ok, wensday night my twin brother crashed is car and wrapped it around a phone pole. i saw the whole accident, i was driving my car behind his. he is ok, only a few broken bones & stiches, but i just can't get the image of seeing his tail lights fly off the car then just get crushed into a phone pole, all i see is his body slumped ove. i thought he died. he looked like it. the fire rescue had to pull him out with the jaws of life. so, what im asking is it normal to be sad when is ok??
2007-01-12 00:52:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think it is, You realize you might have lost him and having witnessed the accident is all very scary and upsetting anyway. Plus, twins are so connected. You'll get over it like everything in life. Of course, if you were hoping for the life insurance, you might be sad cause your not getting any money :-/
If your feeling get worse or don't go away, see a therapist.
2007-01-12 01:02:45 · answer #1 · answered by Corinne 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you saw something that scary ofcourse it will effect you. This is normal. Sometimes when people witness stuff like that, they need help for awhile. You may want to see a shrink to help you with this. Give it time, maybe it will pass. If not, seek help. I am sorry about what happened and wish you and your brother the best.
2007-01-12 09:27:50 · answer #2 · answered by AnnaG 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give it some time. Think a lot of the accident and that don't leave you in peace. Yes its very normal what you feel.
2007-01-12 09:08:33 · answer #3 · answered by maran 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Witnessing a near death experience can be as disturbing as having one yourself..........probably more so when it's your twin because some believe twins have a psychic connection.
2007-01-12 09:03:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My guess is that it's a normal reaction to what you witnessed realizing what could have been the outcome. I'm glad your brother is okay.
2007-01-12 09:01:15 · answer #5 · answered by color me blue 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course its normal, your still in shock from it most likely and it hurt you to see him like that, most people in your situation would be sad
2007-01-12 09:02:23 · answer #6 · answered by diddlibop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋