My best friend is really cool, duh! He's been such a go lucky guy. recently though he's been kind of sluggish and shyer than usual. He is very protective of me, and all his friends who are girls. He is always getting crap from guys, who talk a lot about woman, and girls at school in an inapropriate light. He isn't made fun of, but harrassed. He gets called 'gay'... the best euthanism. He is gay at all. He is very well mannered, and usually doesn't care. I think the only reason they don't physically attack him is cuz he'd beat them up. me and a few other girls try to cheer him up, we make jokes... with underlining innuendo. He does have guy friends but most, if not all are fair-weather friends. They leave him, or make fun of him when times aren't well for him. He has been on the quiet side... I now believe those other guys are getting to him, since he was going to pound the hell out of one of them after he made a lude commit toward toward him and me....(hint: I'm wear a D-cup, 128lbs.)
2007-01-10 17:35:49 · 2 answers · asked by Booboo doll 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I meant not gay... (sorry Alex). I would like to know what I could do for him, and why are some guys picking on him. ( i think they're jealous... I'm not quite sure.)
2007-01-10 17:38:49 · update #1
135 lbs, thanks to the holidays.
2007-01-10 17:39:56 · update #2
I guess he and his so-called buddies are at that ackward stage in life where they themselves are trying to figure out their own sexuality. Your friend seems to be more mature about it, and is probably sick and tired of all the "talk". If I were him, I would find a new group of friends that were more respectful of one another, and girls. Physical attacks won't solve anything. I would also stop teasing him with all the underlining innuendos. If you have interest in him beyond friendship, you should just approach him when you two are alone and build a conversation. Don't even mention sex or relationships. Change the subject and gain his trust and confidence in you. His friends aren't friends at all. They seem to be so unsure about themselves they criticize other people for their own insecurities. If he doesn't want to talk with anyone, just backoff and let him be. Maybe he's having a bad day at home or something you don't know about. All of you need to relax and respect each other, otherwise all you're going to have is friends that really aren't friends at all.
2007-01-10 17:46:16 · answer #1 · answered by gone 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you talk to him and tell him you are concerned about him? He might tell you what's bothering him.
2007-01-10 17:44:56 · answer #2 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋