Family & Relationships - 10 January 2007

She has a temper and it has been affecting our relationship. i have confronted her and she said she will change but what can i do to help her change and what can i do to build back my self esteem. bacause when she has a temper she attacks me and puts me down. if i mess up the littlest bit , im not perfect who is, she comes and blows up and degrades me and calls me all sorts of names and uses my personal insecurities to hurt me. she is pushing me away and makes me not want to talk to her or even be with her because of this. what can i do??!?!?

2007-01-10 17:46:12 · 12 answers · asked by help me please 1 in Singles & Dating

The overriding suspicion, of course, is that his mother supports him. He doesn't live with her. He lives in a house that "he" claims he paid cash for. He added that "it's not important where the money came from." Hasn't worked in 4 years. Prior to that time, had a low-paying career and says he stopped working to help out his mother. He is not a full-time caretaker, simply eats dinner out with her several times a week and spends many evenings with her watching rented movies, in addition to talking to her on the phone every day. In other words, it's not a 24/7, or even an 8/7, situation. There appears to be time for him to have a job around his "caretaking" responsibilities. But he doesn't work nevertheless.

If you were thinking about dating somebody like this, wouldn't you want to know where the money is coming from? Is it not important? None of my business? Selfish of me to even consider asking?

2007-01-10 17:44:03 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is it wrong for me to feel like a perv when my dog watches me masturbate?

2007-01-10 17:43:59 · 11 answers · asked by manaboo84 1 in Friends

What does this mean? we have never dated but is this a sign? we live several hours apaart

2007-01-10 17:43:23 · 11 answers · asked by Chelsea R 1 in Singles & Dating

I have had a child support case since 2000.I was 20 at the time and was making $1200 net.I had a phone hearing for support because I was unable to be in Florida.The judge ste the amount of support at $665.That left me with less than $600 to live in NY.I had to quit my job and get an off the book job because how can you commute and pay rent on $600.5 years later I wised up and decided to have my monthly amount modified.Judge said $385 a month.I start a new job several months later on the books and they immediately start garnishing me $665 plus another $300 in arrears.Back in the hole again.Except this time I am a single dad because I went to court for custody of my second child and have to pay for day care and insurance for my dughter and broke again.I call OCSE and they tell me they cannot modiify the order but only reduce what NY added which is the $300.Meanwhile I have paperwork that clearly states that my obligation is $385.$965 for a nine year old is ALOT of money.Where can I begin

2007-01-10 17:40:51 · 5 answers · asked by Jason R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

She is very happy and cheerful most of the time but other times she snaps at me and for no reason. even when i go out of my way to help her she will have some negative comment or get an attitude with me when i am tryign to have a nice conversation with her. i am lost as to why she takes out her anger on me when she is not angry at me. she also has a temper. if i do the littlest things wrong than she blows up. what do i do?!?!?

2007-01-10 17:40:19 · 15 answers · asked by help me please 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-10 17:39:34 · 4 answers · asked by justbeeingmee m 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-10 17:39:33 · 10 answers · asked by sheila 1 in Singles & Dating

i don't think i am good at it
the thing is that i don't touch people as much as i see my friends.they hug
its just that in my family we don't hug a lot,
but i know flirting is a lot of touching his arm and stuff like that, i would love to do that but i can get my self to do that.
help me flirt, and i am 17 so in that age range i don't need a 12 year old telling me her ways

2007-01-10 17:37:36 · 18 answers · asked by Angel 3 in Singles & Dating

sometimes i really am, but i can't find the courage to say it

2007-01-10 17:37:12 · 17 answers · asked by Legend 4 in Family

i have a boyfriend... im not allowed to have one and they found out cause i forgot my phone at home when i went to school and they read my messages. now they want me to break up with him.
i love him and he loves me
i tried to explain to them but they still want me to break up
they called him up and told him to stop dating me any more.
after that we still meet each other secretly at school cause we dont wanna break up... is that the right thing to do? even if we are hiding something behind my parents back?!

2007-01-10 17:36:48 · 27 answers · asked by Yo. 2 in Singles & Dating

My best friend is really cool, duh! He's been such a go lucky guy. recently though he's been kind of sluggish and shyer than usual. He is very protective of me, and all his friends who are girls. He is always getting crap from guys, who talk a lot about woman, and girls at school in an inapropriate light. He isn't made fun of, but harrassed. He gets called 'gay'... the best euthanism. He is gay at all. He is very well mannered, and usually doesn't care. I think the only reason they don't physically attack him is cuz he'd beat them up. me and a few other girls try to cheer him up, we make jokes... with underlining innuendo. He does have guy friends but most, if not all are fair-weather friends. They leave him, or make fun of him when times aren't well for him. He has been on the quiet side... I now believe those other guys are getting to him, since he was going to pound the hell out of one of them after he made a lude commit toward toward him and me....(hint: I'm wear a D-cup, 128lbs.)

2007-01-10 17:35:49 · 2 answers · asked by Booboo doll 1 in Friends

2007-01-10 17:35:04 · 18 answers · asked by ROP 2 in Singles & Dating

is it normal to feel no remorse when i break up with someone?-am i just cold hearted?
when i break up with someone i don't feel sad or anything, but it didn't get too serious to begin with anyhow lol which means it wasn't totally official kind of thing. i am 18 and about a year ago i was really looking forward to having a long-term relationship but somehow now i don't even think about it haha am i still human ?

2007-01-10 17:35:00 · 8 answers · asked by confused 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok, This is how the story goes...About a year ago my boyfriend asked me to marry him..I turned him down and told him I was not ready for marriage yet even though I love him dearly..He then told me he was not going to give up on me and would one day ask me again..I think he is going to purpose to me on Valentines Day.. I'm still not ready to marry him yet till I'm financially stable for myself..We are financially stable together but I want to be finacially stable for myself..I don't want to turn him down again and hurt his feelings Because I don't want him to leave me...Do you think I am being selfish having him to wait on me this long? When do you think he will Purpose again? Men do you usually purpose to women right away after you asked them before? I hope its not to soon..I would like a man's opinion on this women can answer too. any advice is good.

2007-01-10 17:34:26 · 4 answers · asked by goodies100 5 in Singles & Dating

I have been trying to tell my cousin this, but he says I am racist and close minded. I am trying to tell him the truth but he won't accept it.

How can I get him to believe that all asian women hate black men and asians in general hate blacks no matter how they act, rich or not?

2007-01-10 17:34:11 · 17 answers · asked by Mr.DarkFire 2 in Singles & Dating

how do i know if im a good kisser...&& what do i do if i liek a boy and he likes me back (i think ) but im afraid to ask him out cause imafraid of rejection

2007-01-10 17:32:43 · 13 answers · asked by crystal c 1 in Singles & Dating

Move in with the girl i like before getting married just to get an idea of what it would be like......or does dat come after marriage and leave it as a surprise?

2007-01-10 17:32:21 · 11 answers · asked by Mr. Right 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-10 17:31:32 · 4 answers · asked by robert w 1 in Singles & Dating

valentine is around the corner. want to get a lingerie for my girlfriend. what color and what type too. 1 or 2 piece set.

2007-01-10 17:31:26 · 14 answers · asked by (subzero)MK 1 in Singles & Dating

seduction,manipulation,pick up artist TIPS??

2007-01-10 17:31:26 · 6 answers · asked by lazer 2 in Singles & Dating

I live in Slidell, Louisiana, and I had this cousin named Wendy who drowned when I was just a little baby. I'm trying to find an obituary for her, but the thing is, I only know very little about her. I know her first name, how she died, where and between the years of 1988 and 1994. Is there a website that I can go to that could find an obituary based on that information? (Also, if anyone knows who I'm talking about, please PLEASE e-mail me at theprekursor@yahoo.com. I've been looking for anything about her for 6 1/2 years and have found nothing, so any information at all would be greatly appreciated. I also know that she is somehow related to Earl and Rosemary Cox, if that helps any.)

2007-01-10 17:31:07 · 3 answers · asked by Kursor 2 in Friends

I am 13 almost 14 and I am wondering how old before I can make the decision to live with one parent permantely and not have to see the other one at all. My parents have been split up since I was 2 or 3 and I have lived with my mom basically all of my life and she got full time custody of me when I was about 7 or 8. I do not want to live with my father which i only have to spend one weekday every other week and two weekends a month plus holidays according to the schedule. I am to the point in my life where I see what is right and what is not, and I do not want to live with or even see my father because of what he and my step-mom have done to all of my family even his own. Everytime I go over there I feel sad and can not wait to go home. What are the Alabama Child Right's law and how old do I have to be to make such a decision?

2007-01-10 17:30:56 · 5 answers · asked by icv93 1 in Family

ok, this is a couple of questions in one...
heres the info, i girl i dated my senior contacted me a couple of weeks ago asking how i was doing, anyways dat convo end it up with her saying she wanted another chance, but now she has a 3 month old baby which i dont mind at all, question how do i find out if she is looking for me or a father for the baby?
Also i have told her that if it works out i wouldnt want her to work, you know thats the way i was raised....but she wont take up on the offer, how do i get her to accept and be a stay home mom, if it would to work out?

2007-01-10 17:28:02 · 10 answers · asked by Mr. Right 3 in Singles & Dating

Hi.... Looks crazy? I have a toy - boy and I used call it my husband. This toy I bought in Netherlands and hugged for say 12 years or more, from the age of 7. Now I have got the real boy (Of course we are planning for the marriage during June or July this year). Should I leave the toy or still I can keep it with me? Will he feel funny about it? I am nervous to ask this to him.....

2007-01-10 17:27:09 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-10 17:26:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

He is a great guy and iv tried to spice things up but im convinced he is just boring in bed!
Is this mean of me?
What should i do? I do not want to sleep with him any more

2007-01-10 17:25:02 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-10 17:24:23 · 8 answers · asked by Diana L 1 in Family

What is it that impress women when you want to take them out as a guy? What exactly do women expect from a guy?

2007-01-10 17:23:28 · 23 answers · asked by Joe 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-10 17:22:59 · 21 answers · asked by robert 1 in Singles & Dating