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2007-01-12 00:54:22 · 16 answers · asked by corbetthaley 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
they like it
2007-01-12 00:57:53 · answer #1 · answered by conan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say, in general, of course, than men are more visually stimulated than women. In regard to porn, there are men who just like to see it. But some women see it as a sign that their man is not into them, or he's not happy, etc. That's not always the case though. Some women put too much emotion into the situation when it comes to porn. Sometimes men (and women) just want to see something sexual, so don't worry.
2007-01-15 04:31:10 · answer #2 · answered by thoughtcrime_queen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he watches porn alone, and a lot of it, he could have an intimacy problem. He becomes unable to find a desire to have sexual relations with a partner. His libido is weak with a partner, and his vision of sex becomes warped. What he begins to accept as sexual intimacy, is in fact, unrealistic, selfish pleasure.
I was surprised when I read some of the studies about intimacy and porn, that men develop a problem while woman who watch porn alone, and often, are still able to maintain sexual intimacy with a partner.
The willing partner (say, the wife) isn't the cause of her husband's inability to view sex as an intimate act. A man with a porn addiction is only interested in his own, private, sexual gratification.
There is help. Ask your physician for referals.
2007-01-12 09:59:23 · answer #3 · answered by metaphysical_kitten 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of times we want to do things sexually that the women in our lives either wont do, or we dont want THEM to do. For example, if I wanted to participate in an orgy, I wouldnt necessarily want the mother of my children doing that as well. I may want to but may not want her to. The other scenario is if I wanted to participate in an orgy but I already know that my wife isnt going to based on previous discussions, why even bring it up? I can watch it on porn, masturbate and be done with it until the next time.
2007-01-12 12:55:17 · answer #4 · answered by boomerang3que 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get the mistaken impression that only men look at porn. Let's call it erotica, shall we, because it's existed for thousands of years in many forms; written, verbal, photographic, video, artistic, etc.
Women enjoy it, too, believe it or not.
It's just additional visual stimulation and unless he ignores your sexual needs or just starts acting weird, it's not hurting a thing.
No matter how much intercourse/oral men enjoy with their partner, they still enjoy harmless visual stimulation and masturbation. It's not bizarre or anything.
As long as he's not looking at illegal, underage stuff, he's really not hurting anything, including your relationship, unless you just decide that it's some kind of deal breaker.
Relax.
Enjoy some with him, if you can.
2007-01-12 10:10:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately our society has made it seem like something that is so common and "normal" and that we as women should just accept and expect it from our man It is so common and so easily available, that its just too temping for a majority of men. It's like cheating without the risk of another "live" person. (It's still cheating in the mind) Plus, they feel sneaky and like they have a secret. If it is really an ok thing to do, I find it interesting that most men try to hide it. Typically when someone hides something it is because they know it is wrong.
2007-01-12 09:09:21 · answer #6 · answered by Amy 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It's fantasy and because they are lazy and want release, but don't want to have to satisfy thier wife in order to get it. It's an addiction that gets worse over time and can even make them impotent because they require so much stimulation that no REAL woman could possibly provide that much, so they can't get it up. I've actually seen this happen to two different men.
2007-01-12 09:45:44 · answer #7 · answered by Dovie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen, I love my girlfriend and she is my fantasy. Watching porm just keeps my hormones arroused and makes me think of attacking her when she gets home and dragging her butt up to the bed and Yahooing it all night.
It just keeps our little passionate sexual heart active. Believe me ladies, if your man is totally into you than porn is actually a good thing (for you and him). I love banging my gf, even more so after I get hot from some good porn.
2007-01-12 09:34:21 · answer #8 · answered by NoAnswers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They don't see anything wrong with it. I guess because they are visual humans. They don't realize it hurts the one they're with. It's not like we sit for hours looking at porn. The porn stars get with everyone. Guys say they don't want a girl that gets around but that's what they like to look at! They say we are hard to understand, I think they are hard to understand!
2007-01-12 09:03:13 · answer #9 · answered by Green Eyes 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Variety is the spice of life. So better it be printed in little, tiny dots of colored light than going out and searching for something "different" in the flesh.
Know what I'm saying?
2007-01-12 09:01:42 · answer #10 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you watch it with him and find out? Maybe he's bored with you or is looking for fuel to entertain his head when he's with you.
Or maybe he just likes watching people having sex. What's wrong with that?
Tell ya what. Every time he puts on a porn you try and MAKE one with him. :-)
2007-01-12 09:07:18 · answer #11 · answered by Cybrocupid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋