More marriages might survive if the partners realized that sometimes the better comes after the worst.?

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Explain....

Answer 1

well just like in life sometimes you have to hit rock bottom where things are the worst they've ever been before things can get better.. most the time when marriages fail though those couples have hit rock bottom and there is no getting better only hoping to get out alive..

Answer 2

In every marriage there are going to be some bad times, like the death of a parent or someone close. You go through hell and you feel like you may need to leave the relationship because you can't take any more, yet if you are able to stick it out and you survive the bad spot you learn a few things. During a marital crisis you get a chance to really see the character of your spouse and yourself and you learn both their strengths and weaknesses and your own. Both spouses learn how to work with both the strengths and weaknesses. If you can both work together, you both learn together to work as a team. A crisis can either break you apart because you do not work well together or it can unite the both of you as a team and together you become better than before.
Psychologically it has been proven that once a person has went through pain and there is relief from that pain, there is a stronger sence of well being when they no longer have the pain.

Answer 3

WELL... you have to put up with alot of rain to be able to enjoy the rainbow, a marriage requires lots of tender loving care, as if you were growing a plant. One day you might need to turn it to the sun, to let the beautiful sunshine in, and one day you might have to prune a few dead leaves off the plant.
Our marriages are like that, we have to go through hard time , sad times, happy times and one day you get to the rainbow of perfect understanding of what you were learning in the process.
Some give up along the way cause they see another plant they think looks better, or doesn't need pruning, only to realize its stunted and can't grow any futher cause of pride or selfishness, Life is hard, and nothing is easy, If you love each other , it will require hard work and dedication on both parts. So try to make each day a special day , even if its raining, cause the sun usually shines after a storm!!

Answer 4

I agree completely.To many times people cut and run before giving marriage a chance to work.Every marriage is going to have rough spots along the way and it's never going to be easy everyday.When one person is having a hard time the other is supposed to give a hand and help their partner through this rough time.Instead couples today see a rough spot and just throw it all away.It seems that people believe it's easier to start over than it is to fix something they already have.What a waste of a good chance to be better than before by learning how to be stronger for each other.

Answer 5

I agree, marriage isn't easy, but those marriages that have had rocky times and the husband and wife stick together and work through those tough times instead of splitting up know about the better times that come after the worst.

I know, my wife and I have been through it, and we are coming out on the other side and things are getting alot better.

Answer 6

They say life is not a bed of roses. I disagree. Marriage can be like a bed of roses. To get to the flower and enjoy, you must get past the thorns on the stem.