I ve been having problems with my boy firend, yesterday i asked him did he wanted to go to olive garden or T.G.I fridays, for valentines day and on my birthday that is comming up did he wanted to go to the mall and take pictures, or vise versa for the days, but he automatically said no! at first i thought he was just playing, but he wasn't. and lately, we have not been talking like usual on the phone, it's just hey, i love you, bye. He's always busy and never has time for me. He never wants to go any where with me or anything. And the thing is, he just doesn't know what a good girl he has on his hands, he doesn't appreciate the fact that i turn sooooooo many boys down just because of him. i need help!!!!! do i break up with him and find someone that appreciates me, or do i try to work it out and talk to him about my problem? please give me the best advice you could because iam very confused and hurt.
2007-01-17 03:03:47 · 21 answers · asked by forever T 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
we,ve been going together for four months now.
2007-01-17 03:32:14 · update #1
You should try to work it out and talk to him about the problem and if that dont work you should break up with him and find someone that appreciates you.Don't sell yourself short for no guy no matter who it is.
2007-01-17 03:09:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We here so much problems like these and yet when it comes to being our problem we really don't know what to do. Do you think there might be any reason why he is acting this way. I always try to find the root of such problems. Do you think you might have done something or was he always this distant from the start. Next, try talking to him, tell him your thoughts about where this relationship is going and ask him if there is any problems. If he really doesn't want to answer you or just ignores you even if you try to talk to him then maybe it is time to face reality and accept that it might be over. Also it seems that you might be giving yourself too much to him that he might start taking advantage. If he doesnt want to take you out, find someone else who wants to. It is hard but everyone moves on and you will find someone who is better attentive.
Good luck
2007-01-17 03:33:08 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to take a break. Tell him that you have been feeling neglected latetly and you are not sure if this relationship is working out. Instead of just breaking up, take a break and see if he makes any effort to keep the relationship. IF he makes no effort at all to try and win you back, then his heart really isn't into it and you can dump him before more heart strings get involved.
2007-01-17 03:09:43 · answer #3 · answered by Suki 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I would start by not calling him so much and start hanging out with your friends and see if he starts calling you. Maybe he is just confused or preoccupied. You don't need to break up with him right away. If he doesn't call you even after you slow down on calling him then sit down and talk to him and go from there.
2007-01-17 03:10:05 · answer #4 · answered by Maria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know how long you guys been together or much of your history-but it does sound like he is taking you for granted!!! you should make him realize that he has a good thing-but perhaps he never will. my suggestion-give him the benefit of the doubt-talk to him, don't cheat on him, but if you don't feel things getting better, do make things happen for your happiness and set him free to find someone who will appreciate you for all your good qualities.
2007-01-17 03:11:07 · answer #5 · answered by INGA C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My sis, u need to sit him down and talk to him about it because sometimes people dnt value things unless it gets out of their hands before they realize, and i think he will change if u talk things over with him bt if nt then sis pls find ur way out of this relatnship ok.
2007-01-17 03:20:53 · answer #6 · answered by nanevaluv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might hard for you to tell but girl he is cheating on you or has a crush on someone else you can believe it or not but thats whats going on you should ask him why the sudden change.
2007-01-17 03:07:57 · answer #7 · answered by Glamour&Glory 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is trying to get you to do the breaking up. Go out with the other guys, this one is not for you....
2007-01-17 03:06:52 · answer #8 · answered by jessie1985 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on to the other guys who appreciate you more. Date those other guys and see what he says, if he says anything at all. Do not chase him.
2007-01-17 03:07:54 · answer #9 · answered by Thomas K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it time to find a guy the what,s to spend time with out. this boy shows he does,t care about you anymore.tell him it looks like he don,tlove you any more and you feel it,s time for you to move one and find a new love. like that song called new love.i,m loking for a new love baby anew love. that song gets to the point.
2007-01-17 03:12:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋