he won't really talk to me, unless i ave a topic, it pisses me off, what do i do to get him to talk to me more
2007-01-20 13:36:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that doesnt like it would be a very fun relationship to be in...i know, ive been there, done that, and in the end i found i just couldnt deal with it anymore. having nothing in common with a person you are supposed to be committed to is a really hard thing to be a part of. if you really want to make it work you have to try and find things that you are both interested in. if you dont talk about anything, how did you become bf/gf in the first place??
2007-01-20 13:41:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make people do anything, so quit trying to be a control freak. If he only talks to you when you have a topic, then make a list of topics before talking to him. Sounds like he thinks you're a bore otherwise.
Edit: Maybe he doesn't say anything because he doesn't want to encourage you to speak further. Perhaps he hopes his silence will silence you for a time.
2007-01-20 21:40:55 · answer #2 · answered by marklemoore 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a different boyfriend. Why stay with an uncommunicative man. There are ones out there that do talk. And what you have with the bf will never change. Some men do and some do not. Its your choice.
2007-01-20 21:41:17 · answer #3 · answered by swamp elf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like he doesn't really care about you. He only means bussiness...whatever. Anyway...find more topics to talk about
2007-01-20 21:39:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could do cartwheels or backflips. Or you could walk a tightrope.
Or you could wise up and find someone who actually cares about you.
I bet if you walked by him holding hands with another guy he would have something to say.
2007-01-20 21:40:47 · answer #5 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you have a relationship with a guy who won't talk to you? Dump him. It shouldn't be hard to find someone better, or at least someone who will talk to you.
2007-01-20 21:39:30 · answer #6 · answered by ginger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
avoid him, ignore him, everything like that. then he'll come running to you begging for attention
2007-01-20 21:39:13 · answer #7 · answered by poppyseed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him what he would like to talk about,,maybe he lost interest in conversation
2007-01-20 21:39:01 · answer #8 · answered by bannantynegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore him and he will come running..u r trying to hard.
2007-01-20 21:39:01 · answer #9 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
what do mean??? your the only one startin the convos??
2007-01-20 21:39:41 · answer #10 · answered by ^MomentaryInsanity^ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋