i really liked this guy at school and gave him my cell number. I invited him to two of my parties. He came over in the middle of the night and we had sex. WE have had sex five times. He hasnt asked me out.
So after a couple of weeks i ignored all his calls. He only calls me on saturday nights at like 12 or later. He always likes to get high when he comes over to visit me even after twelve beers. I feel like i am just a doormat. But i have ignored him for two months. And i am wondering should i answer his call when he calls me on saturday?
2007-01-19 12:44:49 · 9 answers · asked by Ashley 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would say no unless you like being a doormat.
2007-01-19 12:48:20 · answer #1 · answered by MD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your right, he is just using you for his doormat. You deserve so much more than that. The first mistake you made was having sex with him too soon. You did not give him the chance to get to know you on a personal level, not to mention he is drunk/high every time he sees you. Why is that? Can't he be himself or brave enough when he is with you? If this is all you want or interested in, then go ahead and pick up the phone, but if you want more than this, it may be too late with him, but a good place to start over with someone else. This dog already as the wrong impression of you.
2007-01-19 20:52:10 · answer #2 · answered by Girls M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, answer his call if you are satisfied being a booty call. If that's all you need from him, go ahead and be there for his need. If you feel like you are a doormat and don't like the feeling, you can fix it. Stop being a doormat. You deserve someone who respects and likes you for being you--all of you.
2007-01-19 20:49:28 · answer #3 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't a doormat. You are a free booty call.
Stay away from this loser and stop letting yourself be used.
You're acting cheaper than a hooker. A hooker gets paid.
Get some self respect.
You are probably a smart girl but you are doing some dumb things.
2007-01-19 20:49:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are still being a doormat, quit being a sl-ut. First develop respect for yourself, then find a respectable guy to date.
2007-01-19 20:51:03 · answer #5 · answered by Dave ! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Answer it ask him if he will go out with you and then continue with sex if you are O.K with what he says or O.K with you dating or even being friends. After you ask him and he answers do what you feel like doing. If you are O.K having sex with a friend if thats the case then do it. Listen to your heart and do what you feel doing and live life the way you want to.
2007-01-19 20:51:34 · answer #6 · answered by lexmark_z_35 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doormat, and sure if you want more sex.
he sounds like a real champ.
2007-01-19 20:48:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweety he is using u and u are letting him. dump him and get u a good man. sounds like he wants to be with you on his terms. either make it on your terms or move on. good luck
2007-01-19 20:50:07 · answer #8 · answered by Truth Teller 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its sounds like he is using you..
2007-01-19 20:48:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋