is it normal to feel no remorse when i break up with someone?-am i just cold hearted?
when i break up with someone i don't feel sad or anything, but it didn't get too serious to begin with anyhow lol which means it wasn't totally official kind of thing. i am 18 and about a year ago i was really looking forward to having a long-term relationship but somehow now i don't even think about it haha am i still human ?
i asked this question before but ppl thought i was a "he", which is not right, i am a "she"....oh right and i dont get like serious and physical with them either
whats wrong with me?
2007-01-10 18:38:49 · 6 answers · asked by confused 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Seems to me you're afraid of a long-term commitment and sabotage them before they get to a certain point. Being "heartless" is just your defense mechanism as if you don't care. You could be doing this sub-consciously.
2007-01-10 18:45:02 · answer #1 · answered by saturn man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely NOTHING is wrong with you. You are just eighteen. And that's a good thing. Don't strive for a 'long-term relationship'. Date some guys, make some friends, get an education, and I promise you, when you know who you are and what you want in someone else, you will fall in love. More than once, most likely.
2007-01-10 18:51:39 · answer #2 · answered by trai 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe is a bit wierd to feel no remorse at all, but you must remember that you are young.. Maybe you just are not ready to be in a relationship! There is nothing wrong with you, by the way......
2007-01-10 18:44:32 · answer #3 · answered by Roxxy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing's wrong with you it's good to feel nothing when you break up with someone although most people cry when it happens. the end a relationship means the start of a new one so there's no need to be sad, and you have totally mastered this concept
2007-01-10 18:43:52 · answer #4 · answered by van 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm maybe you did'nt get enough love as a child, and now you don't feel like you need it. Or you might not let go enough to actually care. Try letting yourself believe, and really let a person know you. Trust you heart and good luck, I hope your still reachable.
2007-01-10 18:46:27 · answer #5 · answered by shadycaliber 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with you you are just sowing your oats as they would say. you are not ready to settle down and you subconciouse know it. so dont worry you have plenty of time to have serious relationships.
2007-01-10 18:43:51 · answer #6 · answered by stephanie o 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋