my friend lost her virginity to a guy on saturday. she says she thought he was a great guy and all but now he wont talk to her. was he using her? and i want to tell her that i was raped when i was younger so that she doesnt feel alone. but i know that she did it willingly and its the other way around for me but i still want to say something about it. i just asked a question like 10 minutes about my being raped. i just dont want her to feel alone. what should i do and what should i tell her?
2007-01-23 09:31:04 · 4 answers · asked by hannah 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
The most anyone can do is to be a shoulder to cry on. It already happened so nothing can be done about that. And if given an advice, when it wasn't asked for sometimes makes the other person angry or unappreciative but being there for support and to listen seems to do a lot more; just be there for her and let her know that if she ever needed to talk she's always welcome to come to you and then maybe you girls can share your stories and become closer friends.
2007-01-23 09:52:17 · answer #1 · answered by anna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she did get used and im sorry that u got raped but u wont make feel better. those are 2 different things!!! so just tell ur friend that she got used sorry but it's the truth!!!
2007-01-23 17:37:38 · answer #2 · answered by mustangsweetthing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She willingly let the guy popped her cherry without even thinkin!
She have to learn the hard way!!
2007-01-24 00:38:06 · answer #3 · answered by PhiloPhobic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to learn of your past and your freind's.
whatever done is done and cant be undone and for her...least she gave it away willingly? learn from the experience and move on .. . it culd be worst?
never let the past pull one down other than learn from it and not repeating the same or bring the same sadness?
sorry and take care.
2007-01-23 19:03:16 · answer #4 · answered by Peggy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋