ya, ofcourse iam taking about my girlfriend. we were close lovers for 2 years. unfortunely our parents didnt agreed for marriage. Recently she got married with another guy. before her marriage she has taken promise from me that i should be her lover forever.After her marriage i called her she is taking to me like a stranger. when we were in relationship she used to respect me a lot. I am very down, missing her badly. i need her immotionally but she's ignoring me. Do all females go in a same manner if they get married to another person leaving their promises and lover to hell?plz help me ....
2007-01-23 18:24:42 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Leave her alone. She is married and never should have made that promise to begin with. If she is happy with her husband, then she deserves to be left alone.
2007-01-23 18:27:51 · answer #1 · answered by bashnick 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Shame on you, first for neither been able to convince your parents nor able to marry your GF daring all consequences, as a true lover. Second you are not able to digest or accept her marriage. All it says is your never deserved her. When you were a coward with no possibility of marrying her, she had to get on to life and has rightly taken the next step of getting married whom her parent might have thought is the right match, and she is happy with her marriage. if you are true lover, respect relationships and is a MAN then you should gracefully accept her new relationship and get on with your life. Let her live her own.
2007-01-23 18:50:40 · answer #2 · answered by rtrnbhansingh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure she still loves you very much. But the fact remains that she is someone else's wife now. You both had the opportunity to stand up for your love by telling both parents how you both feel and that you both wasn't going to marry anyone else and stand for what you believe in and that was your love for her and hers for you. You both might have done this...but the fact remains that she is married to some else. Therefore, she can not and will not act as she had before with you. There's a saying that goes "God give me the strengh to accept the things I can not change and change the things I can and wisdom to know the difference" You have a life a head of you seek peace, happiness, love and God will bring someone in your life design for you unconditional love. God Bless.
2007-01-23 18:49:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you gotta know that if she really loves you or not.
If she is happily married with him the best is to let her go because the more you think about her promise the more you are going to regret loving her. which in the end might make u hate her completely. so if you really love her all you gotta do not come in between her married life.
2007-01-27 09:36:23 · answer #4 · answered by passive84 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear friend the society in which we are living do not allow as to break rules and dignity.Here in your case the situation is very genuine,for both of you.She is help less as she is now a wife of of certain respected person. The society in which we live has no permission to destroy one`s family prestige.she is looking to his hubby and also his family.she wants to be honest to them which is again a genuine reason for her to live in this society.So i advice you that as you are getting pain for this relation same is with her if you can't live without her as same with her also.Here you can`t blame her as she is helpless.But she can't forget you and at the same time she can`t cross the margin.To make this situation easier.Then help her if you love her seriously, by allowing her to do whatever she think is is good for her family and new bond society and introduce yourself as a best friend for ever in any ways. whenever she feel a need of you allow her to join you as a true friend.This will feel you and your friend more comfortable to live and sustain life with comfort and annoying each other that both of you are still for each other may not matters whatever the realitionship you are now following or want to joinby this you will become more closer and fast friend.andwill be enjoying true relationship and it will bond your friendship.
2007-01-23 19:18:20 · answer #5 · answered by masti 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consider the fact that if her husband ever catches you pursuing her or you DO happen to catch her at a vulnerable moment and sleep with her, in most states, he could kill you and do very little time because he's married to her. She is no longer free and you are interfering with her life choices. She is part of your past; learn from it and let her go, or risk ruining the rest of your life for NOTHING!
2007-01-23 18:38:55 · answer #6 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is attempting to fulfill her responsibilties as a good spouse. and also you chatting with her is like actual disturbibg her. You gotta go away her by myself and flow on with your existence. check out the back of and also you may bypass over the open doorways interior the front. get lower back for your existence. you've father and mom, you've respnsibilities. you want to be sturdy quickly. have self belief me pal. definite, time heals each and each of the injuries yet in case you dont co-function with time... it is gonna harm you extra and extra till you hit upon your existence finished of scars. it will be hell. And in a while you're gonna blame her on your stupids acts. you would say, "I ruinned my existence for her." although the actuality is that no different human being can create any type of transition on your existence till you enable it. She is doing the right element. She isn't allowing you the create any transits in her existence. you should do a similar. i do not uderstand this. it is a difficulty with lot of adult adult males and gals lately. Did you ever bypass over your mom as a lot as you bypass over her. properly the relatives are distinct yet look on the properly result each body has. the guy who nurtured you and the guy who stood through your section for a lengthy time period. ask your self, the position do you should concentration. in the route of this woman or in the route of your responsibilites in the route of your father and mom. And, back right here once you've began hating your father and mom for no longer being supportive to you for her and also you want to particular your hatred, then i ought to assert it is the incorrect route and incorrect time. instruct for your father and mom that you're a worth son and they'd be sorry for letting you down once....
2016-10-16 00:49:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has promised her love and respect to someone else. People always say things they don't mean or did mean @ the time but things change and she has moved on with husband. It sounds like to me that maybe she doesn't want to have any conversations with you out of respect to her husband and you need to move on!
2007-01-23 18:29:42 · answer #8 · answered by LSD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont talk rubbish, what she is doing is very right. You have become too selfish, if you really love her you should respect her. you know that if she keeps tocuh with you then she will making hell her and your life. Come on whatever happen between you it was good and what is going on is also good for you both.
2007-01-23 20:17:49 · answer #9 · answered by Rajesh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is right and practical and unfortunately you are not so. If you really loved her, you must be magnanimous to leave her allow her to lead a peaceful married life.
2007-01-23 18:30:26 · answer #10 · answered by Marks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋