Two nights ago, I was at my best friends house(with her and her brother I've liked forever!!), and he asked me out. The next day was magical...we held hands, and he put his arm around me....it felt so right. Well, that was until i got a call from my best friend who has some bad news. Her brother said he was confused, and couldn't have a g.f. right now....i asked her why he couldn't tell me that himself, and she said she didn't know, so i called him.
He said he didn't have the heart to tell me himself, and he was sorry. Then he told me why he was confused: A few hours after I left, his ex g.f. called, and asked him out, and he said no. But he was still confused. He really likes me, but he likes her too.....so i told him to call me when he decided....what should i do?
MY best friend says he has been acting very sad since he broke up with me......she says I have been too, but she's worried about us both.....should I give him space? Should I call him? i need help!!!!
2007-01-23 09:24:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yea definitly give him his space and time to figure out what it is he really wants
2007-01-23 09:30:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is torn between two girls at a young age. He likes you both, but doesn't want to hurt either one of you. His hormones are out of whack and he probably truly doesn't know how to deal with the decision. He is unsure that the decision he makes will be the right one, but he feels pressured into making one. Let him have a little time, then talk to him. Comfort him by letting him know you aren't gonna rush off to someone else until he decides who he wants to be with. This will put him at ease around you.
Be his friend, even if he chooses the other girl, and one day he will be yours!
2007-01-31 16:35:22 · answer #2 · answered by daddyduh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey sweets,
Listen, you deserve a guy who can't stand a second away from you. Who tells you how amazing you are and how lucky he is to have found you. Do you want to have to wait for someone to decide if they like you, if he was worthy of you he would be with you right now.
Move on, forget it, and keep smiling. There are so many men in the world and life is too short to be spending time thinking "does he like me", well you don't like him for making you unsure and move on. You deserve more hun!
Hope that helps!
Lou Lou
2007-01-31 16:00:01 · answer #3 · answered by Lou Lou 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
naturally u should give him all the space he wants. but since u r frineds for soooo many years i dont think its inappopriate to ask him how is he feeling about all this, when u see him again. try to be his friend again, detach yrself from the position of a potential girlifriend so as to help him understand what he needs. in this way, u ´ll know whether u want to carry on with him or not.
good luck!
2007-01-31 07:45:25 · answer #4 · answered by vivianne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would depend on what he is confused about? Is he confused about his sexuality? does he thing that you deserve someone better? Is his confidence low? Try writing him a letter and perhaps he will be able to be straighforward and honest in a letter or email. Life is too short to live with regret, find out and talk about it with him. Take care Heather
2007-01-31 15:48:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't call him. Just wait on him to contact you, but don't wait around forever. You deserve to be with someone who knows what he wants, so if he can't decide then just move on.
I hope everything works out for you!
2007-01-23 17:29:01 · answer #6 · answered by gobanana516 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give him space and dont call him he will call you , and dont wait ur whole life waiting on him to figure it out cuz he will either call or he wont just go with the flow
2007-01-23 17:29:29 · answer #7 · answered by baldwin28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might turn to some activity just to keep you busy and avoid suffering, let the things develop spontaneously, do not call him or push him
2007-01-31 17:32:09 · answer #8 · answered by Vesna G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋