i'm a 13 year old.i'm u, can say obese but i like this,17year old cute guy. he's leaving school thisyear. he knows that i like him,he was with me for a month then stopped talking to me. i don't know why. what shoud i do?
2007-01-12 01:05:49 · 34 answers · asked by cutipie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u r too.. young to make relationships with a guy. i hope u r in eighth.i know that u have got a lot to study, especially social studies.so u better concentrate on your studies.don't loose your concentration on studies because it can harm u a lot in future.this will also worry your parents. take my advice seriously and forget about the boy.
2007-01-12 01:49:59 · answer #1 · answered by Praveena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Emergency is right! 13-17?! 13-17?! you're 13-------he's 17 hmmmmm See where I'm going with this?! you're asking for trouble chasing a 17 year old. At best, you'll get a broken heart. If he lacks moral character, like many teens do, you may end being sexually assaulted, contract a disease, deal with an unplanned pregnancy & years of relationship problems in the future.
You mentioned obese---at 13??!!! short of bonafide medical problems, how do you find time to get fat when you are 13? I'm not being mean, just real. You need to lose some weight, so you are healthier & you'll feel better about yourself. High self-esteem will make issues like the one you described here easier to deal with. Good Luck
2007-01-12 01:17:44 · answer #2 · answered by Tim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you mentioned your were obese which is of some concern especially at such a young age. For health reasons you must take care of this problem first and foremost before anything else or you are looking at poor health and possible early death in the not too far future. Get busy with more physical activities. Even though you might be a lovely person you have to take care of yourself. The reality is, you are way too young to even consider having a boyfriend. But if it is his friendship you are seeking then just ask him if he is willing to keep intouch.. See what he says. Even though he is going to another school you two can maybe still see one another at social events with other friends and email and maybe even talk on the phone. Encourage the friendship and hopefully he will want to also.
My best to you!
2007-01-12 03:25:58 · answer #3 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, Cutipie, you are very young, and the guy is a bit too old for you at this time. Maybe he realized that he will soon become 18 and being with you could be considered child molestation by the people.
Personally, I do not believe it has anything to do with your slight obesity problem. But if you wish to reduce a few pounds. Talk to your parents about getting you into a gym. But never stop being the sweet girl you are. Ok. Best wishes.
2007-01-12 01:11:46 · answer #4 · answered by David G 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever heard the story about the little boy that cried wolf?
Have enough fake emergencies - one day you will have a real one and no one will notice, because they will just assume it's more of your drama.
You are 13 - This guy turns 18 and is with you and he can be charged with statuatory rape. Go play with your barbie dolls and stop trying to be an adult too soon. Then when you're an adult, you'll be wishing that you enjoyed your teenage years rather than be living nothing but drama.
2007-01-12 01:11:38 · answer #5 · answered by lifesajoy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
study well and look for better goals in life-- this is a period of distraction and only strenghth of character will help you get your priorities right. life is long and there is a time for everything-- sorry about the advice but i cant help writing this to an intelligent but directionless adult[adoloscent]. take it in good spirit . this is all a passing phase - and dont make a mountain of a mole-hill and give things more importance than what they really deserve.you will realise this later after a few years- time lost is lost forever. concentrate on productive issues- like studies or any other interest of yours like music art etc etc,,.first you will have to finish school successfully.
2007-01-12 01:22:23 · answer #6 · answered by artqueen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
13 years?? In my opinion you´re much too young to hang around and date with 17 years old guys!!
You should be with friends of your age and not thinking about relationships and dating.
But if you are obsessed by the idea of having a boy friend, at least it should be a boy of your age around 13 or 14....
2007-01-12 01:14:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anita P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just nothing. Its better if you let things as they are. Time will show.
Anyway your just 13 are you ready for a relationship with a 17th year old boy. Please do yourself a favour, enjoy your teens don't think only boys. There are other things to deal with at that age. Call me romantic but i did not regret it.
2007-01-12 01:19:10 · answer #8 · answered by maran 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a 13 year old and let yourself grow up. If you worry half as much about school you will be on honor roll!
2007-01-12 01:10:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would seriously recommend finding healthy food and taste testing it. find out what you like and just go on a diet. stay on the diet till you die. YOU DONT NEED FAST FOOD TO LIVE. make it a healthy diet you will enjoy. you cant expect to be with guys physically fit if you dont put forth the effort they did to get in the good shape they are in. expect what you put out. if ur obese, expect an obese BF. lets try to be a little fair here
2007-01-12 01:09:46 · answer #10 · answered by foodle 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋