What are signs that he's a stalker?

Question

The guy you're dating, or about to date, I meant.

Answer 1

He usually does things that frighten or catch you by surprise.
I used to have this guy who would just show up right before me even when I least expected him to, he would call disguising his voice and tell me things that nobody but he and I knew. I was really scared, my friends thought it was 'cute' but because I didn't like it, I just told him to back off, period!

Answer 2

Look out the window is he watching you. Are you worried that he is a stalker or that he is controlling physically or emotionally. If he follows you everywhere, watches you from a distance, takes notes of the things you like and do then he is a stalker. If he calls you all the time, demands to know what you are doing. trys to keep you away from your friends and family than he is controlling. Both personallities tend to be violent and a bad situation to get into. If you have feelings that he is either one dont get involved with him and trust your senses.

Answer 3

What is he doing??? Stalking is a million annoying things and scary ones too. Showing up at your work, going to the places you plan to go alone, hanging outside your house, riding by, phone rings but no talk, what do you want to know. If it walks like a duck, and quacks like a duck--it's a duck. If you feel stalked or threatened by a man---give him one stern warning duly witnessed by a reliable person---then seek the help of the police if it doesn't stop. Never take the law into your own hands. My advice is to ignore it as long as possible---but if it is going on--be alert at all times. Let him see you write down the time and date of each event---you will need it for court----can't guess at when it happened---always be prepared for a case and the questions. Does he stalk others or exes??? Stay clear and avoid him--but be alert---he probably has serious issues from childhood---too much for you to do anything about---stay away and write down when ever you feel he has violated your space. Good luck and be careful

Answer 4

I had a real good stalker one time . Me and a fellow Marine share a house off base and I had to go to the bathroom he was in it so i went outside and seen the bushes moving . It turns out she was hiding there to see if any women were coming over it was quite funny and the relationship did not last long.

Answer 5

Is he following you around? That would be your first and most obvious indication.
Do you run into him in public places a lot for no reason (like he lives across town from you but you keep seeing him at the grocery store near your house)?
Is he watching your house? Does he know where you have been without you telling him?
It isn't hard to figure out.

Answer 6

you catch him havin a WWwank over a pic of you in the bath. He is waitin outside your house 3 hours b4 start of your date. He is pale skinned

Answer 7

if you look outside your window and he's sitting there in his car

umm..the signs that lead up to it are like overly jealous...extremely possessive...looks through your phone....looks through your things...constantly accusing you of cheating even if you are like going around the corner...demands to know where you are all the time...pops up at your house unannounced......violent temper....calls too many times....

Answer 8

calls 24/7 shows up all the time no matter where ur at....starts checking on you, knows who your friends are knows stuff about you that you never told him etc etc etc.....RUN AWAY FAST

Answer 9

He is always there and says things like:

"I want to kill you."

or

"DIE YOU EVIL HO, DIE!"

or

"If I can't have you, no one will." ... plus he's always there and at his house he has a shrine with candles, etc and your pictures all over the place.....and a VooDoo doll of you with pins in it and there are tissues all over the place.

Answer 10

Co-incidentally showing up wherever you are.

In conversation, he seems to know where you've been and who you talked to.