Family & Relationships - 10 January 2007

I just turned 19, I'm a virgin, I haven't had a girlfriend, I've only kissed a girl but thats only because my friends had to help me cause I was struggling, I haven't partied yet, I haven't gone on trips to Cabo, Lake Havasu, Palm Springs, Santa Barbara, Morongo, all that typical white teen stuff, I've partied before but only ghetto parties & I ******' regret going to them, why are there so many ghetto people in Californina?, for example people that are into the gangster & hip-hop fashion & lifestyle, the first semester of college just passed & I haven't partied yet, how do underage people get access to alcohol so easily?, c'mon, there are so many people partying with alcohol under 21 & under 18, it's so easy, damn, why was I cursed with this life, I don't drink alcohol, I would only drink alcohol socially, not hardcore at a party but I've never done it cause I have boring friends who don't know where & when typical white people parties are at, or parties that are not hip-hop related.

2007-01-10 18:52:21 · 12 answers · asked by introvertedguy06 6 in Friends

ok people always say that girls get attached to the person that took thier virginity right? well do guys get attached also then??

2007-01-10 18:50:48 · 13 answers · asked by sammie_385 1 in Singles & Dating

what to guys like about chicks?

2007-01-10 18:48:32 · 9 answers · asked by crystal c 1 in Singles & Dating

There is no inbetween you only have 2 options.

1. Ugly face & sexy body

2. Pretty Face & a bit chubby body

2007-01-10 18:46:56 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a husband with an anger and a lying problem. I can't seem to talk to him like an adult because of his reactions to anything. Something feels missing in my marriage and I don't know what it is. What should i do?
?

2007-01-10 18:46:55 · 8 answers · asked by cheree k 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Why do most people think it's illegal? I think people should be less ignorant and more aware of their laws. In the majority of the states it is perfectly legal for a 16-17 year old male/female to have sex with whoever older person they desire, no matter how old they are. So when someone asks: I'm 16 and my Boyfriend is 20? Don't be so quick to say It's illegal. It's called Age of Sexual Consent. Just being informative here. Thanks

2007-01-10 18:46:15 · 10 answers · asked by Nicky_Nolstorm 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-10 18:44:36 · 12 answers · asked by CTM 3 in Singles & Dating

The doctors say say "It" is healthy do i not find my wife sexually attactive anymore? How do i find out.? Is cheating the only option?

2007-01-10 18:44:17 · 11 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-10 18:43:44 · 18 answers · asked by CTM 3 in Singles & Dating

What do you do when you just read a comment on myspace from your boyfriend saying he needs to go out he feels trapped, on his friends page??

2007-01-10 18:43:11 · 8 answers · asked by abella_03 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-10 18:41:30 · 18 answers · asked by Saurav Arya 2 in Singles & Dating

Should I tell her parents or dont say anything about it? It would hurt her if I told them, what should I do?

2007-01-10 18:40:21 · 18 answers · asked by war_geek 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-10 18:40:20 · 6 answers · asked by sinu 1 in Friends

I've sprayed axe on me for a week and I can not get a girl to jump on me! I've seen the commercials which is why I bought it. It just doesn't seem to work! Any suggestions. I would really love girls to just jump on me in the middle of the store or make out with me as we roll down a hill.

2007-01-10 18:39:40 · 9 answers · asked by Vince 2 in Singles & Dating

is it normal to feel no remorse when i break up with someone?-am i just cold hearted?
when i break up with someone i don't feel sad or anything, but it didn't get too serious to begin with anyhow lol which means it wasn't totally official kind of thing. i am 18 and about a year ago i was really looking forward to having a long-term relationship but somehow now i don't even think about it haha am i still human ?
i asked this question before but ppl thought i was a "he", which is not right, i am a "she"....oh right and i dont get like serious and physical with them either
whats wrong with me?

2007-01-10 18:38:49 · 6 answers · asked by confused 3 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend and I of three years broke up in December, she started dating a mutual friend. Now she wants to get back together. I Love this woman with all my heart and I am going to get back with her, but what sort of changes need to be made to prevent this again? We want to spend our lives together and have children and I know I can get over this, I just need some input on how to keep the romance alive, because I believe we just got to busy with work and school and did not have much time together.

2007-01-10 18:38:05 · 11 answers · asked by bzssr6 2 in Singles & Dating

O.K. before anyone starts getting all pissed off! This is what I'm pissed off about..... I just ran across a form and somone pasted "THAT IT IS A SIN TO DATE OUT SIDE YOUR RACE!'' First off what f'ing planet are you from and secoundly no its is not a sin!! You need to get your facts straight before you start assuming what the bible means in your little pea brain head!

My Grandfather is a minister at a very well respected Baptist church in Roswell Ga and I date a BLACK MAN!! AND I"M WHITE and I can not believe that some one so iggnornat could post up some thing like that!!

Well you guys can talk now but that pissed me off I think that if your in love with someone or would like to be freinds with someone it should not matter on what race they are! I DAMN its 2007 and f'ing people are still hung up on this crap! GROW THE HELL UP AND WORRY ABOUT REAL THINGS..... LIKE..... government, war, jobs, education hell what shirt you would like to wear instead of what race is dating who!

2007-01-10 18:37:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what does it take to improve your chances with getting girls to like me?

2007-01-10 18:36:49 · 8 answers · asked by lazer 2 in Singles & Dating

it's about my two boys,when they were kids,they fight and argue but reconcile easily...now that they are in their 20's.they do not fight anymore but they dont talk either. this saddens me .i've tried to ask them wht could be the reason but said it's nothing to worry about.

2007-01-10 18:35:40 · 6 answers · asked by nova 2 in Family

Nothing sexual, but I adore him dearly, he is so mature.

2007-01-10 18:35:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Nothing sexual, but I adore him dearly, he is so mature.

2007-01-10 18:34:53 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-10 18:34:21 · 12 answers · asked by CTM 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-10 18:33:34 · 6 answers · asked by rema p 1 in Singles & Dating

my girlfriends husband who has been separated for 6 years has taken her kids and is trying to take custody of the kids he has accussed her of a bunch of bs understand that he is a wife abusing child abuser and has been manipulated her the whole time since we started dating he backed her in a corner and was going to hit her but because her son was watching he backed off and she got away i called him and told him not to do it again in so many words he tried threats and manipulation but i stopped it in a hurry now he has started a bunch of bs he was told to drugtest and it came up diluted and was allowed to test again after the cut off date is this considered a dirty test and what can be done to get this narcistic jerk from taking the kids and ruining there lifes

2007-01-10 18:33:23 · 1 answers · asked by justplannuts 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what does it mean when you have been dating this guy off and on for two years and inbetween the time you were dating it felt like you were still dating .you did everything together even sexually and he says he loves you but he wants to date around because he is to young to settle down at the moment but he is with you more then his gf(s) when he is dating them .. and when you are dating him he doesnt really invite you to hang out with his friends but sometimes he does .. but mostly its just you and him alone at one of your guys houses.. and also he brings them over to your house with him..but recently he broke up with him gf for me ..after we had this long talk about everything..now does he love me or not..i know he cares for me i can see it in his eyes and feel it in his touch and hear it in his voice.. but i just wonder if he is still hoping for something better and if he really loves me

2007-01-10 18:32:33 · 8 answers · asked by sammie_385 1 in Singles & Dating

I seriously have no idea what to do with myself now that this has happened. We have been together for 9 years. We have a 5yr old son. I finally got the ring. And now I find out that she has been seeing some coworker for the past 2 months and she tells me she loves him. She tells me that she loves me but is not in love with me any longer. I still love her after all the yelling and crying I have done. So far when I look at another woman I can only see deceet. I know that I should just move on and live on. But it hurts so much to think about it or not doing anything about it. I can't stop thinking of it no matter how much I try not to. She wants to have custody of our son but allow me visitation and to have him over with me whenever I would like. For those who has had this happen to them... What do I do? How long will this pain last? Is there such a thing as true love? Or is it only temporary till someone else gets in the way.... Sorry for all this. I just wanted to vent. Thank yiou

2007-01-10 18:30:56 · 9 answers · asked by Chris M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Girl trouble?

My girlfriend and i broke up after just a week of being together. We both still like each other, but her parents found out about our relationship and her being her, broke up with me when they told her to. She said that she would be able to date when she turns 16 in April, but 4 months is a long time to wait. I really like her and i'm willing to wait, but like I said, 4 months is a long time. She won't go behind her parents backs either, which really makes things hard. I really dont know what to do.

2007-01-10 18:30:32 · 7 answers · asked by blackbelt20 1 in Singles & Dating

he found out i had a crush on him and hasn't talked to me for a month so far. he looks at me every chance he gets [often enough (: ].
uhmmmm
-makes moves he's never made before
-talks funny when i tried talking to him
-is nervous around me now
-stops sitting at the same lunch table then comes back a few weeks later
-goes to his locker after school when he never did before[we're in the same aisle]
-basically, very aware of my presentness [:

here's the catch: i called him and the painful phone call ended up the traditional boy way "i gotta go aite?" "ok bye." click.

2007-01-10 18:29:57 · 3 answers · asked by Annie 3 in Singles & Dating

I still love her very much. We have been apart for 4 months now, and we were talking for the first two months, but she did not want to speak to me anymore and she cut off all contact with me for the past two months. I have sent her email after email, and she hasn't responded, I don't even think she checks her email anymore. I am madly in love with her. In the months that we didn't talk, I have tried to move on, I have had many chances with other girls, but I can't do it. I really love my ex. On the evening that she said she didn't want to talk to me anymore, she told me all this stuff about how she was going to spend the rest of her life with me, she said that she still loved me, she told me that we would get back together but it wouldn't be for a long time. Then I left, and I wanted to go back and say my final good-bye, well I guess I kinda caught her off-guard because her new boyfriend just left, and she said that she didn't want to talk to me anymore. I'm lost. Please help? Thanks!!

2007-01-10 18:28:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She works in the medical feild,she is Jamaican,she got her card and i have not seen her since.I need to locate her for some answers and some pc of mind,thanks.

2007-01-10 18:28:53 · 3 answers · asked by vtgrown2000 1 in Marriage & Divorce