Family & Relationships - 19 January 2007

My bf has been having alot of problems so had to go back home to sort them out. his phone got stolen while he was there so he emailed me to say he would contact me as soon as he could. a 2 weeks passed and I still hadnt heard from him.! I had to go into hospital because I was sick so my friend contacted one of his friends asking him to pass a message on to my bf if he heard from him. they ended up getting into abit of a argument and my friend told my bf 's friend somethings that she probly shouldn't have. my bf is now blaming this on me and saying if I really cared for him I wouldn't destroy his friendship with his friend. when it wasn't me who contacted his friend in the first place. also during the time I didn't hear from him I was getting phone calls from a girl who said she was married to my boyfriend. I have since found ....

2007-01-19 12:51:35 · 8 answers · asked by emily 1 in Singles & Dating

My byf and I have been dating but we just had a fight
We need advice on baby names
for either a girl or boy
we can't decide so we are leaving it up to you
please help us out and give us names
unusual ones
or common ones
please just help

2007-01-19 12:51:15 · 6 answers · asked by Wanna_b_with_u...<3 ~KALA 2 in Singles & Dating

what would you all think if your ex an you broke up an he/she moved in on one of your family members...?? To much of keepin it in the family if you ask me.. I find it kinda NASTY i couldn't be with someones family member(sister, brother, cousin) after i had been with them.. Am i the only one that finds it starnge an a lil nasty

2007-01-19 12:50:58 · 4 answers · asked by pruittsgurl_01 2 in Family

Ok, so i like this guy...Okay well i more then like htis guy, we are friends and he is on my theatre team we hang out a lot. But i really like this guy hes my neighbor and my firend. He knows that i like him, but how can i find out if he likes me...
I dont need...to know i would just like to and i dont know who to find out...
So i could i find out...?

2007-01-19 12:50:53 · 2 answers · asked by Tay Tay 2 in Singles & Dating

...those that will support you through anything and those that won't?

2007-01-19 12:50:29 · 11 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4 in Singles & Dating

im having some problems at home, with my mom and her soon to be ex-husband, the man i hate most MY step-dad aka, the no good dirty rotten worthless cheating son of a monkey's uncle(his mom is awsome, ill show her respect) i told my bf, and he understands but lately i havent been as open with him i never get to see him so i can only comfort him over the phone, same with him "comforting" me but i told him its like im fighting a war with my emotions and family strain isnt helping and i didnt want to lie to him so he got the cold hard truth, which i didnt want to tell him, right now im not letting anyone close to me, or my heart i even pushed my best friend of 6 years away along with everyone i have no one to trust and im locking everyone out of my emotions and heart for now until this is settled inside me(i know it sounds crummy) and he told me the truth after i asked him to tell me, he was mostly scared of getting locked out and me not letting him come back I’ve told him that but he still seems worried like the other night I was in a personal chat room with him his cousin and our friend, well my sister being the brat she is pressed something and the computer shut down after I rebooted it his cousin started nailing me with things like ” y did u leave, u didnt say goodbye, JC is really worried, he was about to call u” so on so forth well I asked her y he was so scared and she told me that he thought that something had happened, anyways right now I am SO scared of losing him I cant stand it anymore, what can I do to help

2007-01-19 12:49:52 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have reached a point in my life where I have to decide between taking it slow and being happy with friends and family or going strong, changing things and making myself into what I have always wanted to be. My question is, at the end of the day is it worth it? And what do you think is more predominant in our society, career or family?

2007-01-19 12:49:17 · 9 answers · asked by Madi 1 in Friends

Well ive known this girl since the 6th grade now im in 8th now and we use to talk a lot in the 6th grade but now we dont so how do i get her to at least talk to me or even like me?

2007-01-19 12:48:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really like this guy, and if I liked him anymore I would be totally obsessed with him. Our school is having a funraiser, and they're selling carnations for $1. You can send it, and write something on a card. I really want to send him one, but I have no idea what to write on it. Any ideas?? thanks!!!

2007-01-19 12:48:04 · 10 answers · asked by :) 4 in Singles & Dating

I want to move out, I am a female age 16 (17 soon) living in Massachusetts.My parents would never agree to it, but I am unhappy with my current situation. I have heard about emancipation but I don't see how its possible (you need to be living on your own to be emancipated). What are my options?

2007-01-19 12:47:55 · 5 answers · asked by jt114881 3 in Family

well i asked her out and she said i'll think about it and then after a week her friends told me she said no. But after that whole thing she began to be really shy around me and we don't really talk anymore. she looks at me alot during class and turns away when i look. did she say no to hide that she liked me? also i got a friend to talk to her and she said she wanted to talk to me. i'm kinda confused now. i also noticed shes been trying to talk to me but is too shy.she also threw a ball up piece of paper at me then turned around quickly. i'm just not sure what to think anymore. should talk to her?

2007-01-19 12:47:00 · 10 answers · asked by mugiwara luffy 2 in Singles & Dating

My brother only got one hour of sleep i asked him a question and he is calling me an idiot and taking it out on me. Should i let him continue or tell him to stop. Help and be honest please. Let me hear from you.

2007-01-19 12:46:44 · 11 answers · asked by lexmark_z_35 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-19 12:46:24 · 5 answers · asked by zebragirl 1 in Family

Our town has no community center or similar place for kids to hang out with their friends in a safe environment. I'm planning on attending a town meeting to make suggestions for such an organization & need ideas to propose. What type of activies could we present that kids would like to participate in & be feasible for a small town? I was thinking along the lines of pool tables, double dutch tourny, themed parties, etc. Please share your ideas.

2007-01-19 12:46:17 · 8 answers · asked by ? 3 in Friends

2007-01-19 12:46:06 · 18 answers · asked by Bryan M 5 in Marriage & Divorce

She says it in her mind, maybe cos we live with her parents at present before we go back packing in a month and half, but she just doesnt seem to be able to relax and let her self go, if we do make love then it seems to be over in 15 mins, in which i feel presured to perform as she said once to take the opputinity, i know she loves me with all her heart. It seems to her that she doesn't enjoy or want to have sex anymore,last time we did we where stoned, and that was at my mums house last weekend in a different country, any ideas girls?

2007-01-19 12:45:43 · 10 answers · asked by DcGonzo 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

well there is this one gurl and i really like her but ive lied 2 her b4 and she doesnt trust me and i really regret lying 2 her cause i feel like i ruined the relationship and i really want her 2 forgive me but i think it will take a long tyme for her 2 forgive me and im really sorry but i dunno how to make it up to her . . .

2007-01-19 12:45:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-19 12:45:05 · 41 answers · asked by panic_l0ve 1 in Singles & Dating

how do u have your first kiss, like who should it be with, and when, what is the right time, and where,and how should I do it?
please help
!

2007-01-19 12:44:55 · 7 answers · asked by Kristen 1 in Friends

i really liked this guy at school and gave him my cell number. I invited him to two of my parties. He came over in the middle of the night and we had sex. WE have had sex five times. He hasnt asked me out.
So after a couple of weeks i ignored all his calls. He only calls me on saturday nights at like 12 or later. He always likes to get high when he comes over to visit me even after twelve beers. I feel like i am just a doormat. But i have ignored him for two months. And i am wondering should i answer his call when he calls me on saturday?

2007-01-19 12:44:49 · 9 answers · asked by Ashley 1 in Singles & Dating

my gurl said.....i will kick you in your shins so it will give you a bruise that will last for a couple of days......
any others want to try?

2007-01-19 12:44:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband,every Saturday night after his AA mtngs he goes out and comes home at 5am in the morning and this has been going on for quite some time.He's not poor.believe me.Im the one who get's stuck home with the kids.He doesn't ever take me no where.You figure it out.That is my Question.You figure why Im not happy.I know Why.Please humor me.

2007-01-19 12:43:58 · 15 answers · asked by atinanoskcirenosrebor 1 in Singles & Dating

I met this guy a few months back, and we talked a little bit, but not alot. Well, 3 weeks back, we hung out at a friend's house, and seemed to hit it off. later on a friend said he was flirting with me, and it turns out he isn't the flirty type, he hasn't asked for my number, should I give it to him, or wait and see if he asks for it?

2007-01-19 12:43:55 · 20 answers · asked by Lastasia 1 in Singles & Dating

If a friend tells my boyfriend to kiss me is it really a kiss?

2007-01-19 12:43:12 · 5 answers · asked by Kristen 1 in Friends

My seven year old son lives with my sister and her husband. My son went out on the road with his Uncle this evening on the big truck. My sister said that her husband checked the wheather report before they left and he thinks that they are in no significant danger due to the wheather this weekend. I get my news from the Internet and what I saw says other wise. Oklahoma is preparing for the worst. Everyone is worried about running out of supplies such as sand for the roads, etc. Yet my family thinks that I am worried for no good reason. We live West of Ft Worth. What do you think?

2007-01-19 12:42:56 · 12 answers · asked by Linda's Gift Shop 1 in Family

2007-01-19 12:42:39 · 5 answers · asked by Michael S 1 in Family

who do you belieive the one best friend that u known would never do something like that to you or the one love?

2007-01-19 12:41:26 · 9 answers · asked by twoangelface 1 in Singles & Dating

I know that they say that men value looks in a partner more than women do, and women value confidence/intelligence/money/sense of humor in a partner more than men do.

However, all the girls I know keep talking about cute guys at work, on tv etc... The guys also do this, but not in front of women and not as often.

Are women just saying these things to make me feel insecure? Or is that how women really think when given the freedom to do so?

2007-01-19 12:41:08 · 10 answers · asked by ets_stats 1 in Singles & Dating

To actually make plans with me? My husband and I have been married for 8 months..and I don't remember the last time we went out alone...usually we go out with his friends...thats fine and dandy with me..but I want to go out with just him...also he would rather go out with only his friends and sister instead of me... I started planning our 1 year anni trip..and he's like..well lets invite other couples...um....whatever...that takes away the entire meaning of the trip...is this normal? What should I do? And what is wrong with men!?

2007-01-19 12:41:03 · 13 answers · asked by mizzms 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i know you have to put it down...but...isn't a guy just as entitled to complain that you "always leave the seat down" and have to lift it up when using the bathroom?

2007-01-19 12:40:03 · 27 answers · asked by Mic Y 1 in Singles & Dating