my husband is very controlling, i understand paying the bills with my checks, and his, but i asked him one day why he needs my checks all he said was, your checks really don't help but the do alittle, i said then why don't you let me be responsible for my checks, all he had to say was, so i can show you how to be responsible.
he also holds me down to in a room so i can't go anywhere, saying were going to talk now!! he said so i can't go hurt myself, when there any other problem, he likes to say whats wrong with you even when i already told him like three times, and then he finds away to backfire on me
i've already told him i think we should go to counceling, but he refuses to go, he said if he thinks theres a problem then we'll go..
i don't know what to do, i love him soo much, i'm a mess.. thankyou
2007-01-17
03:00:37
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darkfairiy
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Marriage & Divorce