I am currently separated from my husband. We have a daughter 6 and a son 4. The kids ad I are living with my mom in a more urban area where the schools aren't as good as the ones we moved from(in the subarbs). My husband is out in the burbs still where the better schools are. I have to make up my mind if I want to drive across town everyday for a better school or drive a few blocks to this one. The school by my mom is not horrible just a different atmosphere. My daughter is being teased and threatened by some kids. I also have an ulterior motive. If they're over there, I can be closer to my husband as I am hoping for a reconciliation.
2007-01-23 18:31:00 · 9 answers · asked by Veronique 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Good LORD! Are you crazy? Of Course you should drive the kids to a better school! Your convenience is more important to you than your own childrens safety and education? You sound like a child yourself. GROW UP!
2007-01-23 18:37:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in the same situation a few years ago with my 9 year old daughter.......I drove 48 miles a day so that she could attend a better school. In the meantime, if you can afford it, look for a place to live near the school. I drove my child for 2 years until I found an apartment. It is amazing how showing independence and moving on with your life will affect your husband. And in the meantime, your child is in the best place for her too!
2007-01-23 18:41:36 · answer #2 · answered by kendall3493 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st whats best for your kids as iam sure you know this
2cd If you are driving to the school for your kids, then He should help cover the expence
3rd If you and he can work out the differences ,problems etc That would be best. However only you no why you seperated
so Dont follow your emotions Follow your heart.. Good LUCK
2007-01-23 18:40:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel uncomfortable about the closer school, then yes, by all means drive to the better one across town.
But don't let that decision hinge on getting back with your husband.
2007-01-23 18:35:43 · answer #4 · answered by Havana Brown 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should do whatever you can in order to provide your children with a good education and a safe learning environment. Imagine how horrible you are going to feel if someone physically hurts your daughter and you could have done something to prevent it.
2007-01-23 18:34:54 · answer #5 · answered by bashnick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
spend more suitable time worryin about your children than your husband.. if theres a more suitable robust preparation for the youngsters there and u can force them there with out issues then force them there....... re the hubby if u want him lower back then get him lower back yet dont use the youngsters as a pawn to attend to to work out him..... youthful ones see this stuff and capture on quick... no longer being somewhat*h yet im advantageous that you'll be able to keep in mind that.. because it does look like you want a good preparation for the youngsters.... purely dont do it at their cost..... take em to college then artwork the hubby lol
2016-10-16 00:49:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, you should do whatever is best for your children, if the schooling is better, and your daughter does not get teased, then it is worth the drive time.
2007-01-23 18:35:56 · answer #7 · answered by Christine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am preparing to drive my son to school in a different city than we live.I would do anything for a better education.That is the only way to the success.
2007-01-23 19:43:28 · answer #8 · answered by avavu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would move closer to the school. Where they were uses to. Or just make that drive
2007-01-23 18:39:20 · answer #9 · answered by jawan c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋