We have been togerther for bout 3 years. Have a 9month old baby with him but we still boyfriend and girlfriend. If peope ask why don't we marry he always have excuses. But still everyday say he loves us. Doesn't spent alot of time with us and gets cross if baby cry or i sleep to deep or baby wake him up... I realy do love him... (i'm widow for 4 1/2 years now) but sometimes i think: is love realy enough?
2007-01-23 18:33:27 · 5 answers · asked by CinsTaylor 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is getting all the benefits of the relationship (sex, a child, a home, etc) without having to give up anything right now. You are going to have to stand up for yourself, decide that you deserve a better life for you and your child , and demand a committed partner who is there for the good and the bad OR be willing to move on.
2007-01-23 18:47:48 · answer #1 · answered by kendall3493 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he does love you. The problem is he's acting like an over grown child. You can't make him grow up or help out with a crying baby in the middle of the night. The Q is, how much are you willing to put up with from him?
2007-01-24 02:38:43 · answer #2 · answered by Tasha 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Is love enough?
Love is nature's way of telling you, "I think this guy will be around to give me and my baby food, shelter and protection."
Stay or go, it's all the same.
You'll learn to love welfare like all the other women who have replaced men with government.
2007-01-24 02:37:58 · answer #3 · answered by A_Patriot 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
when you are loved I think the person wants to spend time with you.
I believe you would not even have to question it.
2007-01-24 02:37:45 · answer #4 · answered by Sicily 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think so
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2007-01-24 02:39:07 · answer #5 · answered by mr johnson 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋