Family & Relationships - 12 January 2007

see anyboby can say they love u just because u said it firstsometimess they mite not mean it

2007-01-12 01:07:26 · 12 answers · asked by dear tha unknown pt2 2 in Singles & Dating

My parents have agreed to pay the $5000 rental fee for the place for our wedding & reception (a restored lake house) & the $140 per person catering/bar fee for 125 guests.
My Fiance comes from a split family, so we have agreed that each family (my parents, his father/step-mother, his mother/step-father & he/i) can invite 32 people. If anyone wants to go over that number that family must pay the $140 per person fee in order for those guests to attend. For example, my Fiance's mother wants to invite 40 people, she/her husband will have to pay for the 8 extra people to come. Do you think this is fair? We know we could have the wedding somewhere cheaper & have more people, but thats not what is important to us. To us, the importance lies in having the wedding somewhere personal to us with those closest to us. Also, his parents have not yet volunteered to contibute anything to the wedding.

2007-01-12 01:07:19 · 8 answers · asked by Kirsten S 2 in Weddings

A 18 year old girl

2007-01-12 01:06:47 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-12 01:06:34 · 15 answers · asked by lifereject 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm a 13 year old.i'm u, can say obese but i like this,17year old cute guy. he's leaving school thisyear. he knows that i like him,he was with me for a month then stopped talking to me. i don't know why. what shoud i do?

2007-01-12 01:05:49 · 34 answers · asked by cutipie 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-12 01:05:08 · 42 answers · asked by kiddy c 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband told me he's not good enough for me . there was just 1 minor thing he did , for him it was really bad , n its haunting him till now n for the past 3 months ( not an affair ) . it almost happened again yesterday but he managed to stop it . the last it happened . . it hurt both of us but wasnt as much as it hurt him cause he wouldnt do such thing to hurt me but things just happen . i was there for him n hoping i could comfort him but it did no good . he was afraid i would leave him if it had happened again . i said to him that i would be there to help him n not abandon him . i told him i m sorry for myself i could not make the man i love to feel he was good enough for me . tell me what can i do to make him feel we are good enough for each other . it just hurts me to know that he feels hes not good enough .

2007-01-12 01:04:59 · 10 answers · asked by ver 2 in Family

Ive known her for a while, she is amazing and im sort of sure it will lead to love making if it carries on going this way. However im a virgin and I realise that i`ll be crap. I want to tell her its just very difficult and I dont know how to go about it. I dont want her to think less of me either, I mean im stupid and I know she wont but I just get these 'what ifs' in my head. Im 19 if this makes any difference. Advice would help even if it just gets me thinking. thanks

2007-01-12 01:03:51 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm having a murder mystery party and it's set in a ski lodge!

- serve hot choc
- put "snow" around roof and entry of house
- have skis laying around
-make a sign for the lodge with fake logo
-fire in fireplace

I cant think of anything else to do!?

got any ideas?

2007-01-12 01:03:18 · 5 answers · asked by Chels Victoria 1 in Family

2007-01-12 01:02:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is a current situation going on right now; this person seems to be very spiteful & jealous of my current success.

Instead of being happy for me, I feel hate (energy) but they didn't come out directly w/the issue. But, they holler, and get angry at the smallest thing to do w/nothing.....(can u believe this?)

I'm just curious how do u recognize & what r some of the trait u consider to be JEALOUS OR ENVIOUS? and how do u handle yourself in cases like this?

Or, what should I say or do to this person to try and address this issue? when I try, they spit evil words to try and make me madder so that its a big fight; that has nothing to do with nothing.

I'm starting to suspect this person is straight ignorant, jealous & ridicilous and any other words u can think of.

So, tell me what u think?

2007-01-12 01:02:06 · 13 answers · asked by Spotlight 1 in Friends

2007-01-12 01:02:05 · 10 answers · asked by sweetgal 3 in Friends

He was keeping it from me. When I found out I confronted him and asked him to stop. He told me it was because some trouble at their place of employment (which I know there are problems) I still had a problem with the calls since he was not up front telling me he was talking with her. He wounld tell me her name - so I did my own investigation and found her name/husbands name and sent him a letter telling him to keep his wife under control. Was that terrible of me to do?

2007-01-12 01:01:45 · 21 answers · asked by Confussedhere 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend got upset when he got to my place and found I wasn't home yet. I sent him a text to let him know I had dropped by a pub to buy a snack and ran into my boss who insisted I stay and get introduced to clients he was with (I got promoted this week).I sent him one to tell him the situation and he replied telling me he will see me tomorrow. When I got back home and I loved him and I was sorry to upset him. He sent three more upsetting texts and we havn't spoken since. He doesn't even know that I stayed behind because of the clients. Do I continue with the silence, try to explain, or act like nothing happened?

2007-01-12 01:01:40 · 7 answers · asked by Carlos 1 in Singles & Dating

Today it's the norm for couples to move in and live together years before marriage. I myself lived with my husband 6-1/2 years before we were married. I'm curious to know what others think of this practice. Please state your opinion on this issue below.

2007-01-12 01:01:16 · 15 answers · asked by luvbean_xo 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

At school, I only have about 15 or less friends and my lifetime friend is now hanging out with another girl. At home, my parents want to divorce and they are forcing me to do homework for 4 hours straight! I feel like I wanna die but I often think that life is too precious.

2007-01-12 00:59:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

We went out for 3 months and 4 days.
Yesterday I got a note saying "I fell out of love with you. I dont know why but I dont love you anymore. Im just trying to say its over. Im sorry." And I got it in 5th period when we were switching classes. And.. I read it and tried not to cry. I am in his 6th period class. I did not even glance at him. My bff krissi told me he kept looking at me when he sharpened his pencil. Then the bus came. Not many people were on it, so I just cried. And now it's one day later. I cant quit crying. Im glad that today is parent tchr confrnce day so i wont be seen crying at school. I cant quit crying. someone please help me. I cant move on. Usually im upand adam the second its over. But i still love him. :(

2007-01-12 00:58:29 · 27 answers · asked by Itsallaboutmehunni 2 in Singles & Dating

Just wondering how others are adjusting emotionally to being involved with a career woman. Yes I am very proud of her and all strong women, they inspire me; but? emotionally something has been lost in her. It is very difficult to have an emotional relationship with her and I am a very romantic passionate guy. Just wondering how it is working out with you guys, and requesting any tips from you professional women. I just feel empty and without most of the time, and can't seem to connect with her on that emotional level that I am on. But, talking about work is great. Is there a way to get her less professionally involved with me and more emotionally involved; a balance. Thanks

2007-01-12 00:58:21 · 4 answers · asked by NoAnswers 2 in Marriage & Divorce

(Suppose he is not sissy at all, he is the masculine type)

2007-01-12 00:57:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when a girl has a boyfriend you flirt with her but when she breaks up with him for you; you do not like her anymore???

2007-01-12 00:57:09 · 7 answers · asked by soccer_chick3 2 in Singles & Dating

I desperately want to be a better homemaker, but without having a mother/father that taught me the basics it's been a struggle. (To clarify, I have parents they just weren't home-orientated.) I taught myself how to cook, but I find myself lacking in other areas. My husband and I are trying to have children and I want them to have a comfortable home to grow-up in and be proud of. My question is what resources can you suggest to help me along? Do you have any advice for this wanna-be susie-homemaker? Thanks in advance for all your help!

2007-01-12 00:56:30 · 12 answers · asked by luvbean_xo 2 in Marriage & Divorce

How do you feel when you are out with someone with a friend or on a date and they continuously talk on the cell phone (constantly answering and taking calls)?
Does it make you feel ignored?

2007-01-12 00:55:41 · 34 answers · asked by K-E-G 4 in Singles & Dating

i am 14 and if u want to know bout me then read my profile.....and this weekend i might hang out with a friend and have FUN....but i have to stay after school today we get out early(act 80 day) but my brother has a b-ball game so i am going to stay and flirt...ALOT

2007-01-12 00:55:26 · 8 answers · asked by Tammi 1 in Singles & Dating

I've met a guy, sometimes we get on really well, other times it's a bit boring. We're okay in bed together, but I can't help feeling we miss each other's point a bit intellectually. There's no one else on the scene and I would miss the sex, but he doesn't exactly set my world alight. Give it more time or sack him?

2007-01-12 00:55:02 · 13 answers · asked by Jugular 4 in Singles & Dating

plz explain with crucial Details

2007-01-12 00:54:22 · 16 answers · asked by corbetthaley 2 in Marriage & Divorce

How do i find someone nice? i have 3 kids to think about. do i just keep in me and my kids? or try to find someone to fill the spot? or maybe just a booty call? how do i find one i trust?

2007-01-12 00:53:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When your friends betray you, sometimes the only people you can trust are strangers?

2007-01-12 00:53:41 · 4 answers · asked by sshhmmee2000 6 in Friends

My husband has a twin, Why do I dream of him and not my husband
and I know its not my husband because the twin has black hair and husband has brown.(Wild crazy dreams)And I would never do my husband wrong.

2007-01-12 00:53:04 · 22 answers · asked by bette69 5 in Marriage & Divorce

sorry compleatly didnt fill in the box before lol, i was in a realtionship for 3 years and iwasnt happy at all! and imet this really nice man he was one of my big brothers friends i ended up kissin him behind my boyfriends back, i know! i hated cheating :( any ways it felt right and i ended up with this man, he was totally perfect for me my friends and family luved him we could go to our local together it was great. we moved in together. things were stil great until recently i took really bad (just gettin out of hospital gladula feverand water infection) and things seemed to go **** up with us, we dont seem as close any more,any ways we decided to call it day last night. atmosphere was awful in the house propa silence, but he kept tryin t cuddle and kiss me all nite, then he wanted to go t bed and he wanted me with him we cuddled all night, got up thismorning fo work nd he was cryin :( i dont know what i want tho. we rgue quite abit and i dont know weather to give it anutha go?

2007-01-12 00:52:17 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok, wensday night my twin brother crashed is car and wrapped it around a phone pole. i saw the whole accident, i was driving my car behind his. he is ok, only a few broken bones & stiches, but i just can't get the image of seeing his tail lights fly off the car then just get crushed into a phone pole, all i see is his body slumped ove. i thought he died. he looked like it. the fire rescue had to pull him out with the jaws of life. so, what im asking is it normal to be sad when is ok??

2007-01-12 00:52:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships