My boyfriend got upset when he got to my place and found I wasn't home yet. I sent him a text to let him know I had dropped by a pub to buy a snack and ran into my boss who insisted I stay and get introduced to clients he was with (I got promoted this week).I sent him one to tell him the situation and he replied telling me he will see me tomorrow. When I got back home and I loved him and I was sorry to upset him. He sent three more upsetting texts and we havn't spoken since. He doesn't even know that I stayed behind because of the clients. Do I continue with the silence, try to explain, or act like nothing happened?
2007-01-12 01:01:40 · 7 answers · asked by Carlos 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He sounds jelouse. Its your boss. I dont think you did anything wrong. Tell him to grow up and wait for him to come around.
2007-01-12 01:05:44 · answer #1 · answered by Java Queen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's clearly selfish and not looking out for your best interests. You have to make clear to him that work is a part of who you are and you're not willing to comprimise it for him.
You can't pretend nothing happen. This means he'll learn that he can get you to do what he wants by getting "upset". You have to stand your ground and tell him that him getting upset over trivialities is pointless and doesn't work with/for you.
If he's trying to change you or you try to change yourself in this relationship, it will never work. Be assertive, because its the only way I can see in this situation that you'll make the right moves.
2007-01-12 09:10:04 · answer #2 · answered by JDA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should have sent him a message before you were late...you have no clue what he had in store and common courtesy dictates that you inform people that you are going to be late, regardless of the reason. Remember, work will always be there; your love life may not!
2007-01-12 09:06:50 · answer #3 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. your Boyfriend is certainly very immature! And, very jealous!
I think it is over, because no woman in her right mind sacrifices her own career for a man who is too stupid to comprehend that, as equals, he could do the same thing, and if he doesn't trust you, he just disclosed that he is untrustworthy.
2007-01-12 09:08:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him off! You have every right to go out with other people not to mention from colleagues from work. If he is too possessive and jealous to accept this, then this is his problem!
2007-01-12 09:05:56 · answer #5 · answered by sensimilia2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello,
Let him know that, this is important in business circles to builda relationship, if he can't grow up and accept, then you have to choose which one comes first, career or man, I know what I would choose first.
2007-01-12 09:06:54 · answer #6 · answered by Intellithug 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's an infantile jealous ***. Trade him in for a real man.
2007-01-12 09:15:37 · answer #7 · answered by cartiphilus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋