My sister and her boyfriend call each other every night and they wind up getting in a fight and then she calls me and complanes to me what should i do?
2007-01-23 09:34:36 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her that you're always going to be their for her but she needs to seriously do something about her relationship with her boyfriend. If they constantly fight tell her to make a pro and con list about why she should and shouldnt date him. Tell her that you love her but you need to do other things too. But dont say it too harshly if you know what I mean.
2007-01-23 09:39:51 · answer #1 · answered by Mariniac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have absolutely no obligation to talk with your sister, or even have anything to do with her.
It is by choice.
If the benefits of knowing and talking to your sister are outweighed by dealing with her stupidly continuing, night after night, getting into a fight and then calling you and messing with YOUR life, then stop it.
Either stop it by saying to her that she either stops calling you, or stops arguing, or if you have REALLY had enough by telling her not to call no matter what and you have had enough.
Find friends that are not so stupid and stop dealing with your sister until she stops being stupid. You have a life, don't let your sister being stupid ruin it.
You don't get to tell your sister what choices she can make, but you can let her know that YOU can make different choices and that you have had enough.
Good luck!
2007-01-23 09:53:40 · answer #2 · answered by tony911m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing I can say is think about if you were ur sis and your bf was bein a jerk would you want her to listen or tell you she doesnt wanna hear it think about it. I have the same prob if you read my questions you will see me and my bf have the same issues and when i try to talk to my friend she gets all annoyed at me and says we go this thru this all the time and it is upsetting that she isnt there for me so yeh just listen to her
2007-01-23 09:43:33 · answer #3 · answered by bkgrl718 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her not to put herself in that spot anymore because it's hurting you. especially at night you want to have time to yourself. not for your sisters problems. If she knows she is going to wind up fighting with him so much why bother calling him. he must be doing somthing wrong. Ask your sister to rethink the relationship she is in.
2007-01-23 09:39:13 · answer #4 · answered by Carly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to keep this between her and her boyfriend but also tell her that if they continue fighting they should either try to work things out or break up.
2007-01-23 09:51:50 · answer #5 · answered by ☺Lisa☺ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that she either needs to stop fighting with her boyfriend or quit calling you. let her know that yes, she is your sister and that you love her but you don't want to be involved in every fight they get in.
2007-01-23 09:37:44 · answer #6 · answered by ~karma~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her to only call him once a day not eaach day because dey would just get boared of eachother for talking 24 7 tell her to call me 2 a week n if he really loves her maybe he should call her
2007-01-23 09:39:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do the same to her!
Or simply tell her that she just loves to fight and moan and tell her she better knock it on the head!
2007-01-23 09:38:30 · answer #8 · answered by Gem of Wisdom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you really appreciate her telling you her problems, but that sometimes there are things that should be kept between a couple. To tell you things that really need advice or are concerning.
2007-01-23 09:38:01 · answer #9 · answered by yenlys_18 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't answer the phone in the evening when she calls. Let the answer machine screen her calls.
2007-01-23 09:37:46 · answer #10 · answered by Dancingsun 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋