Ladies,
Let me ask you something.
1. Do you truly enjoy porn?
Now before you answer
Put all the social stuff out. how cool your b/f thinks you are for watching it, all the pressure to feel this way or that about it, etc... Please be honest.
2. Do you ever feel that when you are with a guy you are just "bad porn"? Again please be honest.
thanks for your help.
2007-01-17 02:54:49 · 20 answers · asked by michele46us 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
http://www.ouruf.org/d/cvc_pornmyth.pdf
Read this. Not my views per se. Just interested in seeing how many connected to this piece. How accurate the "study" was
2007-01-17 04:38:31 · update #1
I have watched it a time or 2 by myself and horny, but I think it has no place in a relationship because it is degrading and disrespectful. It makes men see women as sex objects and takes the love and intimacy out of what a relationship is truly supposed to be. If a man respects his woman, he doesn''t need that crap to get turned on or to get off. If he is a real man, than a real woman should be plenty to satisfy him.
And yes, if a man is so into porn, it can make you feel like you are a bad porn.
2007-01-17 03:50:34 · answer #1 · answered by xquis81 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Porn is great and who cares what other people think i get hot and happy watching it without my boyfriend yes it is great if he will watch with you then you can try things
and girls can say what they want to there are lots of ladies out there that just love seeing it they don't want to be cool with the boyfriends
who ever invented porn should get a big award of some sort
people that feel dirty by porn are not relaxed and at ease with their sexuality
and no i don't feel like a bad porn if i have sex with a guy i don't even think of porn it might be in the back of your mind but only to think what you could do to spice him/her up
2007-01-17 03:39:20 · answer #2 · answered by cherie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that watching porn can be entertaining_ and sometimes educational
When it is something a BF wants to do, it's usually been because they want to do what the people on the video do. I've had the issue before where someone was trying to be in positions, etc that we didn't go in! !
People who get paid to have sex - better be good at it. Don't expect me to be all twisted up or disrespected because the girls on the video don't mind *** on their faces !
2007-01-17 03:00:31 · answer #3 · answered by az_showers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since I have been old enough to indulge in porn I have always found it stimulating. Wether I'm alone or with my partner. We criticize, laugh, and compare certain moves or styles of behaviors. However, I don't believe we have ever watched an entire DVD from beginning to end without having sex....
The question regarding "bad porn"...not sure what you meant by that. I believe your sex life with your mate is something you both contribute to. No one person should be to blame if it's not "hot" every time.
Does that make sense?
2007-01-17 02:59:37 · answer #4 · answered by Brokenconfused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do enjoy porn. I even watch it without my man. I can relate to that "bad porn" experience, too. An ex of mine had to role play or he couldn't do it. It was always the same thing and I felt like I was watching myself in a really bad movie!
2007-01-17 02:59:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do enjoy it to a certain extent, I am just wierd because I like japanimation porn; and no. When I am with a man I just do what feels good and I am ery vocal about what I like and i ask the same from him. I would like to make my own movie someday, I cant help but think it would be much better than Paris Hilton's amateur tape!!LOL!
2007-01-17 02:58:50 · answer #6 · answered by Lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Porn is okay. It has it's moments. It's a turn on. I never feel like a "bad porn" ever. A really hot porn maybe, but it's all what you make it. i've had bad sex though!
2007-01-17 03:18:11 · answer #7 · answered by Pattie T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont enjoy pron. There was this incident that this fling brought some. As he was avid for it, of course he's a guy! So we watched it...to get uh, charged up/in the mood/horny - but it didnt work for me! It was the firstime i ever have watched some porn. I was curious of he's reaction. Yeah it was expected, it helps him. For my part, i felt a bit violated. Cant guys be a bit sensitive and not concentrate in real 'intimacy'. There are a lot of other foreplay t get in the mood! :) hehehe
2007-01-17 03:03:21 · answer #8 · answered by shanekeavy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really do enjoy porn, but only when the people are hot and it's not too horribly cheesy. guys seem to be able to enjoy pretty much anything fvcking.
and no i've never felt like i'm just 'bad porn'.
2007-01-17 02:59:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Porn is cool, I think its actually pretty darn funny, sometimes I watch it alone or with my sweetie, sometimes my friends and I watch it and wonder how many people do some of those positions in real life. I dont think I am bad porn
2007-01-17 02:59:32 · answer #10 · answered by twysty 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋