how do i tell her im a virgin?

Question

Ive known her for a while, she is amazing and im sort of sure it will lead to love making if it carries on going this way. However im a virgin and I realise that i`ll be crap. I want to tell her its just very difficult and I dont know how to go about it. I dont want her to think less of me either, I mean im stupid and I know she wont but I just get these 'what ifs' in my head. Im 19 if this makes any difference. Advice would help even if it just gets me thinking. thanks

Answer 1

Just be honest and tell her that you are a virgin. It is very important that you are honest in your relationship. You might think it is lame that you are still a virgin at age 19 but if you think about it, you might want to say to yourself, "wouldn't it be nice to lose my virginity to someone that I really love and care about than to lose it to someone that cheats and lies to me all the time." It is really special to lose virginity to someone that you really really love. Don't you think so?

Answer 2

(Don't listen to ignorant remarks made by others who are very immature and should be ashamed of themselves for mocking you)

Just be honest and share your feelings. You don't have to tell her your are a virgin if you don't want to. You could just say that your aren't very experienced and leave it at that. It is your choice. If she is a caring and kind person, why should it matter. It is great that you waited until you were a mature age. Please just keep in mind that she may be more experienced and that you shouldn't feel insecure or nervous because of this. Everyone has to start somewhere.
Please don't forget to edcuate yourself about proper protection.

Answer 3

I agree with ms_marcia...
"If she likes you she will be flattered that you have waited and saved yourself for her.

Remember not to feel pressurised into anything and practice safe sex! Hope it all works out for you"

Just sit down with her a tell in private place. I bet she'll understand you have saved your virginity for her. When you tell her that she will love you ever better than before.

Answer 4

Use either of the following phrases:

1. Sweetie, Ive never milked the cow before.
2. I`ve never had it deep fried before.
3. Don't you think I'll get lost in there.
4. Sinbad and Seaman never met.
5. I've never tasted the sweet waters of the vines before.

GOODLUCK

Answer 5

Theres no reason obligating you to tell her. When the time comes just lay the pipe but make sure you clean out the pipes a couple times before you lay the wood. She will never know you were a virgin.

Answer 6

Just sit down with her in a private setting and talk to her about it. Maybe she's a virgin also and she might feel better if you just talk to her about all of this instead of worrying about it. Hope this helps.

Answer 7

first rule of relationships most ignore -- be straight up --tell her
she will probably be thrilled to be your first
second be glad you are young and are about to enjoy
one of lifes most intimate treasures too many make this
trashy for both parties when each time it should be a
moment of a lifetime dont forcast your fear it is probably
only in your mind ------------have a great time

Answer 8

Just let her know when the time comes. She will understand. It wouldn make her think any less of you. Everyone had to start at some time.

Answer 9

So ? I'm 24 and still a virgin. There's no problem, really. Just tell her.

Answer 10

If she likes you she will be flattered that you have waited and saved yourself for her.

Remember not to feel pressurised into anything and practice safe sex! Hope it all works out for you