Also, I am kind of wondering if she will feel closer to me if I trust her and tell her my deepest secrets along with giving her compliments. How will this make her feel? I have told her that I "like her a whole lot!", and I do. I just want to show her that I do as well!
2007-01-17 02:55:17 · 6 answers · asked by +TheEndIsInSight+ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it helps her in the short term until you sleep with her and leave her, then she'll be back at square one!
2007-01-17 02:59:28 · answer #1 · answered by Tacyella 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
By choosing to engage her self-esteem you run a real risk of her slowly becoming more and more dependent on you for that "fix." That's not healthy for you or for her. Self-esteem is something she has to deal with, like any other addiction in life, she has to want to quit rating herself so low and start realizing how beautiful and valuable and unique a queen she truly is. You can't help her, can't encourage her for this is entirely a personal battle. So don't even try. Be her friend and not her boyfriend (that'll only make it worse when you break up), don't let her get hooked on your words, you, your love and let her grow in her own time and in her own way. Never get frustrated with her setbacks and slow progress. Bring into her life strong girls who can better support her emotionally and spiritually as they'll have a better grasp of her issues.
2007-01-17 11:07:02 · answer #2 · answered by simm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have very low self esteem and I know from experience That if someone complements you and thy look serious than it makes me feel beater and to get here to believe that you like her ask her out and tell her that no madder her answer you'll still like here and will always wont to be here friend even if she say no buy here some flowers and some treats and tell here shes beautifull
2007-01-17 11:17:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it really made me have better self esteem after my bf told me a lot that i looked hot and stuff but then when we broke up it went down agian cuz i thought he said all that stuff just to get me, so only say it if you mean it!!! also, yeah tell her things about you and trust her but don't freak her out with liek your whole life story right away cuz she might get thinking you're too serious about her. i donno, do what you feel is right, if she seems interested tell her more!
2007-01-17 11:04:19 · answer #4 · answered by shine_on 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to me, what your doing is great your showing her that is it okay to trust people and that if he/a guy for one thinks this of me then maybe its true. Keep being sweet to her then shell start to fall for you Im betting. Maybe try doing something romantic for her red roses? Good Luck this sounds too sweet!!!
2007-01-17 11:06:40 · answer #5 · answered by Rachael 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do all that **** just to get her in bed....and dont tell her all this dark stuff unless shes on the subject of whatever it is..it'll freak her out.....just take the time if you like her you'll wait
2007-01-17 11:03:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋