What do you do when you just read a comment on myspace from your boyfriend saying he needs to go out he feels trapped, on his friends page??
2007-01-10 18:43:11 · 8 answers · asked by abella_03 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Abella,
You just need to ask him if he needs to go out with his friends more. Don't ask him if he needs SPACE that is the other way of you saying you want to break up.If he presses you..Tell him the truth.
I wonder if its OK with him you were looking at this page...if he knows you do,Abella, Its a hint for you to know he is feeling trapped....that's not good. Talk to him and see if you can work out a deal with him. You both go out with your friends one night and with each other the next....good luck!
2007-01-10 18:55:24 · answer #1 · answered by to tell ya the truth........... 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get off myspace it is for snoops and people who want to present themself to others when in reality people do not really care find out what he meant by it then go from there
2007-01-10 18:54:51 · answer #2 · answered by bzssr6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would confront him about it. Don't yell or whine, just tell him calmly what you found and that you want him to explain what he means.
I am sure you can work something out. It's basically about communicating with him, if he can't say that to your face, then there is obviously already an issue there and you need to discuss this with him.
Good luck
2007-01-10 18:48:20 · answer #3 · answered by ♪ Rachel ♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him some space. He may be overwhelmed with the relationship. If that's not the case then he just wants to met other girls, so you should go out and have fun too.
2007-01-10 18:58:48 · answer #4 · answered by Kam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to him with this, " Honey, I am about to say something to you that you may misread or get embarassed or ..., but I hope you won't bc I would like for us to be open about our feelings, whatever they may be, so that we may acknowledge each other's feelings. If I have said something to offend you, it was meant to hurt, but, I wish you would let me know what it was, if there were anything of this nature at all.... "
2007-01-10 18:52:04 · answer #5 · answered by thru a glass darkly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Brace yourself for a break up. Unless he's trying to be macho.
2007-01-10 18:49:26 · answer #6 · answered by Diablo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would talk to him and try to sort things out if it doesn't work then i'll just slap him lol
2007-01-10 18:46:43 · answer #7 · answered by van 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him what does he mean by that statement?
2007-01-10 18:47:43 · answer #8 · answered by DooGie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋