I was wondering how rare I was for wanting to do this.
2007-01-23 09:25:23 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO...i am not gay....read my other questions.
2007-01-23 09:28:46 · update #1
Why do you think a respectful guy is always gay? thats sad....i am just respectful.....maybe you need to know some of them.
2007-01-23 09:29:35 · update #2
You might be rare but who really cares?
I couldn't wait to lose my virginity. Call it social pressure or the fact that I really like getting close with females. I was pissed that I was a virgin until 20.
After that it was like, "oh well," and and I became kind of a ho. It was fun and I always palyed it safe and I don't think sex has to be any less special. It's really about what you put into it.
Nothing beats a **** friend when you both have busy schedules and can enjoy a good breakfast and conversation the next morning before going your seperate ways.
2007-01-23 09:43:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 23/f and do not know a single guy in my age bracket who is a virgin, and the ones that are married definitely did not wait for marriage to have sex.
You're pretty rare I guess. Although I really think that young people should experiment with sex before marriage so they know what they want and have a sexually compatible partner for life, rather than getting divorced. But that's just me, have fun not doing it and all.
2007-01-23 17:33:16 · answer #2 · answered by little miss green 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one called you gay, though your icon looks it. many guys are usually sloppy and don't care. the gays ones do care..
anyway, it's your choice. you can have sex then - however the love should be deep. today's world, people are fickle and will drop you over the dumbest of things - and that includes the bed time.
the sex after marraige thing is a 1950's type tradition where the two would then sleep in seperate beds. in today's world it doesn't really matter as much. however, you should be married if you want kids.
2007-01-23 17:33:24 · answer #3 · answered by mike s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I some what agree with you. I believe that you should only have sex if you are in love. Getting married doesnt make you fall in love and half of the couples that get married get a divorce so what is marrige going to change about when you loose it?? I think you should listen to your heart and loose it when you are in love and ready.
2007-01-23 17:32:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A males virginity is nothing to savor, I mean your gonna suck the first time anyway, and probably a few times after that too. Takes a while to get really good.
2007-01-23 17:31:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im 26 years old, and in my WHOLE ENTIRE life, I've only met ONE guy who waited till he got married. Im not friends with him but he married my husbands, ex wifes, little sister. They were both virgins, and seriously religous. I dont know if its rare, but in my area of the world it is. Indiana, USA
2007-01-23 17:28:48 · answer #6 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ur going to get a very special girl for this b/c most girls would love to be w/ a virgin, its not for me though i like the guy to be in charge and rule over me, in a good way.. lol, but most girls dig what ur doing. and ur chances are is ur going to have a great long relationship w/ a very special girl. b/c u get what u deserve u know.
2007-01-23 17:30:45 · answer #7 · answered by breanna d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm-ok sum guys wait(dont get me wrong-i have an older brother and a bf)
i know alot of guys who do it b4 marriage-only(no offense) but older guys like in their 20's or older wait till marriage
2007-01-23 18:22:32 · answer #8 · answered by Boingo&Fuzzy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish there was more men like you out there.
2007-01-23 17:35:14 · answer #9 · answered by Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will cave. no way you can make it...the deck is stacked against you with no reward even if you do.
2007-01-23 17:30:49 · answer #10 · answered by keepingitgoing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋