Family & Relationships - 20 January 2007

My oldest sister, who I have a lot of respect for was going out with her boyfriend for almost 4 years I suppose. Her boyfriend was a really down-to-earth and generous person and I couldn't ask for more from him and he always kept my sister happy. 3 years later, which is now, they decided to get married. My mom was really happy and she was making all plans and preparations for the wedding. She just wanted to know the right date of the wedding from the Boyfriend's mother. The problem is that his mother is very hesitant. I don't think she was ever in the mood of getting him married to her, or maybe she didn't like my sister. My sister kept crying because she thought the wedding was gone, so my mom talked on the phone. After talking, her mom blamed my mother that my mother was pressuring her. The wedding is pretty much over and my sister is unimaginable hurt. Being her brother, I too had tears in my eyes. I expected so much from him, but it all failed. How do you feel about this?

2007-01-20 13:37:51 · 4 answers · asked by Sid90 2 in Family

All or at least most of my life especially around new people Ive always constantly worried about what people think of me and how they view me. I was always quit in school and never socialized like i should have. I'm now 18 and don't like to go out much because of this its almost taking over my life. How do i create an i dont care attitude?

2007-01-20 13:36:58 · 6 answers · asked by snowhawk 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

im quite in a dilemma. this girl turned me down and said we should just be friends. i agreed but wrote a letter how awkward it is for me, maybe in the future. the next day she laughed saying the letter was funny. the last time we saw each other, the short conversation was awkward. havent talked to her in a month. she knows i know her bday. im afraid greeting her may mean im ready to be friends (and she may try to see me or ill hear her voice again, which may just hurt me) but if i dont greet her, it may seem im very bitter and cruel. i know this may be a silly question but for some reason, its hard for me to decide on this.

2007-01-20 13:36:41 · 2 answers · asked by vincent m 2 in Singles & Dating

i know its what she wants but i just dont know what to do to surprise her. Is anyone in a similar situation? Got any ideas?

2007-01-20 13:36:22 · 5 answers · asked by mikefraserslough 1 in Singles & Dating

he won't really talk to me, unless i ave a topic, it pisses me off, what do i do to get him to talk to me more

2007-01-20 13:36:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-20 13:36:13 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been having suicidal thoughts for probably the last 2-3 months off and on. I was in love with 1 girl who broke my heart and never talked to me again. The other girl i care SOO much for (love) has never gaven me a chance to date her in the first place and is now going to marry a guy she actually met within the last 6 months i think.so my hearts being TORN to peices because the are getting married July 4th and he wants her to get pregnant on her birthday...shes gonna be 15 on April 30. You tell me...is this enough grounds/reason to commit suicide? I'm not going to kuz i cant leave her but i just want to know. And to those who say "God created me for a reason" PROVE IT. be honest about the question though...would you snap if that happened to you?

2007-01-20 13:36:03 · 31 answers · asked by kenneth p 1 in Singles & Dating

ok there is this guy i really like and i even told him that i like him....but it seems he would always ignore me whenever i see him during school. But now since i happened to see him at a restraunt he thought i followed him there. He even thought i took pictures of him! Now i told a friend to tell him that i don't like him anymore. But he doesn't beleive that i don' like him anymore is that a sign that he likes me or is does that just mean he doesn't really believe?

2007-01-20 13:34:43 · 12 answers · asked by chao w 2 in Singles & Dating

When a girl/boy asks you out?

2007-01-20 13:34:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-20 13:34:34 · 8 answers · asked by janey 1 in Singles & Dating

I guy introduced himself to me. He is a final yr medical student. He told me about himself and his family. He emailed me and said that he would enjoy talking more to me and asked for my phone #. Its been two days he hasn't called yet. did he really mean to call me?

2007-01-20 13:34:13 · 6 answers · asked by americarac 1 in Singles & Dating

Explain....

2007-01-20 13:33:35 · 6 answers · asked by tmang0502 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have always wondered why boys automatically think about sex are they programed that way like what the hell is urr problem why cant u act matchure for one second err

2007-01-20 13:33:34 · 7 answers · asked by tamika d 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-20 13:33:26 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

10 points will be awarded to the one who can give me a thoughtful response!

2007-01-20 13:33:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-20 13:31:39 · 16 answers · asked by tmang0502 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm in 8th grade and my boyfriend is in 6th grade.i rode his bus and this 11th grader like one of my friends.so i was goin2hook them up.long story short, now he likes me.i'm goin2ride my boyfriends bus and i'm scared that the 11th grader is goin2get in the middle of my relationship.i'm scared that he might break up me and my boyfriend.i really really like my boyfriend. i don't know wat2do now.HELP!!!!!!thx peoples
(the 6th grader should be in 7th grade)

2007-01-20 13:31:35 · 16 answers · asked by rock chic3 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so i got some conversation starters but what do after that? how do i keep his attention?

2007-01-20 13:31:23 · 6 answers · asked by corie j 3 in Singles & Dating

There is this guy at school and he is or was my bestfriend.I switched to his class because i just thought drama might be cool and because i have a crush on him and want to spend time with him. then he got so mad the first day that i moved into the class. then the next day we went to the same class and all the girls at our table started making fun of us because he woulndt leave me alone and we started playing footsies together. of course he turned all red and denied that he liked me at all witch of course i dont believe. then i called him after school and he said that i was his worst enemy and that he wanted me to move out of his class or else he was going to have someone else to jump me in the hall should i be scared and why is he treating me like this we were having such a good time before that specific class do i hope that there will ever be friendship between us EVER help or is he trying to hide that he does have a lot of feelings for me im 13 i know this sound STUPID

2007-01-20 13:31:15 · 9 answers · asked by aohottie 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-20 13:31:05 · 4 answers · asked by Sunshine M 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-20 13:30:53 · 11 answers · asked by tmang0502 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

what should i do if my ex-boyfriend likes me again, but i am not sure if i like him to? we went out for 1-and-a-half years, but broke up 3 times in that time period. help!?!?!?!?

2007-01-20 13:30:32 · 12 answers · asked by BAMBI 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-20 13:30:24 · 15 answers · asked by Mike Jones 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-20 13:29:20 · 10 answers · asked by kidtexlex123 1 in Singles & Dating

is he the one for me my friends say so because i tlak about him alot but i really dont knoe if he is ..hes not even my boyfriend and he has a girlfriend but my friends say that he would brake up with her ina heartbeat for me and i dont really knoe ..
i like him alot but im not really the type of person eho wants him to brake her heart because if me what do yuo htink pleaseee helppppppp

2007-01-20 13:28:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-20 13:27:53 · 3 answers · asked by jbc16 1 in Singles & Dating

he stares and i dont stare. i think hes pretty cute and maybe he thinks the same way. does he think I don't like him?

2007-01-20 13:27:44 · 2 answers · asked by Female 4 in Singles & Dating

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2007-01-20 13:27:19 · 2 answers · asked by pianodude 2 in Singles & Dating

he verbaly abuse me alot but now i dont feel the same way about him at the same time dont want to lose my family

2007-01-20 13:27:03 · 6 answers · asked by douna 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

he acts all tough infront of me but he has a gf he teases me messes around tries 2 make me laugh but i'm not sure if he lyks me and his g/f is my friend so thats a little akward but hes so cute but he plays all cool and gods gift from heaven and i dont really lyk that part from him in a way i do but i dont does he lyk me well sometimes he says dumb stuff 2 me so does he lyk me or not? And how do boys flirt?

2007-01-20 13:26:24 · 4 answers · asked by ♥Rocking girl 1 in Singles & Dating