can a long distance relationship work? Me and this guy use to mess around(not literally) but then i moved away. will we still stay together?how willthis move affect us? Is he seeing another girl while i'm gone? HELP!!!!!
2007-01-17 03:33:42 · 20 answers · asked by atlzprincess4lyfe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you trust him... it could work... BUT... u alrealdy think that he is seeing another girl.. so...... forget it...! I mean it! you are absolutely insecure!!
2007-01-17 03:41:28 · answer #1 · answered by Bellatrix_bk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long-distance relationships can be a bit of an inconvenience, but they certainly can work. I've done it myself, and I've seen it work with a few other couples I know too. So I've seen the proof with my own eyes. If you've got the budget for traveling, it can be done. I knew one couple who met up every other week, alternating between her place and his place. This way they basically each only had to buy their own one round-trip plane ticket once in a month.
I see that you're worried about cheating, and that some others are trying to hint at that too. But if you can't even have that level of trust with somebody, then how can you hope to have a relationship with the person in the first place, regardless of distance? If a guy is willing to travel long distances just to see you, geez, what more do you want? Some people won't even date outside of 10 mile radius!
2007-01-17 03:49:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think of anybody desires to have an prolonged distance courting. existence happens and gets interior the way, you in basic terms would desire to artwork around it. If somebody desires to be with their long distance BF or GF adequate/or they love them adequate, they'll circulate to the place the different guy or woman is and end the long distance element. those people who've relationships over the cyber web or out of state "in basic terms using fact" are possibly dropping their time. long distance relationships wont final if there isnt dedication.
2017-01-01 06:04:48 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many people are debating about long distance relationships working or not working. In my opinion they can work if the two parties want them to work, like keep line of communication open and keep an open mind. Your partner and you should try to work out all your problems and come up with solutions if possible and work on them a little at the time, if not then it the relationship is bound to fail. If he agrees to stay in the relationship then you and him can work on it if not then maybe you should move on. You won't know he is seeing anyone and if he is faithful to you he won't do that anyway. Just talk to him and let him know you want to continue it and that you want to work things out.
2007-01-17 03:45:02 · answer #4 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course they work. My fiancèe and I are over 300 miles apart. We've been makin this work since August. It's not that hard if you guys love eachother. Basically, you need to communicate a lot and whenever possible see eachother. IDK if it'd work if y'all aren't in love and are just messin around or w/e. Make him be committed to you, if that's what you want. Tell him you're serious and that you want to be the only girl for him. From then on, you just gotta trust. If you can get through a long distance relationship, as a couple, you guys can do anything together. Fu(k, maybe even get married =]
2007-01-17 03:38:50 · answer #5 · answered by baby_wrestler 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wake up sweetie and end it now. Long distance relationships r very hard because u can not give a man what they need from far. Y put urself through the torture of always wondering what he is doing and who is he doing it with. Love is great but not from a distance. End it now unless u r willing 2 have sleepless nights. GOOD LUCK
2007-01-17 03:40:56 · answer #6 · answered by Baby Gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships rarely work out. He may say hes into only you, but on the side hes catching action from someone else.
2007-01-17 03:42:32 · answer #7 · answered by Becca24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well long distance relationships never really work out. But if you trust each other and love each other with deep affection you will survive! If you want to know if he's cheating on you just ask him. I know it sounds crazy but tell him about your worries of your relationship and ask him if he will keep his trust.
2007-01-17 03:38:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships are comforting because you can say technically you have someone.The longer you're in one ,you forget the reality and build it up to be some incredible love.You both owe it to yourselves to move on ,if it's meant to be you'll find your way back to each other later on.
2007-01-17 03:45:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I beat the odds, our 1st 2 years were long distance: 8 years, and 2 sons later, we're still going strong. So, go for it. Keep the personal handwritten letters coming and the phonecalls and it'll be fine.
2007-01-17 03:37:14 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't think long distance relationships work! for one ur not going to know what hes doing and who he is hanging out with! so don't even take a change on having a long distance relationship!
2007-01-17 03:39:16 · answer #11 · answered by love isn't everything! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋