She says it in her mind, maybe cos we live with her parents at present before we go back packing in a month and half, but she just doesnt seem to be able to relax and let her self go, if we do make love then it seems to be over in 15 mins, in which i feel presured to perform as she said once to take the opputinity, i know she loves me with all her heart. It seems to her that she doesn't enjoy or want to have sex anymore,last time we did we where stoned, and that was at my mums house last weekend in a different country, any ideas girls?
2007-01-19 12:45:43 · 10 answers · asked by DcGonzo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well maybe it's cos ye live with her parents.. that has to be a mood killer.. but it could be any number of reasons. The only way you'll find out is to ask her.
2007-01-19 12:58:05 · answer #1 · answered by blondie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to her and ask if anything is troubling her lately ( maybe stress on wedding plans?) doing it at her parents' house might just be a little too weird too, knowing they probably know what you're up to. i'm guessing something is making her uncomfortable and you shoudl try to get to the bottom of things with a nice talk...let her know you care what she's thinking and has on her mind, and not just because of sex either!
2007-01-21 12:54:04 · answer #2 · answered by lilxchinkie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she isn't totally relaxed knowing that her parents are in the next room.
You need to find somewhere you can be totally alone and do a spot of romancing to put her in the mood.
2007-01-20 22:36:40 · answer #3 · answered by chelsea19622000 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
honestly and really honestly, she wont feel like that unless theirs somethimg bothering her or wrong. be understanding and get it out of her, but dont start obsessing over it or bothering her too much, incase it ends up in an argument or things get worser in any way. start making love to her properly when you can. dont take ugly 15 mins when she gives you the opportunity thats makes things worse. and it sounds gross.
2007-01-19 13:02:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Funny but I have never been able to perform well when the Parents or the Kids are next door......
2007-01-20 22:08:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give her a rest! - she's in her parents house for godsake!!! not very conducive to a good session is it?
2007-01-19 16:54:49 · answer #6 · answered by Just me 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps she finds you physically repellant. Or maybe you're not very good at it - if you were, she'd probably be gagging for more.
2007-01-19 12:52:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
yah she sounds liike a grade a prude!
2007-01-19 12:53:11 · answer #8 · answered by rpoker 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
ask.....and if he dont come up with a good reason...buy a rampant rabbit and tell him to hop it
2007-01-19 13:58:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
mayb shes a fella flip her ova an do her up de rse ole if she luvs it shes a tranny anur as gay as a happy clown.
2007-01-19 13:21:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 4⤋