i have lost trust in him....i want to trust and move on with our relationship.....but i find my self struggling with that....and i also find myself questioning if i should let hin go or have him come be with me.. right now he is with a friend in okland and i stay in SD..he says he understands where i come from when i say i dont want to try to work it out but he insists that we still try... do i let him come back but have him stay in a shelter do to living sitution or have him stay in okland with his friend... supposely...not his ex.... i have talked to the ex and she says its been over with them...and he isnt there....but she might be lyin 2..what do i do?
2007-01-23 18:24:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like you're not feeling it anymore for him. Let him go. If he insists on staying together, ask him why, and see how he answers.
2007-01-23 18:29:11 · answer #1 · answered by Havana Brown 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you think he is lying to you ? has he lied before to you ? if so, then he'll more than likely keep lying. the old saying is "once a cheat , always a cheat" .... some couples don't mind and others wont tolerate it because the benefits are better than nothing..... does he bring more to your relationship to make you completely happy ? if so, then keep him if not say goodbye is what i'd do but hey this is your guy and it's all up to you & he when all's said and done
2007-01-24 02:30:57 · answer #2 · answered by jay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya all are way far away from each other sounds to me like to many things have made u loose trust in him... i would say its time to move on because if things were ment to be then in the long run you 2 will be able to bridge the gap between you... and if there not ment to be then its high time to get on with your life.... and let him live his also...
best of luck
2007-01-24 02:29:45 · answer #3 · answered by jingles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
before you make your decision ask for Gods guidance first, i dont know if this sounds funny to you, but sometimes in this way unexpected answer from above solves your problem,
it is a relationship your talking here, so expect whatever choice you'll pick will definitely affect your life,,or even change it.
2007-01-24 02:38:26 · answer #4 · answered by jhust b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what u feel
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2007-01-24 02:31:13 · answer #5 · answered by mr johnson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋