I have fallen in love with this beautiful woman who has everything I'm looking for. I'm just not sure if she is interested in the same way. How do I let her know how I feel without driving her away?
2007-01-23 09:25:32 · 14 answers · asked by uncommonloon66 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask her out!
You'll never know if you don't ask!
Hurry before someone else does!
But, maybe she won't like Looooosers like you, in that case she'll laugh at you and/or get a restraining order!
The choice is yours...
I'd go with the restraining order!
2007-01-23 09:31:47 · answer #1 · answered by Rembrandt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard because you are metaphorically completely naked. You
are in the dark as to how she feels for you. You don't want to just blurt it out. It would be wise to take baby steps on this, even though your love for her makes you feel as though you need to take her into your arms and never let go. You haven't stated that you have been dating her, so I don't know the degree of your relationship. If you are just friends, then don't tell her. I wish I had more background info, but I would play it safe for now. If you feel so strongly about her, then waiting some more time shouldn't hurt.
2007-01-23 09:54:45 · answer #2 · answered by zumi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be open and honest with her, but be prepared if she does not respond the way you would like her too. Don't tell her you love her, just tell her you'd like to start a different type of relationship with her. Telling her the love owrd all at once might scare her and be a little creepy for her.
2007-01-23 09:32:44 · answer #3 · answered by tigerprincess_bee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be pushy! A woman can not stand a pushy man which can be a turn off if she feels as you do. Invite her to dinner explain how u feel with no obligations. Then let her decide.
2007-01-23 09:32:53 · answer #4 · answered by lazy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just sit her down and tell her. Hearts are mainly broken by words left unspoken. I fell in love with my best friend, and I was almost positive he didn't like me back. My other friend reminded me that one of the reasons I fell in love with him was because of how nice he was. So, I gathered up all the courage I could. I told him I loved him, and he confessed that he had been in love with me for a very, very long time.
Good luck!
2007-01-23 09:31:45 · answer #5 · answered by Boom 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, When you have a relationship with someone your supposed to be honest with that person. So just tell her how you feel and she should respect your honesty.
I hope you choose the right answer. I also hope my answer helps you out a little.
2007-01-23 09:33:37 · answer #6 · answered by sassy_girl_8186 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It shouldn't be so hard. I take it you are dating her and have some kind of relationship to be speaking about loving her so much. Tell her little by little like "I don't want to scare you but I think I'm really falling for you in a big way." Take your cue from her reaction.
2007-01-23 09:31:19 · answer #7 · answered by Raven 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Show her u care do the little things for her draw her a bath, make dinner , drop by her work unexpectedly and invite her to lunch .Little things we want diamonds but what we need the most is love and affection
2007-01-23 09:31:26 · answer #8 · answered by nitenurse 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends if she's married or partnered...
If she is you shouldnt tell her , however if she isnt and is avalible tell her in a sweet way.Or in a letter express your feelings towards in a nice way.
Good luck
2007-01-23 09:32:58 · answer #9 · answered by aime 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You haven't told us anything about this woman and you. For all I know you are a stalker.
2007-01-23 09:32:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋