Family & Relationships - 12 January 2007

when a guy tells you that his relationship with his ex was "just physical" ? is that supposed to reassuring?

2007-01-12 18:21:17 · 27 answers · asked by Jenniferrr 2 in Singles & Dating

Be honest, when you first meet someone of the opposite sex, do you judge them on their looks or their personalities. After getting to know them did these thoughts change. for example, she is pretty but really mean. or she looks like a mean person but ended up being nice.

I just want to know your oppinions
I dont need any advice.

2007-01-12 18:21:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-12 18:21:04 · 9 answers · asked by Kervinn 1 in Singles & Dating

I think it's like when something is passed down to you and you have to do something wheter you want to or not. If you know what I am talking about, I really don't have to go into details but can you please? I would really know what it is.

2007-01-12 18:20:37 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-12 18:19:58 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-12 18:19:35 · 10 answers · asked by Huguenot 5 in Family

2007-01-12 18:19:21 · 6 answers · asked by Amanda P 2 in Singles & Dating

provided that he is very quiet type n has undergone a very disturbing emotional upheavel right after we got married we've been married 3 years

2007-01-12 18:19:14 · 10 answers · asked by m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Same as white men prefer asian women.

Hispanic men and black women is normal, I think, but
Is it normal to see Hispanic men, Asian women couples?

2007-01-12 18:16:16 · 6 answers · asked by Julio Cesar C 2 in Singles & Dating

An Italian friend of mine, who I've known for 7 months, came to my country recently. When I met him, I really liked him and since he cheered me up many times before, I got emotionally carried away and told him that I love him. He told me he wants us to stay friends because he is scared to lose me just in case he might feel a bit strange after sex. So we decided to be friends. But next day I felt nervous that he might be feeling awkward by me having told my feeling, I cried in front of him on the train and later on, joked about his rejection of me to make the situation better. We then slept 4 times over two days. It was a mutual decision that we slept, but when I saw him off at the airport, I cried again, and I worry if he would still want to be my friends after all these drama. I even told him I love him again. He mailed me and joked about his banana size(our joke), but can we be back to friends? I want to apologise only for my emotional actions in public that I cried.

2007-01-12 18:14:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Please folks, this is a serious question.
My ex girl friend called me after 3 years and she plays the song HURT by Christina Aguilera for me.
I love her but I just want to make sure that she is still the right type of girl for me

2007-01-12 18:13:57 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my daughter is 21 yrs old very smart. her boyfriend is a dumbass pretty boy. i really dont like him i knew his dad and grandfather bothof them were involved in mafia things. and this guy is no different. he bullys people to to try to make things right. when he was 14 he beat up a grown man by pulling his hair and bashing his head against the ally walls hes been beating up grown men since he was 8 . all the women who dont know him say his looks like a sweet angel but hes not.hes spoild and i really dont like him. i told my daughter that if she stayed with him i wouldnt pay her apt rent and she said shes already precticly living at his place. im not used to her saying no to me shes always done what i tell her to do. what should i do theyve been together for 5 monthes now. and i just found out their engaged and i try to talk to the guy and all he does is give me a cold look and insult me.

2007-01-12 18:12:39 · 21 answers · asked by me 1 in Singles & Dating

It's been three years since my family has fallen apart. My parents divorced after practically being told that if they didn't, they could never have custody of any of their four children. I'm the oldest of four children, and while my younger sisters are well cared for by both mom and dad, my brother is an entirely different story.

He's always been a troublemaker, and is used to having everything he wants. He went into foster care, and my mother fought for custody of him. He was eventually placed back in the house with us, and we thought everything would be fine. I later left my mother's house, and I now live miles away from any family. My mother and I do not get along.

Recently, my mother contacted me and told me my brother was probably going back to Orangewood. He had been living with another family, and I can't get any information from either my mother, or the family he had been staying with.

So now, I want to adopt him, and have him live with me. Is it possible? Help!

2007-01-12 18:11:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

please tell me what I should do?

2007-01-12 18:10:17 · 21 answers · asked by singbling 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it me or am i mean

One of my friends (i dont really like him) asked me whether we wanted to do something next week and i lied to him that i was going away to see my cousin somewhere else so i've just blocked him off my msn. Was this the wrong thing to do

2007-01-12 18:09:55 · 14 answers · asked by Mutley! 5 in Friends

IDo women like this or is this a turn off....?

2007-01-12 18:09:47 · 9 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-12 18:09:14 · 14 answers · asked by Rafael 1 in Weddings

2007-01-12 18:07:58 · 54 answers · asked by algson 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it normal for the roles to be switched in a marriage where the husband has the role of "Not tonight dear I have a headache?"
This headache has lasted for like 14 years

2007-01-12 18:07:06 · 25 answers · asked by Mary Jane 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My dad has been here for 8 days and for starters I have never trusted him as he has a twisted version of reality. I have spent my whole life getting away from the deciet that has become a HUGE part of how they live and has prevented them from growing and maturing. Now he has come 683 miles and I just found out that he has been lieing about me to my mother as though I am some incompetant moron. I have tried to be patient and I don't want to hurt his feelings but I cannot deal with his lies anymore, including to me! How do I say, "Ok, its time to drive home, and not hurt his feelings?

2007-01-12 18:06:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-01-12 18:06:30 · 8 answers · asked by brutal 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a couple ideas for wedding favors for a May wedding. Small crowd - need only about 15 total. Also, we're giving out bubbles at the church.

Which is your fav: Cookie cutter with 'recipe for love', coffee or tea with 'love is brewing' cards, small candle holder with tealight or our color m&m/jelly beans wrapped in organza, 'Seeds of love' in silver pail?

Any other great ideas besides these? Thx a ton!

2007-01-12 18:06:16 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

when men want to end the relationship they choose to withdraw and let it fade away in slience ?

2007-01-12 18:06:13 · 10 answers · asked by ce 1 in Singles & Dating

I posted another question and people asked me what´s wrong.. I say that no one cares because I am freaking out and there´s NO ONE I can reach... No one cares.. I tried wake up my dad and sister... and I treid talking to people online,,, But no one cares to listen!

2007-01-12 18:06:01 · 20 answers · asked by ♥ B ♥ 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

OK So there is this guy that I've known for close to a year and we were aquaintances. Somehow along the way I guess we both began to like each other but we eventually stopped conversing. I still like him and think he's a cool person but he's very distant now. We've endured several incidents... many of them ending with me making a complete fool of myself which is why we probably don't talk anymore. Anyway, I asked him if he would help me and he told me he would buy he hasn't come through for me. Now I need to know how do I handle this. I was trying to slowly work my way back in but it's like he won't allow it. He's a Virgo and I'm a Capricorn. I'm not a real harsh person but I think I embarrased him in front of his friends and now it's like he's distant. Maybe I have scared him away which seems weird to me because he will speak to me from time to time. I don't know... I'm really confused. Are there any psychologists or really smart people who understands people that can explain this?

2007-01-12 18:05:48 · 9 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

i have a really bad habit of bringing up the past. i can't seem to get over it, no matter what i do. whether it be my boyfriend's ex-girlfriends, girls he has liked or complimented, arguments we have had, or just anything like that. i try to let things go, but it doesn't take much for me to get upset about them a couple weeks later. i'm really frustrated and i need some advice on how to just let things go!! :[ advice, not criticism. thank you.

2007-01-12 18:05:43 · 5 answers · asked by Jenniferrr 2 in Singles & Dating

I have several friends who have married Asian women and these American men are happy. Now I know that the women here will try and say well Asian women are submissive to men. don't let the bitter American gals sway your opinion.

Here is why Asian women make better wives than American women
1. Asian women respect men.
2. Asian women are not golddigging hos
3. Asian women don't bi*ch and complain about equality like American b*tches do and then when they are making comparable salaries to men still expect men to pay for 95% of the dates.
4. Asian women don't bash men
5. Unlike American women, Asian women are not sexists
6. Asian women look, act and dress like ladies not like Pete Rose
7. Asian women don't get fat
8. Asian women are not crazy like American hos

The list goes on but I think you get the point here..

2007-01-12 18:04:50 · 15 answers · asked by mike m 1 in Singles & Dating

Does your woman swallow?

And if you're a woman... I bet now you know how Eve left.
Curiousity killed the cat

2007-01-12 18:04:33 · 7 answers · asked by George C 1 in Singles & Dating

An Italian friend of mine, who I've known for 7 months, came to my country recently. When I met him, I really liked him and since he cheered me up many times before, I got emotionally carried away and told him that I love him. He told me he wants us to stay friends because he is scared to lose me just in case he might feel a bit strange after sex. So we decided to be friends. But next day I felt nervous that he might be feeling awkward by me having told my feeling, I cried in front of him on the train and later on, joked about his rejection of me to make the situation better. We then slept 4 times over two days. It was a mutual decision that we slept, but when I saw him off at the airport, I cried again, and I worry if he would still want to be my friends after all these drama. I even told him I love him again. He mailed me and joked about his banana size(our joke), but can we be back to friends? I want to apologise only for my emotional actions in public that I cried.

2007-01-12 18:04:27 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

it kinda gets me mad. Because i started talking to him. And he probably SHOULD have gotten the idea that i like him. And most likely he likes me. but, im waiting and waiting right now, for something to happen. WHAT DO I DO, wait all night?! Somebody tell me why are boys scared to make a first move please??

2007-01-12 18:03:40 · 29 answers · asked by lady with the brown-eyes(8 2 in Singles & Dating