My brother and I have a really good relationship with our mom but, she lives with her boyfriend of 9 years. We also have good relationship with our dad. Our mom's boyfriend and our dad hate each other so much that, they freak out when they hear each others names. What should I do? I really want to keep peace in the family!!!
2007-01-17 03:33:17 · 12 answers · asked by Lil Robin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Its not up to you to keep the peace, its up to the supposed grown-ups. Don't get in the middle and walk away when it starts.
2007-01-17 03:36:21 · answer #1 · answered by LoneStarLou 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2017-01-01 06:04:37 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's really nothing you can do. It's between them. I'm going through the same thing right now with my ex husband. He hates to hear my boyfriends name and tells my kids all the time. So we just try to ignore it.
2007-01-17 03:38:03 · answer #3 · answered by Chicago Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if they havent got over it in 9 years then you should just avoid bringing one up around the other unless you are confident that you can sit down with each and tell them how much it hurts you to listen to each one bad mouth the other and that they should remain silent and grow the f up!! also tell your mom to quit promoting their behavior because you and your brother dont like it.
2007-01-17 03:39:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, this isn't your problem. It is sad when the kids are more mature than their parents, but there is little you can do. Tell your father you are living next door and plan on seeing both him and your mother on a regular basis. Just tell them all to grow up!
2007-01-17 03:36:57 · answer #5 · answered by QuestionWyrm 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Then don't say his name around your dad..don't you think you should of thought promblem befor you moved next door knowing the dislike each other?
2007-01-17 03:38:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them to accept each other as you have said there is pretty nothing much they can do to change the situation for now.they can settle what ever grudges that is getting them freak out if not let them just behave like adult.
2007-01-17 03:39:56 · answer #7 · answered by bright 247 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont get in the middle...and if you do tell them to grow up and look at what is going on with your family.....they should just live with it for the sake of you and your brother,....
2007-01-17 03:36:27 · answer #8 · answered by jeff m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell them to grow up and stop acting like their 12 yrs. old
2007-01-17 03:35:59 · answer #9 · answered by daytona_girl18 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay totally out of their issues. Their issues are theirs alone, and not yours. Don't make them yours. And don't let them drag you into them, either.
2007-01-17 03:37:20 · answer #10 · answered by kj 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋