given everything i had is now gone ..... now i hate her more than ne body in my life .... .....whenever she comes into my mind i get into a fit of rage ..... plzz tell me how can i derive her outta my mind ... forever


P.S. For any one interested can look into my earlier questions .... it narrates a tragic love story from the very begining ....

2007-01-23 18:27:06 · 34 answers · asked by Parjanya Roy 2 in Singles & Dating

I want to captivate my crush. I am a grown woman and he makes me feel like I am brand new to the game. I get bashful and nervous. I know it is because I want to impress him. HOW?!! He is a tough one and has probably seen most everything. So I need some really juicy ideas!! HELP HELP

2007-01-23 18:27:01 · 8 answers · asked by Miss Green 2 in Singles & Dating

I am a Marine (just recently finished basic training) and I was wondering if it is true that women like men in uniform??

2007-01-23 18:26:12 · 16 answers · asked by uabsupercow 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-23 18:26:09 · 15 answers · asked by boardingchickie79 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Means to say,i'm 24 now but no girlfreind till now,how can i make a girlfreind?

2007-01-23 18:25:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-23 18:24:45 · 6 answers · asked by a.sayyadi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have lost trust in him....i want to trust and move on with our relationship.....but i find my self struggling with that....and i also find myself questioning if i should let hin go or have him come be with me.. right now he is with a friend in okland and i stay in SD..he says he understands where i come from when i say i dont want to try to work it out but he insists that we still try... do i let him come back but have him stay in a shelter do to living sitution or have him stay in okland with his friend... supposely...not his ex.... i have talked to the ex and she says its been over with them...and he isnt there....but she might be lyin 2..what do i do?

2007-01-23 18:24:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ya, ofcourse iam taking about my girlfriend. we were close lovers for 2 years. unfortunely our parents didnt agreed for marriage. Recently she got married with another guy. before her marriage she has taken promise from me that i should be her lover forever.After her marriage i called her she is taking to me like a stranger. when we were in relationship she used to respect me a lot. I am very down, missing her badly. i need her immotionally but she's ignoring me. Do all females go in a same manner if they get married to another person leaving their promises and lover to hell?plz help me ....

2007-01-23 18:24:42 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am in love with my best friend (who is a girl) and she really doesn't know. She loves waterfalls and there is this waterfall nearby that she has never been to so I decided to tell her that I want to take her somewhere (and not tell her where) and I plan on having a picnic set up on a huge rock that is over the waterfall beforehand......well then when we get near the waterfall at the top I am going to cover her eyes with my hands from behind and lead her to the top and then uncover them and she will see the waterfall and the picnic.....then I can tell her how I feel? Does this sound good or weird?

2007-01-23 18:24:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-23 18:23:12 · 14 answers · asked by duyenchau2180 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-23 18:23:08 · 9 answers · asked by someoneyoudontknow 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-23 18:22:42 · 2 answers · asked by rochell l 1 in Weddings