2007-01-17 03:02:06 · 18 answers · asked by Mark C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
because when you are answering questions you are rationalizing the situation seperate from your emotional attachments. When you think about your own relationship, it is harder to be reasonable because your personal feelings get in the way.
2007-01-17 03:07:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes in certain ways we feel like we have a little something in common with that person so what advice we do give them is hard for use to use in other ways and that it is hard to understand. As long as you are helpful in your answer then don't worry too much about what you can and can't handle, just do the best you can and know that you have done your best.
2007-01-17 11:12:55 · answer #2 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When it comes down to you doin the breaking up it is a totally situation. You can give advice for someone else because you are not acctually doin the breaking up. Some times if you can't do the breaking up it's not really what you want you just need to take a deep breath and figure out if you really want to break up or if you just want things to change in the relationship.
2007-01-17 11:06:49 · answer #3 · answered by Maria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason for that is when answering other peoples questions you have an emotional detachment and are able to look at the problem neutrally. When it is your own emotions involved the pain, grief and anger run interference with trying to deal with the issues. You have personally invested so naturally you will feel the negative emotions.
2007-01-17 11:06:06 · answer #4 · answered by Deirdre O 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it is easier to give advise then to take it and handle the situation yourself then to tell someone else how to handel it.
2007-01-17 11:07:58 · answer #5 · answered by Rachael 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple, you can see a clearer picture of other people matters when you are not involved. But when you are involved in a problem, you need someone to comfort you and solve the problem. That's y you are posting your questions on Yahoo cos you need consolation.
2007-01-17 11:05:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it's easier said than done.
But don't stop helping people out on their break-ups just because it seems like you can't handle your own. Words from kind strangers DO help.
Don't worry. God has a plan for you. Everything will be alright.
If He brings you to it,
He'll bring you through it.
2007-01-17 11:04:21 · answer #7 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's easy to tell someone to get over it and move on than for you to actually do it. Don't think about this person at all. If you do catch yourself thinking about them, stop and go find something to do. Try to keep yourself busy and keep your mind off of them. Eventually it will get better.
2007-01-17 11:14:40 · answer #8 · answered by Xena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL Mark, we learn from experience, we give advice to help others from our experiences. Why can't you handle your breakup? Post it.
2007-01-17 11:05:10 · answer #9 · answered by Mother of One 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditto Kelly...Its a lot easier said than done.
2007-01-17 11:04:59 · answer #10 · answered by WhosThatGirl? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋