Family & Relationships - 23 January 2007

my wife and I split up recently and are now living together again. We are trying to work things out. But she is always talking to the guy she left me for. I mean every day for hours. I have told her how this makes me feel but she dosent care. She said if it wasent for the way I treated her we wouldnt be in this mess. I did watch porn and questioned if I wanted to be with her at one time. But thats is in the past. I am all about her and try to show her this since shes been back. She screens all my phone calls and trys to find me with someone else like I am the one thats cheating. I have never cheated. We still havent kissed since she has been back. I hold her at night when we sleep and try to hug her and flirt but she dosent seem interested in me. She even lets me give her massages and kiss her body but once the massage is over its over. I am just confused.

2007-01-23 09:34:38 · 26 answers · asked by Mini Zee 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My sister and her boyfriend call each other every night and they wind up getting in a fight and then she calls me and complanes to me what should i do?

2007-01-23 09:34:36 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-23 09:34:31 · 5 answers · asked by lowroad 1 in Singles & Dating

does living in a small town after growing up in a big city make you think how naive everyone seems?

2007-01-23 09:34:17 · 6 answers · asked by mostamazinggrlever 1 in Family

Okay only one more month to go til I get married
I need a dress
and I need help finding one
please look one up and give me the adress to the site

Details that could help
1. I'm blonde
2. blue eyes
3. Slender/ Athletic(in shape)
PLZ PLZ PLZ HELP!!!!!!!!!

2007-01-23 09:31:33 · 7 answers · asked by Wanna_b_with_u...<3 ~KALA 2 in Singles & Dating

my friend lost her virginity to a guy on saturday. she says she thought he was a great guy and all but now he wont talk to her. was he using her? and i want to tell her that i was raped when i was younger so that she doesnt feel alone. but i know that she did it willingly and its the other way around for me but i still want to say something about it. i just asked a question like 10 minutes about my being raped. i just dont want her to feel alone. what should i do and what should i tell her?

2007-01-23 09:31:04 · 4 answers · asked by hannah 3 in Friends

2007-01-23 09:30:10 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ohh my ex used to stalk me many moons ago , i remember one time i was doing the dishes , which i have to say is a miracle in itself , I looked up and out of the window and he was staring straight back at me !!
He doesnt do this anymore due to the fact i cut his legs off and he can no longer reach the window ...
but seriously anyone have something similar ?

2007-01-23 09:30:06 · 26 answers · asked by jizzumonkey 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-23 09:29:53 · 5 answers · asked by wazza1973 1 in Family

my ex messanged me last night-OTHER SIDE OF THE WORLD-had me turn on my webcam-normal conv until he was going 2 change into his pijamas:
him:actually...i'll go to bed naked;)
(laptop)
me:that's alright. sometimes i go to bed naked too
him:... ... mmm... ... *drooling face*
he was asking me what i wanted him to do-
me:jump
ok...but remember i am jumping-naked
him:u're very hott. what do u think i'm doing now?;)
me:i don't know...
him:what do u think?;)
me:i dunno
him:leave it to the imagination;)
him:kiss the camera;)
him:what do u want me to do?
me:write a poem
him: no - if i had a webcam i'd go topless
him again:strip
him:take off ur shirt/pants
and he wanted me to rub my boobs and stuff in a basically see through shirt for him for him to get-horny-and sent me photos-of "it"0_0i thought he was joking!
hes gonna buy a webcam
he has girlfriend
what is he doing?
i am downloading a screen recorder
shuld i send the video/photos/conv to girlfriend?
please help:S

2007-01-23 09:29:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok there is one thing that I forgot to to say when I first asked this ? I have told him that I wasn't happy before and he got all mad at me and said he wasn' leaving untill I left, see we use to live somewhere elese together and I did move out and got the place where I'm living now and then we started talking again on the phone and he was making me feel really quilty, he was saying how much he loves me and how we can make things work out, and I fell for it and let him move in with me and now we have lived here for about 2 years together but things just arent going as well as maybe I thought they were going to be! Big mistake on my part but now here we are and I just dont want to be with him any more and like I said I did tell him a few monthes ago that it wasn't workin out and he says he's not leaving untill I leave so what do I do leave my place with having my 3 kids because of him, I mean I dont think that is fair to me or my kids

2007-01-23 09:29:16 · 1 answers · asked by suz1773 1 in Singles & Dating

for you and whats a turn off. Explain if you don't mind

2007-01-23 09:29:04 · 12 answers · asked by cowboybronco01 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-23 09:28:33 · 3 answers · asked by wazza1973 1 in Family

When I was a senior in high school my boyfriend and I got pregnant. We decided to get married and try to give our daughter the best life possible. We had been together for 3 years and thought that we loved each other enough to make anything work. But as soon as I said I do he turned into a giant control freak. If I don't' answer my cell phone he calls me 1000 times. He wont' let me go to college (despite the fact that I have thousands of dollars in scholarships), he won't let me get a job, I can't go anywhere with someone that he doesn't know well, I can't call my parents, and He yells ALL OF THE TIME. He couldn't find his keys the other day so he tore up our apartment and yelled at me for an hour. I'm really unhappy and want out, but am afraid of ruining my daughter's life. What should I do?

Please don't tell me that I shouldn't have had my baby or I should give her up for adoption, that kind of advice isn't helpful.

2007-01-23 09:28:32 · 17 answers · asked by Phae2007 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I can block channels from the TV's in our house or stop my little brother watching at all. My little brother PUMA (you might know him he comes on here and as Jade Goody two Hooves and Violation man and other clones) well he hasnt been going to school coz he sits masturbating over Shilpa Shetty. Its disgusting and he thinks she will be his girlfriend. Should I get help for him or what.

2007-01-23 09:25:57 · 18 answers · asked by shilpa_poppadoon 1 in Family

I have fallen in love with this beautiful woman who has everything I'm looking for. I'm just not sure if she is interested in the same way. How do I let her know how I feel without driving her away?

2007-01-23 09:25:32 · 14 answers · asked by uncommonloon66 1 in Singles & Dating

I was wondering how rare I was for wanting to do this.

2007-01-23 09:25:23 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i got really drunk one night and had sex with my (now) boyfriend. he was my first and i wasnt even there mentally to enjoy the experience. he thinks we should keep having sex since we already have and my friends do to, but i think that just because we did, we dont have to keep doing it. i'm kinda being swayed though as more and more of my friends think i should enjoy sex with him since i'm not a virgin anymore. what should i do?

2007-01-23 09:24:51 · 41 answers · asked by Nic Jones 5 in Singles & Dating

Say this friend has helped you whenever you needed it & now it's ur turn to help .What would you be thinking if he/she was being serious?
Assisted suicide is legal right?

2007-01-23 09:24:04 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Two nights ago, I was at my best friends house(with her and her brother I've liked forever!!), and he asked me out. The next day was magical...we held hands, and he put his arm around me....it felt so right. Well, that was until i got a call from my best friend who has some bad news. Her brother said he was confused, and couldn't have a g.f. right now....i asked her why he couldn't tell me that himself, and she said she didn't know, so i called him.

He said he didn't have the heart to tell me himself, and he was sorry. Then he told me why he was confused: A few hours after I left, his ex g.f. called, and asked him out, and he said no. But he was still confused. He really likes me, but he likes her too.....so i told him to call me when he decided....what should i do?

MY best friend says he has been acting very sad since he broke up with me......she says I have been too, but she's worried about us both.....should I give him space? Should I call him? i need help!!!!

2007-01-23 09:24:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It's so great when it works but then in a second it can be over and be the worst.....how? why?

2007-01-23 09:23:03 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my husband left me becausehe wanted to make money the way drug deelers wants to and i told him to get a real job well he robbed somebody and bought a car well he want to go back and see if he can get more money where he got the first from and told him no stay before any thing bad happens to you well that morning left me .aweek later the car and the money blew up he has no more car no more money and he want to come back and i love him so i said i'll think about it

2007-01-23 09:22:13 · 9 answers · asked by babi_face_e 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Everytime my boyfriend brings his friends over he acts real cocky and REALLY stupid but to me that is tottaly normal . The thing that bugs me is the fact that one of his friends doesnt find me attractive and it makes me feel like crap but i dunno why it bugs me soooo much i shouldnt care what he thinks but it does now im feelin really low.

2007-01-23 09:22:03 · 13 answers · asked by Heaven <3 1 in Singles & Dating

Other than phone, IM and myspace

2007-01-23 09:22:00 · 12 answers · asked by killian10 1 in Friends

I have only been with my boyfriend for a few days now. My family has a couple of problems. My mom drinks alot and used to be on drugs. I'm not too sure if I should tell him what's going on in my family. It's not that I don't trust him, I do. I just, I'm afraid that if I tell him, that he won't look at me the same anymore and think different of me. Any suggstions, please?

2007-01-23 09:21:35 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

so me and my husband got married in court, and we are saving up for a big wedding under God and with all our family and friends we want to save at least 25,000.
My sister had an idea that we ask our guests for money instead of wedding gifts to help with the costs.

I think thats REALLY tacky/cheap/rude! and I wouldnt even know how to go about asking that without sounding rude!
should we do it, if so how? any ideas?

2007-01-23 09:21:29 · 36 answers · asked by mcm 3 in Weddings

i want to wait to have sex b/c i want it to be with someone i love more than anything in the world. am i making the right decision or do i just give it up. i knw that sounded bad but its not

2007-01-23 09:21:21 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I I'm 16 But I want to be safe.
But I know my parent's won't agree so I need help.

2007-01-23 09:21:05 · 14 answers · asked by Destiny_Forgotten 1 in Family

how can i tell if a guy really likes me? like what is the signs or whatever ?

2007-01-23 09:21:01 · 3 answers · asked by crazysme2001 1 in Singles & Dating

People each time more playing with feelings by NET. I guess when a serious feeling is growing up the other person could ask sorry and explain everything. What do u guess?

2007-01-23 09:20:17 · 2 answers · asked by aneleh_25 2 in Singles & Dating