Family & Relationships - 20 January 2007

This man told me he was in love with me but then we broke up !
We still see eachother and things .Can a man be in love and act like he not ? he tells me he feels like he cant love any more .
I think he dose love me but dose not want to tell me .
If a man loves a woman how can a woman get it out of him?
How can i get this man to tell me he loves me or to leave out of his life for good ! We been going thought this for 5 months now .
I am hurting because i do love him !

2007-01-20 13:11:24 · 4 answers · asked by Hart 1 in Singles & Dating

i was as school and my boyfirend asked me to meet him at his locker and I did we made out then we come back to class because we were in the same class and he worte me a note saying he didn't think that we should still be together and I just don't understand why guys do that why kiss us girls then say i don't want to be with you anymore

2007-01-20 13:10:55 · 18 answers · asked by sky_girl481 1 in Singles & Dating

We were coworkers and I gave her a nice compliment saying I enjoy being around her. She said "that's so sweet." So as I left she went and asked one of my coworker friends if I had a cursh on her. My friend said yes. She said well I think he's cute. My friend told me she thinks i'm cute so I went and told her that I have a crush on her. She said "that's so sweet. She gave me a hug and after we hug I told her I would of told her sooner, but she you have a boyfriend. She didn't say anything about that really. So the next day she walks behind me and pats me on the head and saids hey. The employees say that she's a flirter. So I'm not sure if she's into me or she just likes the attention now that she knows that i'm into her. I gave her a crush note and she took it and read it in the bathroom. She showed all her coworker girlfriends the note and they started laughing at me. All the girls were smiling and looking at me funny. I asked one of the guys that works there why are they looking at me like that. He said becaus that girl you like showed all those girls the note u gave her. I see her 2 days later when I saw her she gave me a big smile. I was talking to one of the girls that works there and she walks towards me and saids "what you don't like me anymore" walks away from me and smiles back at me. Anyways couple days ago she quit her job because one of the girls are jealous of her and always being rude to her so she quit and now she works with her boyfriend. I thought she like me, but I guess not cause she didn't tell me she was going to quit. She just left. Her boyfriend does treat her like crap sometimes and he gets real jealous when someone looks at her, but all he does is put his arm around her. He makes her cry sometimes because he saids stupid stuff to her. My friend told me that he seen her with her friends and he said to her "you know my friend likes you know?" And she saids to him "I hate him" This was when she work where I work. My friend never told me this until now. My friend said she's stuck up. So I pretty much told her how I felt and she never told me how she felt about me. So do you think she will come and see me if she wants to be with me or is she expecting me to go chase her if I really like her? I mean I already did my part. What do you think?

2007-01-20 13:10:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just got out of the bath tub I chaved my CHO CHA for the first time....I should have done this a long time ago...But im a little embarrased my boyfriend will think it looks funny...Do you think he will???Should I wait untill it grows back to have sex with him??

2007-01-20 13:09:43 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a friend named robert that sits by me in English class, I really like him, but we always talk alot in english, but we never make eye contact in the halls. I dont know if he likes me or not, what would you say to do!?

2007-01-20 13:09:39 · 23 answers · asked by janey 1 in Singles & Dating

i used to go out with this guy, and he really really liked me but hes known as a loser, even though i didnt think so, and he started to annoy me just a little bit, but since everyone thought he was such a loser i broke up with him. after i regretted my decision for a while because i never really gave him a chance, but i got over it. now hes told my friend he wants to try again, and hes really nice and all, but i cant help to think if its just because he wants a girlfriend, and not me, per say. help??

2007-01-20 13:08:30 · 29 answers · asked by Danityxkanexluvah 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-20 13:07:58 · 4 answers · asked by alain d 1 in Singles & Dating

I have never met my half-sister. My mother told me about her once in 5th grade. She's my dad's daughter with another women whom he never married. I know her hometown because she was unofficially adopted by my fathers parents whom he has not been in contact with since the nasty court battle that he lost her in. I'm not sure if she still lives in the same place, but I'm desperate to find her. I feel incomplete knowing I have a sibling out there that might not even know I exist. Please Please Please if you have any ideas that would help. I've tried many web searches and had no luck. I'm really very short on cash so I can't sign up for the expensive searches. Please help. I appreciate it. thanks.

2007-01-20 13:07:52 · 1 answers · asked by ruca 1 in Family

sometimes he act as if he dont care how can i tell how he really feels about me

2007-01-20 13:07:37 · 11 answers · asked by lakita s 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-20 13:07:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If the man she loves wants nothing to do with her but hav sex with her when it suits him, she broke her ankle some how sneaking out of her house for him and while she was lieing in bed for a month and a half he didnt even call, not to long after her ankle healed she became pregant and had to get an abortion and he didnt even go with her to get it, on top of that she does drugs and drinks when she doesnt see him and/or he doesnt want to have sex with her.

2007-01-20 13:07:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I go married in Aug. and we are trying to make it last forever. I just want to know the answer to this question?

2007-01-20 13:07:19 · 12 answers · asked by missgoodgirl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-20 13:07:12 · 8 answers · asked by coop a 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My mom just passed away in December. I talked to her that morning and I was supposed to talk to her 10 minutes later and I called the hospital 4 times and she never answered. I debated on just dropping my sister off at school and going up there but decided not to cuz she would get mad at me for missing my exams. So I didn't and I can't get over that. I mean if I had gone up there maybe I could have helped her or at least been there with her instead she died in a hospital with no family around her. I would also like to know how to stop being mad with my dad for telling my sister and I last. I mean my cousins who hated my mom knew that she passed away before I did and I just don't want to be mad anymore. Please help me?

2007-01-20 13:06:36 · 13 answers · asked by flowerpower161912 1 in Family

The paragraphs mut include how much i love her, how i will always be with her and only her and ho my love is permanent!

2007-01-20 13:06:32 · 16 answers · asked by KillerCows 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband and i are broke. this is mostly due to his gambling addiction, so I got a full time jog 4 months ago but now we still are having problems with money. I cant keep up with the house work My job is very demanding, 50+ hrs per week we have two ypoung children my husband has not been interested in sex for years....what else can I say....I feel trapped....I love him but i dont really know if he feels the same....he says he loves me but??...Can someone please give me some decent advise??

2007-01-20 13:06:21 · 6 answers · asked by jay d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I need help alllittle boys ages 1-7.

2007-01-20 13:05:02 · 14 answers · asked by Way2Cute 2 in Singles & Dating

Everyone has one. You can't say rainbow.

2007-01-20 13:04:56 · 1 answers · asked by Yasuko 3 in Singles & Dating

I am married. We just got married in August. So many people are so against marriage. Even some of my family members questioned why would we mess up a good thing. They felt like we should just live together and that is all. What is the deal?????

2007-01-20 13:04:48 · 14 answers · asked by missgoodgirl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been talking to this girl for a while and we talk for ages, go out for drinks and even had our moments, been going on for about 6 months now, what or how do you reckon i could do to get it a little more serious? Girls what would be smooth to do?

2007-01-20 13:04:42 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 26 and I havent been kissed in like over 2 years now.... I came off a seriously abusive relationship that has kinda left me completely hopeless, i dont go out alot .. except to class or the doctors.. but all I really want is a little tiny kiss.. just so I know that maybe someone out there still might find me beautiful enough... in your opinion.. wat do I do..

2007-01-20 13:03:50 · 23 answers · asked by evilechos 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi! I am a pretty decent guy, if i do say so myself. I'm pretty fun to be around, i am apparently pretty good at making people laugh, and i am modest, lol. The problem is people will talk to me if they see me or if i am on there way, but no one actually calls me to hangout or is my really close friend. I just have acquaintences.... umm and a spelling issue? lol but i don't have any real friends. What's wrong with me? I hate to be all dramatic sounding and dumb, but i feel like no one loves me and that i am all alone. Sorry that sounds pretty depressing, but it IS true. pppllleeeaasseee help me! I'm not sure how much longer i can maintain my sanity during this!

2007-01-20 13:03:41 · 15 answers · asked by Travis 1 in Friends

I think the police uniform with a cleavage..just trying to spice things up and make him realize what he is going to lose..lol

2007-01-20 13:03:25 · 7 answers · asked by Holy 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-20 13:03:14 · 4 answers · asked by powell_74851 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

the worst part of this is that one of my best friends told the whole school. she and another one of my friends confronted me in front the whole cafateria that i'm anorexic and that i will die if i don't eat and that i'm already to skinny to be anorexic and people would kill to be my size.i don't think that people would kill to be a 101 pound freshman.i don't know if i should tell everyone that it's not true or tell them to leave me alone. HELP ME!!!!

2007-01-20 13:02:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

There's this girl that I work with, she's very outgoing and has predominately guy friends. I know she flirts with me but since she has so many guy friends and is outgoing with all of them I don't know if the blatent flirting supercedes the prospect of her just being herself... (ie. she calls me "love" playfully in person and over the internet, she grabs my muscles and compliments them and everytime we leave work or say goodbye she hugs me)... now I don't see her doing that with other guys but again, I'm worried that I'm taking her comfort lvl with me incorrectly and attributing it to her liking me more than one, unfortunately I do work with her and dont want to make things awkward at work,basically I dont wanna look like a fool. my main issue is that she doesnt jump at hanging out with me or ask me to hang out all the time, ive asked a few times. and shes said yes, a few times,if she liked me as much as she shows when we talk youd think shed jump at seeing me and talking to me.inputplz

2007-01-20 13:01:34 · 15 answers · asked by dude 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-20 13:01:28 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he keeps telling me he won money and bought me a coach purse. . . . did he really or is he screwing with my head?

2007-01-20 13:01:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm kind of bad at talking to people and we go to different schools now . I just started talking to him again like two weeks ago. I have never asked anyone out or anything so I don't know what to do! He is really nice but I don't really know how to tell if he likes me or not.

2007-01-20 13:00:26 · 4 answers · asked by anonymous 1 in Singles & Dating

Why do most women prefer dating men that treat them like their personal possession these days?
Has being an outgoing, nice person with personality and spontaniety become boring?
Yes, I am basing this on past experiences. I go on one date with a woman and that's usually it. They seem interested, I act myself, but havent' dated anyone consistently for a few years now.

Ladies, what is it you want? Seriously? Im 26....am I supposed to compromise my dignity to become that Italian asshole you dream of? What's missing here?

None of you know me, so don't say it's my attitude. Thanks. It's late and im aggrevated my love life is going about as good as the general climate of this country under Bush. And that's pretty bad in of itself . Now the thing is.......I'm basing what im saying on 50 percent what im seeing too. Because everytime I tell myself, I am fine with who I am, I see couples EVERYWHERE. There's some blond girl with a guy with a piercing. Am I missing something?
Why are women saying im "awesome" but f*cking other men?

Oh, and one other thing? Don't judge me because im frustrated my love life sucks and I feel like everyone else is succeeding in their own and enjoying life. And don't play therapist and speak to me in a patronizing condescending manner.

2007-01-20 13:00:19 · 26 answers · asked by heymanchase 1 in Singles & Dating