how many of men accept a woman .......?

Question

Mostly people expect their wives to b virgin, though the groom is seldom found inexperienced. My question is, if a woman is good at heart but not a virgin, how many men are ready to accept her?
For example : rape cases ?

Answer 1

In this day and age it isn't really necessary for women to be virgins. A lot of men would rather have someone experienced. And any man that wouldn't be with a woman just because she was raped and no longer a virgin is not worthy of having a woman anyway.

And to A_Patriot whoever the hell he is, I am from America and I WAS a virgin for my fiance. And he's the only man I have ever been with and we're getting married, so ***** off.

Answer 2

I don't think many realistic males care if a woman is a virgin. The fact is that in America, by the time you're of marrying age, most people aren't virgins. So I say no big deal.

But in our culture, we have some pretty unhealthy views. We see "used" women as a bad thing. But a "used" man is a stud. Humans are sexual and that isn't about to change any time soon and it's always been that way. Our culture is for some reason hung up about this. There are lots of historical reasons for this but I don't think we need to go there.

As for the last part of your message, dealing with a woman who has been raped may intimidate a man. Some women can recover from this type of traumatic experience quite well while others do not. I'm not sure what makes the difference. It probably depends a lot on the nature of the assault and the personality of the woman. Some stupid men think that a woman who has been raped somehow asked for it.

Again, our society has some weird ideas about sex and those ideas creep in all over the place.

But to answer your question, I don't think any reasonable male of marrying age expects his wife to be a virgin. Men don't lose their virginity by themselves so your supposition doesn't quite add up.

Best wishes.

Answer 3

Dear Rani, Now a days men don't expect their wives to be virgins so much. Sure there are the few who do, but it's widely accepted that they're not. If you think that no man is going to want you because you we're raped, you're very wrong. I had my virginity stolen from me when I was 15. I didn't wait till I was married, but I had a ring on my finger before I put out. So, don't worry about that.

Answer 4

My wife was raped before I met her and I still married her. Am I crazy then? Don't ask stupid questions. Just because you feel bad that you got around or were srewed over, doesn't mean it's ok to put this on all the other men out there. So your not a virgin anymore! big deal. Sounds to me like it's you that has the problem with no being a virgin not the men.

Answer 5

I know very few men who expect their future wives to be virgins, especially if they are not virgins themselves. Also, if you "lost your virginity" through rape, then you haven't really had sex, you were violently violated, so in many people's eyes you are still a virgin. Any man who would not accept you for something that is out of your control does not deserve you. God Bless

Answer 6

Chances of finding a virgin today of marrying age range from slim to none with slim walking out the door.

Both of the women I have considered marrying were previously experienced, as opposed to myself. There are other things that are more important, and if people expect to find a virgin at the expense of all other factors, they will most likely be disappointed as a whole.

Answer 7

Just act like yourself and he will love you. If you really want to, you can lie. A man can never know, at least not without sending you to a doctor.
Also, I know many people and I have found that the only kind of men that want a virgin are the really bad men that can't get anything else.

Answer 8

I would have no problem if the woman is good at heart.

My first wife wasn't a virgin--she was 18 when I met her. My second wife had been previously married.

My first wife didn't stay good at heart. My second wife is good at heart.

Don't lie about your lack of virginity, if you are not a virgin. Be truthful but you don't need to share a lot of details.

Intimacy doesn't depend on the girl being a virgin and it sometimes is easier when she isn't one.

Answer 9

I'm willing to. I mean, a lot of men have sex before marriage, and they sure aren't just using other men; they need women.

So, non-virgin women must exist and be able to marry, right? To me, I don't expect my future wife to be a virgin....because some things go to far when they really shouldn't.

It's a horrible thing to hold against someone.

Answer 10

1%. Exluding me. Dont open the mouth if it is a rape case or something like that where the girl is innocent. No man will ask for a virginity test before marriage. dont put things that happened in mind because it is not her fault.