Family & Relationships - 17 January 2007

I know it all has to do with each certain guy and their preference..but for the most part how do you guys like your women?

2007-01-17 03:44:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my wife used to not wear a bra.. she said it made her boobs look and feel better.... i agreed since she did have the best boobs i've ever seen. after we got married, we moved to a country not as liberal as america could be, so i asked her to start weraing a bra and even she hesitated, she started wearing it. a few years later, her boobs are not the same (we also had a kid) i think her boobs even shrunk and they are not firm and nice as before.
was i wrong to ask her to start using a bra since moving out of the country regardless the change in her boobs?
does the bra had to do anything with the change in her boobs?

2007-01-17 03:44:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

All of the girls in central california think there Paris Hilton and a high profile person. I'm a down to earth guy that's in good shape but these girls are really into drinking and worrying what other people are doing, not to mention very vein. I am three semesters away from completing my degree and will be enrolling in the MBA program after. Where is a good place to meet quality girls. I didn't think it would be this hard, I scout them out every semester in my classes but they never pan out. any help would be great.

2007-01-17 03:44:03 · 7 answers · asked by 22_cali_boy 1 in Singles & Dating

I met this guy when I was 15 and he was 22. He was always nice and very attractive. I recently got back in touch with him again and want him to see me as an adult and not the 15 year old girl he met. What should I do?

2007-01-17 03:43:17 · 8 answers · asked by BeRe 2 in Singles & Dating

I am love with someone other than my spouse. I feel he is my soulmate and I want to lick his wounds and stroke his large creative ego. The passion he inspires in me is awesome. This is all very odd for me since I have lived a very status quo lifestyle for many many years. I don't want to miss this opportunity to experience a deep passion and I am a responsible person. Advice needed.

2007-01-17 03:43:06 · 11 answers · asked by osbourne_again 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My daughter is separated from her husband and is having to pay all the household bills.

2007-01-17 03:42:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

met this girl back in June. She had a BF. (now..dec 19th 06' has been with him a year) she stated he cheated when they first started but she trusts him now and said he hasnt done it since. Anyway. We connected in a flash..the same interests weird attitudes, and warm hearts. We started seeing eachother alot..led to kissing dinners and eventually intimacy. all this time he was away in costa rica she was here. she said when she goes back to school with him that she has to see her feelings. We ended up falling in love and told eachother.She told me in september that the right thing to do is stay with him cause she loves him to. from sept till now we still talk alot and when she comes home we meet up and hang out. she still feels the same and so do i and we've kissed and and still very close. SHe decided if we're to remain close to not act on our impulses. Cuz we mean alot to eachother. she made a promise if anything happens one day. we'll be together.

2007-01-17 03:42:14 · 23 answers · asked by V P 2 in Singles & Dating

We are in our late 20s now and I'm not sure how to handle this news. I am the first person he has ever told. He has been with 7 women since. Is this kind of behavior normal as a teenager? How would you handle it?

2007-01-17 03:42:11 · 27 answers · asked by golden2 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-17 03:41:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-01-17 03:41:25 · 10 answers · asked by sarahl 1 in Singles & Dating

i am 20 and none yet, should i be worried?

2007-01-17 03:41:11 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The Technique
Active listening is really an extension of the Golden Rule. To know how to listen to someone else, think about how you would want to be listened to.

While the ideas are largely intuitive, it might take some practice to develop (or re-develop) the skills. Here’s what good listeners know – and you should, too:

Face the speaker. Sit up straight or lean forward slightly to show your attentiveness through body language.

Maintain eye contact, to the degree that you all remain comfortable.

Minimize external distractions. Turn off the TV. Put down your book or magazine, and ask the speaker and other listeners to do the same.

Respond appropriately to show that you understand. Murmur (“uh-huh” and “um-hmm”) and nod. Raise your eyebrows. Say words such as “Really,” “Interesting,” as well as more direct prompts: “What did you do then?” and “What did she say?”

Focus solely on what the speaker is saying. Try not to think about what you are going to say next. The conversation will follow a logical flow after the speaker makes her point.

Minimize internal distractions. If your own thoughts keep horning in, simply let them go and continuously re-focus your attention on the speaker, much as you would during meditation.

Keep an open mind. Wait until the speaker is finished before deciding that you disagree. Try not to make assumptions about what the speaker is thinking.

Avoid letting the speaker know how you handled a similar situation. Unless she specifically asks for advice, assume she just needs to talk it out.

Even if the speaker is launching a complaint against you, wait until she finishes to defend yourself. The speaker will feel as though her point had been made. She won’t feel the need to repeat it, and you’ll know the whole argument before you respond. Research shows that, on average, we can hear four times faster than we can talk, so we have the ability to sort ideas as they come in…and be ready for more.

Engage yourself. Ask questions for clarification, but, once again, wait until the speaker has finished. That way, you won’t interrupt her train of thought. After you ask questions, paraphrase her point to make sure you didn’t misunderstand. Start with: “So you’re saying…”

2007-01-17 03:40:33 · 1 answers · asked by happysmilesofme 1 in Friends

why dont men listern and care

2007-01-17 03:40:00 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I understand that the people who are invited must be on the guest list, but who should be invited to the bridal shower. Our guest list is HUGE so inviting all females would just not work, but is there a list of people we shouldn't forget, and the etiquette is?

2007-01-17 03:39:52 · 10 answers · asked by Nichole 3 in Weddings

Im not all that into zodiac signs but I'm an aquarius, and I've dated 3 geminis and they all seem crazy in similiar ways. They all seem confused of what they want. It's crazy because I read about gems and these guys act just like they described. So I wanted to know what yall think of zodiac signs are they CRAZY!

Also, whats your signs?

2007-01-17 03:39:14 · 27 answers · asked by ♥Truthfully♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

What is a GREAT Line that I can say to my boyfriend (the love of my life) who is moving back home to the mid west (i live on the east coast) that will stick in his head forever! We lost our daughter 6 months ago and I will miss him alot. I've been feeling a great deal on anixety and I don't want him to go. He's leaving next weekend and I want to make a long lasting impression on him.

2007-01-17 03:38:52 · 5 answers · asked by T.I.M.E. 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-17 03:38:41 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

his family tells me he never talked marriage or love until he met me... is that enough to turn a player, honorable!!??

2007-01-17 03:38:01 · 25 answers · asked by coco 2 in Singles & Dating

hi i use to have a very great friend called terry green we went to alban wood junior school together, an lost touch due to personal situations, any way jus hoping his well

2007-01-17 03:37:16 · 2 answers · asked by ace 1 in Friends

We have been married for three years. He was laid off about a month before the wedding and has not been able to find a job since. He has been trying to qualify for Social Security disabilty (sleep apnea and fibromyalgia) but was turned down. Our marriage is on shaky ground right now. He won't go to marriage counseling - I have been going in by myself. I don't make a lot of money - just enough to cover the bills and save a little bit - definitely not enough to support two households. Anyone know if I will have to pay him alimony?

2007-01-17 03:36:40 · 20 answers · asked by celebratewithkathi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

fairytales..you know..the whole prince charming..stuff or do you want the regular guy with a job..kinda thing..do I need to lie to you to get you..

2007-01-17 03:36:07 · 10 answers · asked by Kingofreportedabuse 3 in Singles & Dating

We deserve to be pampered and spoiled!

2007-01-17 03:35:41 · 13 answers · asked by Queen Bee 4 in Singles & Dating

How do you handle this, if one person is far more nitpicky than the other? Whose standard should be the rule? Should the more nitpicky person just get over it, or should the less nitpicky person hold themselves to the other's standard?

2007-01-17 03:35:32 · 21 answers · asked by Lauren M 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband is a very sweet sentimental man. He is famous for getting me "just the right gift" for every occasion and wowed me when he proposed. Now that it's our first anniversary I want to wow him right back. I have already made him a memory book at Shutterfly.com of all of our digital photos from the past year but what else can I do? I need creative ideas, for under $200. We are already planning on going to dinner and staying in a hotel for a night away from our two children.

2007-01-17 03:35:20 · 7 answers · asked by totspotathome 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-17 03:35:05 · 6 answers · asked by buddha lova 1 in Marriage & Divorce

OKAY i have a crush on this boy and i told him i liked him he said he dint know wat to say i said maybe we can go out but i think hes afraid of his friends cuz he is like super popular but i am to but its not that i am a litle chubby but not fat wat should i do btw there isnt that many cute guys for my taste in my school wat should i do?????

2007-01-17 03:34:54 · 4 answers · asked by ~Shan~ aka Shannon B 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay I been talking to this guy for like 4 months .. We go out to movies and dinner and stuff and um everythings been good .. Hes a really nice guy .. Hes in the army very respectfull... great guy ... So yesterday he surprises me at work and asked me to be his girlfriend .... I said yes ,, but know im relazing that i dont want him.. Not becuase of him but if u read my previos questions I have been in alot this past year and im scared to get hurt agian id rather stay alone .. i think that i went threw so much that i dont want anyone else i rather stay alone .. I dont want to hurt him hes a really good guy . SHould i stay with him and let my self love agian or should i leave him KNOWING it hasnt even been 24 hours !

2007-01-17 03:34:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Kids. I just don’t get what’s supposed to be so good about them. Can anyone explain why spending humungous amounts of time, energy, and money – as well as giving up your life for 20 odd years is better than having loads of expensive holidays, a big fast car, a nice tidy pad and going out whenever you like?

2007-01-17 03:34:31 · 12 answers · asked by montecarlo296 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

can a long distance relationship work? Me and this guy use to mess around(not literally) but then i moved away. will we still stay together?how willthis move affect us? Is he seeing another girl while i'm gone? HELP!!!!!

2007-01-17 03:33:42 · 20 answers · asked by atlzprincess4lyfe 2 in Singles & Dating

My brother and I have a really good relationship with our mom but, she lives with her boyfriend of 9 years. We also have good relationship with our dad. Our mom's boyfriend and our dad hate each other so much that, they freak out when they hear each others names. What should I do? I really want to keep peace in the family!!!

2007-01-17 03:33:17 · 12 answers · asked by Lil Robin 1 in Friends