2007-01-17 03:00:22 · 8 answers · asked by spin spin sunshine 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try different places. Try taking the lead if your partner usually does. Do something unexpected or silly once in a while.
2007-01-17 03:03:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess you are a woman. I wish you mentioned that in your q.
Anyway, it is just doing the same thing over and over again. You know what will happen the next moment. There is no surprise element. It becomes boring. Your heart is not in it. So, it becomes a chore than an enjoyable experience. You know your partner's every move and every advance. You even know what time of the day or the week it will happen. It has become that routine.
I bet if this continues you will stop having sex with your partner altogether. That day is round the corner and it is coming sooner than you think.
Start putting some fire in your sex. Otherwise your partner will soon look elsewhere.
2007-01-17 11:11:05 · answer #2 · answered by Nightrider 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do it while being naked. Or, if you don't want to go that far, kiss each other but don't turn it into a make out session. Give the situation some room to breath, then when you go back into it it'll be exciting.
2007-01-17 11:06:21 · answer #3 · answered by Julian 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Teasing is a great way to put some excitement back into it. Maybe just softly brushing your lips against his, to where he barely feels it...or just breathing on each other. Then when you suddenly shove your tongue down his throat it will be a surprise and he'll jump all over it.
2007-01-17 11:16:23 · answer #4 · answered by someguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are monotonous, you are doing wrong. There should never be a dull moment, I am available to teach or coach.
2007-01-17 11:09:33 · answer #5 · answered by P.A.M. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn it into a f*ck session. Problem solved.
2007-01-17 11:12:48 · answer #6 · answered by Doug Church 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bite on his lip. Then, kiss his neck working your way up to his ear lobe. Once you get there, do a little more nibbling.
2007-01-17 11:05:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
with a little hands-on attention, or maybe some oral therapy.
2007-01-17 11:20:59 · answer #8 · answered by MICHAEL G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋