Okay I been talking to this guy for like 4 months .. We go out to movies and dinner and stuff and um everythings been good .. Hes a really nice guy .. Hes in the army very respectfull... great guy ... So yesterday he surprises me at work and asked me to be his girlfriend .... I said yes ,, but know im relazing that i dont want him.. Not becuase of him but if u read my previos questions I have been in alot this past year and im scared to get hurt agian id rather stay alone .. i think that i went threw so much that i dont want anyone else i rather stay alone .. I dont want to hurt him hes a really good guy . SHould i stay with him and let my self love agian or should i leave him KNOWING it hasnt even been 24 hours !
2007-01-17 03:34:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For starters...he didn't ask you to marry him...so your committment to him is only as much as you want it to be. If you want to go slowly with the relationship, tell him. Let him know your feelings so that he will understand. If he's a nice guy, he'll empathize. If he's not...you won't see him again.
2007-01-17 03:39:15 · answer #1 · answered by jeepguy_2x 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what you should do. Yes you have been hurt in the past, but if you never move on, you aren't allowing others to love you, and you're not loving yourself. It's okay. If he is as good of a guy as you say, then what's wrong with letting him love you? He could be the one. Give him a chance. Don't shut yourself off of love. Just don't jump into it too fast, let the relationship take its time to grow. It'll be just fine. And if you leave him, he may be heartbroken and then he won't be such a good guy for the next girl. You two will be in the same situation, so give it a try. There are SOME good guys in this world. I wish you the best of luck though.
2007-01-17 03:46:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
See me I have been through alot this past year too. My life been going down hill and everything. I decided the first of the year that I was just going to talk to guys instead of dating them unless I found the right one. See in your case I would just tell him the truth and say I think you are a nice guy but I dont hink we should date like that yet I dont wanna break your heart(tell him wat u been through past year)We should just talk and go out to the movies and dinner and when Im ready you will know.
2007-01-17 04:07:16 · answer #3 · answered by Nakeya C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart no matter what. Getting hurt is part of love sometimes.. you will never get anywhere unless you take a chance and try things.
2007-01-17 03:40:58 · answer #4 · answered by neodem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Live! Love! Learn!
Take a risk, he could be the one... you want to throw that away?
2007-01-17 03:39:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋