i want to wait to have sex b/c i want it to be with someone i love more than anything in the world. am i making the right decision or do i just give it up. i knw that sounded bad but its not
2007-01-23 09:21:21 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm waiting.....personal choice just the same as your reasoning. It's not bad....but it is very hard sometimes.
2007-01-23 09:24:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Waiting to have sex until marriage is a very personal decision. If you think that you will regret having sex before marriage, then don't, just wait. But if you do have sex, make sure you love that person, you don't necessarily have to marry them.
2007-01-23 09:56:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
abstinence all the way if you are not carefull and you have sex before marriage than you can easilt get STD's but when you get married than you both can go to the doctor with each other and get it done together instead of happening to go with ur parents. Well i am waiting until i am married so i tried also u should talk to ur mom or dad about it and if u r having thoughts about it u should tell ur mom to put u on birth control cause u will never know what will happen also if u decideto have sex always always use a condom!
2007-01-23 09:31:51 · answer #3 · answered by Life, love, and Sacrifice 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should wait until marriage to have sex. Not only is this much more healthy, you're avoiding risks such as disease and unwanted pregnancy. I've been married 10 years and I had one partner before my husband, and my husband and I had sex while engaged as well. Because I had someone else, this has caused problems in our marriage the whole 10 years.
You will be hurting your future spouse who you may not even know yet if you fool around with someone who isn't really important!
2007-01-23 09:30:02 · answer #4 · answered by JJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be honest with u thats a great thing but there a lot of guys that will wait but wont wait til marriage and u might scare off some really good guys by doing that and u might even pass up mr right...sex isnt that bad...make them wait but not til marriage...as long as u both have strong feelings for each other then y is there something wrong with it?
2007-01-23 09:24:19 · answer #5 · answered by mr_fury666 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you get married is the best idea!!! Having sex after marriage is soooo much fun!!!
I had sex out of marriage with one guy, I thought I was in love with him, found out I wasn't! After that I decided to wait until marriage before I had sex again. I'm sooo GLAD that I waited until marriage to have sex again!! The week before i got married, I was very excided for my wedding night. The weekend before I went to a wedding where the bride and groom already lived together. She couldn't see how I was excided for marriage. Getting know the person you are dating is better than having sex the 2nd date. THere is no emotions invovled when you wait to have sex. Yes it is hard to wait and yes people will pressure you to have sex but it is worth the wait!
I'm rooting for you to wait!!!
2007-01-23 09:33:24 · answer #6 · answered by kermy98 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely wait for someone you really love... but it doesn't have to be until you're married. Me and my fiance have had sex (even before he proposed) because we actually loved each other. We didn't just jump into it either, we waited for over a year until we had sex.
Also, you don't want to be married to someone who's not going to be able to completely satisfy you... I think it's important to have sex at least a couple times with the person you plan on marrying, just to see what you're getting.. :)
2007-01-23 09:30:43 · answer #7 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's an individual choice and decision. If you want to wait, then by all means wait. Each person needs to do what is best for them, not what the majority thinks they should do. In this area, the only approval you need is from yourself.
2007-01-23 09:27:45 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its right to wait but you dont always have to do whats right u know, but if u want to wait then go ahead thats the best choice, but dont just give it up, wait until u are in love or really like someone and be sure the person ur w/ doesnt just want some u better be sure he loves/likes u alot back.
2007-01-23 09:26:26 · answer #9 · answered by breanna d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its good to really know someone before you sleep with them and it's good to make sure that you love them. It will make the sex special. But I do strongly advise getting married to someone that ypu've never slept with becuase sex is an important part of marriage and love and if you're marry them and find out that you two are a terrible fit sexually then you've just committed the rest of your life to someone who you find out you don't enjoy having sex with. Try on the shoes before you buy them.
2007-01-23 09:28:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's right for some people, but consider how many people jump into marriage because they can't wait to have sex! How many of those relationships end in divorce?
Also, look at it this way: who else is waiting with you now-a-days? What are the odds of finding somebody else who is waiting / has waited?
2007-01-23 09:24:40 · answer #11 · answered by Mickey Mouse Spears 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋