Family & Relationships - 12 January 2007

she feels that the only female friends i should have is her, males as many as i want, but know females now and after 17 years of beening together she still unhappy because I have female friends, now I never cheated on my wife, but she did, and I forgave her. please help, could this be the reason?

2007-01-12 02:39:57 · 39 answers · asked by Jerry S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Why is he contacting me all of a sudden?
I emailed a soldier for almost 8-9 months while he was in Iraq. But he came home last month, and on his myspace page, it showed he flew to PA for a week to spend with a female friend, and she has left all sorts of flirty comments for him, and they took pictures of the two of them, holding hands, while he was there. Now he's contacting me, after ONE MONTH of not having heard from him...should I give him a chance,or tell him to bugger off?

2007-01-12 02:39:48 · 1 answers · asked by julia k 1 in Singles & Dating

So this guys I am hooking up with pretty regualrly said to me the other night when I asked if I could stay over that I should know I don't need to ask him......so what does this mean?

I mean I know what it lituarlly means but does it mean he wants me there whenever I want to be there?? Or am I over thinking this like usual?

2007-01-12 02:39:46 · 11 answers · asked by Sam s 2 in Singles & Dating

im failing all of my classes and my teacher invited me over for extra credit. he forced me to go down on him and made me sleep with him. i needed the "A" or my parents would be furious. he has done this 4 times this week and last wednesday he had his friend come over and they both took turns with me. he promised me "A"s in all of my classes but im not supposed to tell my parents. how can i stop him from doing this to me anymore im afraid im going to get pregnant

2007-01-12 02:38:54 · 47 answers · asked by tookuleforyoo 1 in Singles & Dating

we never see each other and i don't know wat he looks like we meet on myspace

2007-01-12 02:38:01 · 16 answers · asked by heather g 1 in Singles & Dating

im on a mission....

2007-01-12 02:37:31 · 30 answers · asked by halbeast 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend who's an absolute flirt, I have told her about this and she said "Ouch"! It's true though. Her being flirtatious is annoying me. I have avoided her ever since because I cant stand her "damsel-in-distress" act. I hate seeing her and hearing her voice. She annoys me so much. Arggggh!!!

2007-01-12 02:37:04 · 10 answers · asked by tired_and_sick_girl 1 in Singles & Dating

Do u think that true love only happens once?

2007-01-12 02:36:35 · 26 answers · asked by Deleted 2 in Singles & Dating

I feel in love with a divorced woman who cheated on her husband a few times she has kids and was trapped in the marriage and extremly un happy for years . Now we are in love and have been together for over a year and she has not cheated or gave me any reason to doubt her I show her love cna she knows how much I care for her and she said that she has never been so in love in her entire life . We are in our fourties and both have kids we are talking about getting serious but the thing that sets me back is that I am onstantly worried about her cheating on me when we are not together or she is late , or did not call whwhen she was supposed to I start wondering and usually I Imagine the worst but she always explains what has happened for the delay without my asking . I don;t let on about my fears but I think she suspects I dont totally trust her . I love her so much and want to trust her but part of me is scared to take a chance because I would feel like such an idiot if she did cheat .

2007-01-12 02:35:28 · 18 answers · asked by el diablo 1 in Singles & Dating

brlilliant

perfect

blind

music

unconditional

ever lasting

mind boggling

dreamy

an expression of the soul

compassion

commitment

empathy

sympathy

respect

romantic gestures (like sleeping under the starts and picking your star)

putting a constant smile on the face and soul of the one you love

what else can you think of when you think of love?

2007-01-12 02:34:56 · 22 answers · asked by Music fan 4 in Singles & Dating

like the universe is soooo old [according to scientist ug. . . ] but i kno lots and lots pof ppl thinkits different ages, i think its . . . uh. . . i dont know! plz help!

2007-01-12 02:33:22 · 16 answers · asked by mAnDiE 2 in Singles & Dating

Is it?? Like can you dump someone & stay friends or whatever and like five months later get back together??

2007-01-12 02:33:14 · 9 answers · asked by justagirl 2 in Singles & Dating

today iv been telling people how i have fallen for my dads workmate and i think my ex overheard and i hope he has finally got the hint that its time that he should move on because we broke up at about the end of november and since then he has asked me out five times.

2007-01-12 02:33:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We've beeb seeing each other for 5 yrs. When it all started, it was nice. No reality to deal with, then I discovered he was still hung up in the past. His ex wife re married and seemed to do ok. He on the other hand cant let go of it, and its not healthy. She does his taxes. calls while we are on vacation together for no reason, drives his cars. He has 2 adult kids who cannot seem to support themselves and move home like a revolving door one comes and moves out then the other one comes and moves out. He works himself to death to support these adults who should have been independent in their early 20's, but still have not made it.
He told me if we married, I would have to move to his home which is falling down and he still owes thousands on. My home is paid for. He and I are just going no where. I am just not that into working out our issues when I know he does not respect me or he would have stopped his shinnanigans and made a life with me.
Im 42 he is 54. Is it over?

2007-01-12 02:33:11 · 15 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Marriage & Divorce

i own my home and was remarried my new wife never changed her name she is not on any of my business. We are in the process of seperating and i would like to sell my home. Does she have to sign anything and is she due anyhting. We were together for 1 year?

2007-01-12 02:32:26 · 5 answers · asked by William P 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-12 02:31:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it normal? or this is an isolated case?

2007-01-12 02:31:35 · 8 answers · asked by Oosterflank 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-12 02:30:48 · 16 answers · asked by nanseip 1 in Singles & Dating

please see my question why does he want to know me its meant to say why doesnt he want to know i need the advice please

2007-01-12 02:29:27 · 5 answers · asked by iluvsme75 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Should I give him a sexy gaze when he looks at me and maybe a cute wink?

;-)

Im thinking of seducing him as hes shy- what do you guys think?

2007-01-12 02:29:24 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my in-laws are celebarating their 50th wedding anniversary this May. I would like to make a collague for them and in the middle put a family tree. so i went in search of one on-line that i could fill in and print out. I found charts and fans, etc. but no trees. you know the ones that you put their names in the trunk then add the kids to the branches. I found some software ($200) i don't mind paying something but that is to much. then i found a site where a lady makes them on canvas ($300) i even tried scarpbook stores and only seem to find some that a child might use. Does anyone have any suggestions

2007-01-12 02:28:44 · 5 answers · asked by Kim N 2 in Weddings

This is my second marriage and my wife’s first. She’s been engaged twice before but cut it off right before the marriages. She has a kid with another man and I have two from my first marriage (which lasted 10 years). I only see my kids twice a week and she is so jealous that when they’re there I like to spend time with them. She goes off and tells me that all I care about are my kids when I help take care of her kid the rest of the time. She tells me that I’m still in love with my ex and all I want is to be with my ex. (never given her any indication of that). Then last night she said that I just use her to raise my kids and I don’t care about her and her daughter which I’ve spent half my savings on and have to drive her darn daughter to school every morning but it’s not good enough. Then she tells me she’s sick of me using her and that she has no feelings left and that she’s just going to take care of her and her daughter now. I asked her then when are we going to get a divorce? and she said, O we’re not were just going to live in this house because we’re in a committed relationship. What!!!!! I said eventually someone else will want to be with you and me to so why prolong this. I don’t want to see you with another man. She said O I won’t cheat and if that’s what you want to do go do it. What!!!! Then this morning after she basically said she hates me, I use her, I don’t care about her or her daughter she asked me to do her a favor….get this. She said could you have sex with me tonight? What!!??? I said why do you want to have sex with a man you hate? She said basically because we’re married so we both have needs. I told her I don’t want to have sex with someone that doesn’t like me and I have sex with people I love. What the hell is wrong with her? Then she called this morning and said she went jogging. I told her good for her (I’ve been encouraging it). She then said “I know you think I’m a fat cow”. What!!!???? Is there a psychological name for this kind of paranoia and craziness. What is wrong with her? She’s driving me insane. By the way, she says I need counseling not her.

2007-01-12 02:28:35 · 18 answers · asked by survivor 1 in Marriage & Divorce

is she a gold digger or is he a cradle robber?

What about when the roles are reversed and SHE is older than the guy?

2007-01-12 02:27:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-12 02:27:21 · 18 answers · asked by vegas7209 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

If he was with a couple- would he be with the man too? Would he have to have a girl with him to go there? Just curious what exactly does swinger mean?

2007-01-12 02:27:09 · 13 answers · asked by skygirlchristine 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

What physical characteristics most attract you to a man. And what physical flaw kills the deal.
For example, I love a woman with pretty hands and a french pedicure.
But, yellow or crooked teeth are a complete turn off.

2007-01-12 02:26:08 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So, I broke up with my ex boyfriend two weeks ago. It was over something stupid i.e. Myspace. People (his girls for friends and his cousin) were saying very neagtive things about our picture that we had taken together. Such as "Eww" and "Uh, no" So you can imagine I was very angry and then he said "I don't see how this is going to work out" and I finally just ended the reltaionship! Big mistake considering it was my first realtionship, I'm 18, and I still really care about him and possibly love him. And Then I appeared at his house the other day and he acted very angry and I tried to talk things over and I asked "Will we ever date again?" and he said "probably not" but then he called the other night and we were talking like regular friends and I asked if we could hang out and he said it would be too soon. I asked why and he said "Cause old habits would return". Please HELP! I don't know how to read him and I want to know if you guys think there is a chance?

2007-01-12 02:25:47 · 8 answers · asked by pebblespunk2 2 in Singles & Dating

I can't image that anything could be worse than American women

2007-01-12 02:25:11 · 12 answers · asked by AngryAspie 1 in Singles & Dating

My girl friend is hiding everything from me.v r togather frm last 15 months bt sharing a flat from last 7 months.everything was fine in the begining bt from last few months things have started changing.even now v r fighting 4 everything,almost everyday.Now even she is hiding me from her collegues.i've found few txt msgs in her cell fone & i spoke 2 her.once i caught her red handed bt i 4gave.4 few things she couldn't satisfy me.bt she always says that she is honest with me.she says as v r from different relegion & different countries so she cant introduce me openly to everyone bt i take her everywhere 2 everyone.even my collegues know that i've girl friend from poland(i m orginally from pakistan).what is going on i don't know.even i said to her lets get seperate.its not that i don't love her.i love her alot even after this situation.but whats the point 2 stay 2gather whn i've 2 b her hidden love.suggest me what 2 do.should i continue & wait 4 the good time or should i end this story?

2007-01-12 02:25:08 · 34 answers · asked by Umar 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-12 02:24:58 · 12 answers · asked by bahare_astronomer 1 in Singles & Dating