i have just won a huge gold medal for graduating D.A.R.E. (defense against drugs.) i wrote the best essay in my class, and since i want to be writer it felt wonderful! i for once am proud of myself, but then my friend marylyn is upset. she keeps on saying that she worked harder than anyone else. caroline, my other friend told her that we all worked hard.caroline was happy for me. but marilyn is giving me attitude. what should i do?
2007-01-17 02:59:04 · 9 answers · asked by Carol 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
just a lit bit jelousy,try to be desensitized and act like that.
do not care there are lotz of these things happening to people like u every day.
practice to get over this prob then in future u even won't consider them az probs!
good luck
2007-01-17 03:08:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 08:49:18 · answer #2 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would a true friend whine about how they worked so much harder than you, or would they congratulate you and be happy for your success? Just something to think on. While self absorption and selfishness seem to be the norm nowadays, it is not a sign of true friendship.
2007-01-17 03:06:26 · answer #3 · answered by Raising6Ducklings! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A real friend would be happy for you. This girl is a sore loser and not a friend. Drop her. She will always make you feel bad. That's how she makes herself feel good.
2007-01-17 03:05:17 · answer #4 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes obviosly is just jealous if she was a true mate she would have been happy for you . u need to think about ur friendship with her
2007-01-17 03:37:01 · answer #5 · answered by beth f 4 eva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her some space, she is disappointed, and its probably hard for her to watch you be so happy in yourself. Give her time, she will come to her senses soon.
2007-01-17 03:02:21 · answer #6 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's just jelous.. maybe she thought that she would win :( try to be nice to her but dont let her make you believe that you dont deserve it! she will get over it.. its your achievement.. just let it blow over.. invite her over to sleep with caroline and just do all your usual girly things and just act like it isnt an issue! :) good luck x
2007-01-17 03:03:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awwwww, isn't that too bad? You have such problems, don't you?
2007-01-17 03:01:26 · answer #8 · answered by gone 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nothing.She's a loser
2007-01-17 03:04:58 · answer #9 · answered by Erik F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋