If the man she loves wants nothing to do with her but hav sex with her when it suits him, she broke her ankle some how sneaking out of her house for him and while she was lieing in bed for a month and a half he didnt even call, not to long after her ankle healed she became pregant and had to get an abortion and he didnt even go with her to get it, on top of that she does drugs and drinks when she doesnt see him and/or he doesnt want to have sex with her.
2007-01-20 13:07:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That ain't love, that's f**ked up..She needs counseling and he needs a beat down from a crew of prison inmate dudes. But hey, then again...they say a guy will only do what you allow him to do, right?
2007-01-20 13:10:50 · answer #1 · answered by Mirch 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The man is a user. He is only using the woman for sex and she must not care about herself. She needs to stay away from this guy and get off of drugs and alcohol. She is only killing herself. It is too bad that the baby is the one who had to pay for what she did. The woman wasn't even responsible enough to have the baby and raise it on her own.They both sound like losers to me. I have no idea what kind of love that is. It's a new one for me.
2007-01-20 13:20:54 · answer #2 · answered by Nancy M. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats not enough love for herself.... this guy somehow manage to break down her selfconfidence or maybe she never had it, somehow she thinks that the only way to feel good, or usefull or even happy is being with that guy, and again... here comes selfishness as the root of the problem, she wants things her way no matter what, she wants that guy with her even if he only uses her, even if means no dignity at all, she just needs to learn how to love herself a lil bit more, and life doesnt go around us, life doesnt do whatever we want, things are the way they are, and for us is just a preference ... in this case she thinks is a NEED. reality= preferences and desires NOT NEEDS. she'd like to be with him, but she doesnt need him to live.
2007-01-20 13:17:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of love is it? It's NOT love. The guy is a loser and he doesn't deserve this girl whatsoever.
The girl, on the otherhand, needs to gain some self confidence and some control over the situation. She needs to MOVE ON. Open her eyes and realize that there is a world out there beyond this jerk.
2007-01-20 13:13:34 · answer #4 · answered by RONALD J 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like an abusive relationship. He is only in it for the sex. She needs support to realize that she is okay without him in her life.
2007-01-20 13:11:56 · answer #5 · answered by gold 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its not a love at all. its called abuse, and being blind...whoever SHE is, she really needs to wake up and see that HE is just playing Her. This guy is simply that, not worthy to be called a man, and if this girl keeps putting up with it, she will never develope into a woman.
2007-01-20 13:13:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like someone needs to learn how to close her legs and say no once and awhile. sorry for being so mean but i have been drinking and my moral compass has been turned off
2007-01-20 13:10:14 · answer #7 · answered by smitty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not love, it's lust.
2007-01-20 13:10:00 · answer #8 · answered by Rach 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋